In this fast-paced modern society, everyone's expectations for marriage are getting higher and higher. Many people believe that a good marriage must be built on the basis of "three views are consistent". However, Yueniang Marriage believes that "lowering expectations" is the key to a good marriage.
Marriage, like a beautiful dance, requires the cooperation of two people. In the process, we need to learn to understand, tolerate, and adapt to each other. When we step into the palace of marriage, we have a bright expectation for the future. However, too high expectations often become a stumbling block to happiness.
The consistency of the three views is not the only salvation of marriage. Everyone is an individual with their own unique upbringing, values and lifestyle. Even the two people who love each other the most will inevitably disagree on some issues. When we try to impose our own views on each other, the marriage will fall into endless quarrels and conflicts.
Lowering expectations does not mean giving up the pursuit of happiness, but learning to face the imperfections in marriage with a more peaceful mind. When we no longer expect the other person to be exactly the same as ourselves, we are better able to understand and accept each other's differences. We began to learn to respect each other's choices and stop arguing over small things.
In marriage, we need to learn to let go of high expectations, to appreciate each other's strengths, and to tolerate each other's shortcomings. We need to understand that no one is perfect and everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. When we lower our expectations, we will find that every small gesture of the other person can be a source of happiness for us.
Lowering expectations is also a kind of tolerance for yourself. We no longer demand ourselves too hard to pursue those so-called perfect marriages. We accept the ups and downs of marriage and understand that life is not always easy. In the face of difficulties, we work together and grow together.
A good marriage is not "the same three views", but "lower expectations". When we learn to face everything in our marriage with a peaceful heart, we will find that happiness is actually all around us. In the process, we learn how to love, how to care, how to support and understand each other.
Let's let go of those high expectations and run our marriage with a forgiving heart. In this journey of love, we will discover that true happiness does not come from a perfect fit, but from our tolerance and understanding of each other. Together, let's use the wisdom of "lowering expectations" to create a beautiful marriage of our own.
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