Ni Ping has served as the host of the 13th Spring Festival Gala, and won the "Golden Microphone" award twice, and was rated as a national second-class actor. However, behind the scenes, her family has experienced a very tragic experience.
Her parents abandoned, her boyfriend split her legs, her children were sick and sold her house**, her husband didn't care about divorce, and she suffered all kinds of torture. She unabashedly admitted at the show: "If I can be born again, I would rather have no parents, no children, and no family." ”
How many twists and turns has her fate gone through? What is the final outcome?
Ni Ping was born in 1959 in Weihai, Shandong, and her family is not wealthy. Because her parents were too busy earning money to support the family, she was sent to her grandmother's house in the countryside to spend her childhood with her.
She was only two years old at the time, but a thought of her parents disgusting her as a burden came to her young mind, which made her seem very sensible and insecure.
Her grandmother is a knowledgeable and intelligent woman, fortunately, little Ni Ping is very cared for and cared for by her, and her grandmother deeply feels sorry for the misfortune suffered by little Ni Ping.
In those difficult years, she didn't feel so lonely by the company of her grandmother, who was like a hero who saved her from dire straits, a person who deserves her lifelong respect and remembrance.
I spent a few happy years with my grandmother. When she was six years old, the family's financial situation improved, and her parents decided to let Ni Ping live with them. She originally thought that she could live a happy and warm life with her parents, but she didn't expect that her parents' marriage would have problems.
Because some small things are quarreled all day long, they quarrel very much, and even smash things, which leads to chaos in the house every day. This atmosphere made Ni Ping feel very frightened, and whenever her parents quarreled, she tried to persuade them to stop, but to no avail.
They went through such days for more than a year, until one day, after another quarrel, the two couldn't bear it anymore and chose to part ways, completely ignoring the child's feelings.
Their resolute attitude had a considerable impact on Ni Ping, and even made her resentful of her parents.
She remembers that her father had always been a man who valued men over women. When they separated, her father resolutely refused to accept Ni Ping, and she had no choice but to live with her mother.
Single mothers, who are under more pressure in life, naturally have no heart to discipline their children, and practice laissez-faire education. But she was very smart, had very good grades in school, and came out on top in every exam. It wasn't until she was 19 years old that she was successfully admitted to Shandong Art School.
After entering university, she began to think about changing her surname as an adult. In her mind, the scene of her parents' quarrel lingered, so she decided to say goodbye to the past through this act. After successfully changing her surname, her life has also changed dramatically.
Her outstanding looks and figure make her stand out from her classmates. She was not proud of her appearance, but worked hard to learn professional knowledge during her time at school. Except for class time, she would lock herself in the practice room and repeat the exercises tirelessly.
After working tirelessly day after day, she finally got a rare opportunity to perform. When the crew of "Female Soldier" came to their school to recruit actors, the director immediately took a fancy to Ni Ping among the many potential actors. Her excellent acting skills not only amazed the audience, but also attracted the attention of other directors in the film and television industry.
After graduating, Ni Ping got a job at a local theater. She has won the appreciation of the leaders with her excellent work ability, and many scripts of film and television dramas have been handed over to her. In her second year of work, she was rated as a national second-class actor.
In 1988, she won the favor of ** TV station and began to work as a program host, and her career has flourished since then. For thirteen consecutive years, he has appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, which is deeply loved by the audience and is affectionately known as "CCTV's No. 1 Hua Dan". At the peak of her hosting career, her work in the entertainment industry was also a leader, with various awards and honors coming one after another.
She is smooth sailing at work, but her emotional road is frequently frustrated and full of ups and downs.
At the age of twenty-three, she was married to a colleague at the time. Since they didn't know each other very well and decided to get married in a hurry just because they had a good feeling, they chose to break up without hesitation when their relationship went wrong.
After her divorce, she focused on her career and did not begin to crave the warmth of family until she was close to her thirties. Due to her work, she had more contacts with her colleague Guo Da and was deeply attracted to his talent, so the two began to fall in love and talked about marriage.
This time, she was more cautious about her feelings, and after careful consideration, she decided that she must be blessed by her elders before getting married. So she took her boyfriend home to meet her grandmother.
Grandma felt that this man was not worthy of her beloved Ni Ping, and the appearance of the two of them was not similar, so she was not very satisfied with Guo Da.
After listening to her grandmother's words, Ni Ping felt very sad and sad, but she always respected her grandmother's opinion, so she decided to break up with the other party.
Soon, she met Chen Kaige at work. When they met for the first time, Ni Ping was attracted by the other party's talent, and Chen Kaige also fell in love with the beautiful and generous girl in front of him. The two showed their hearts to each other, and their relationship developed further.
At that time, my boyfriend was busy with his career and didn't think much about his family and beloved. Ni Ping understands her boyfriend's busyness, takes the initiative to take care of the housework for him, and devotes all her time and energy to him. Even when Chen Kaige's father died, she handled all the affairs alone.
Such a virtuous woman should have countless people of the opposite sex who adore her and want to be her legal partner. However, Chen Kaige never considered this, they have lived together for many years, Chen Kaige has expressed the idea of getting married, but has never put it into action, nor has he made a promise that he will definitely marry each other.
Ni Ping watched the people around her form a happy family one after another, and her heart was full of yearning and longing. She proposed the idea of marriage to her boyfriend many times, but each time she received only one sentence: "I don't believe in marriage." ”
She believed her boyfriend's words so much that she even silently swore that if her boyfriend didn't get married, she would never get married. For the next six years, she silently gave everything for her boyfriend, hoping to spend her life with him, but the reality hit her hard.
She was stunned in place, unable to recover for a long time, when she saw Chen Hong appear in front of her with a big belly, she couldn't believe that her boyfriend, who had been with her for six years, would do such an ugly thing.
She was unwilling to face the reality, so she asked Chen Kaige for the truth, but she didn't expect the other party to answer coldly: "Let's finish, I want to give Chen Hong a home." ”
In this way, a man who has repeatedly declared that he will not get married, but abandoned his girlfriend who has been working hard for him all the time, and entered the palace of marriage with Chen Hong.
After the breakup, it took Ni Ping two full years to come out of this failed relationship. Years later, she mentioned these events in her book, saying bluntly that it was an extremely humble time, losing her dignity and self.
Perhaps it was because Heaven had mercy on the poor girl that another man was arranged for her to come to her.
Photographer Wang Wenlan has been paying close attention to Ni Ping, but at that time, the other party was in love with Chen Kaige, so he naturally had no chance to intervene.
After learning the news of Ni Ping's breakup, he immediately appeared by her side and took care of her meticulously. In order to make her feel better, he often took her out and chatted with her.
Ni Ping urgently needs someone to accompany her, and she is very grateful for the company. After getting the company of the other person, she gradually began to regain her strength and return to her previous state.
After a year of getting along, they entered the marriage hall. Ni Ping is already forty years old, she gave birth to a child for the other party regardless of the physical danger, and named him Huzi.
The husband knows his wife's dedication to the family, especially understands that Ni Ping can't do without her grandmother, and also considers the inconvenience of the elderly, so he specially built a small courtyard for her so that the family can live together.
Everyone thought that Ni Ping had gone through all the hardships this time and would eventually usher in a happy life, but the next misfortune quietly befell her.
As time went on, Huzi gradually grew up, and Ni Ping realized that it was time for Huzi to learn to walk, so she often practiced with her child.
However, in her daily interactions, she finds that Huzi seems to fall for no reason, which makes her confused. Considering the child's health, she decided to take Huzi to the hospital for an authoritative examination.
The doctor said that the child had congenital cataracts, and the results of the examination came back and learned that if they were not received before the age of five**, the disease could become more serious and even life-threatening.
My grandmother once said, "As long as you can stand, no one else can push you down." This sentence has always been deeply imprinted in Ni Ping's heart.
The mother-son relationship is deep, she can empathize with her son's pain, and she also blames herself for not taking good care of the child. Therefore, she resolutely put down her work and took her son everywhere to seek medical treatment.
Ni Ping knows that congenital diseases will not be easy, but she does not give up and always insists on seeking the best way for her son.
To this end, she did not hesitate to spend a lot of time and savings, but the ** effect has not improved. This situation also led to a rift between her and her husband, which made her feel disheartened.
At this critical juncture, she suddenly learned that there was a hospital in the United States that could ** her son's eyes. She immediately asked for leave from the unit and planned to take her son to the United States to receive **.
Although she gave up everything for the sake of her children, this behavior was difficult for her husband to accept. At that time, they had little savings left, and it would cost more money to treat the disease, so he persuaded Ni Ping to accept the harsh reality.
Ni Ping refused, she very much hoped that her son's eyes could be cured. Since she didn't have enough money, she decided to sell her house.
Even if that wasn't enough, she had to go to a business show while seeking medical treatment to raise money. Her husband eventually couldn't stand it and filed for divorce from her.
Ni Ping regards children as the whole of life, because she has never experienced family warmth since she was a child, so she is unwilling to let her biological son lose the love of his parents. Since the child has chosen her as his mother, she is determined to take care of him with all her strength and make him grow up healthy.
At this most difficult moment, she signed the divorce agreement again, and she no longer had any hope for love, her only wish was to ** her son's eyes and bring him a better life.
In the past ten years, the mother and son have traveled back and forth at home and abroad many times in order to seek medical treatment. During this long time, she cried countless times in the middle of the night, but she never gave up her belief in **.
The workplace also took into account her family situation and adjusted her work behind the scenes so that she could have more time to take care of the children.
Ni Ping has experienced all kinds of hardships since she was a child, but in the end she ushered in happiness. Good luck has always accompanied Ni Ping, who had suffered a lot.
According to the doctor's information, Huzi's eyes have a remarkable effect, and it can be said that they have basically returned to normal. Her dedicated care was rewarded, and at the same time, a man who was able to take care of her was ushered in.
She met director Yang Yaya while taking care of her child's illness.
The two have known each other for a long time, and when Ni Ping was worried about the cost of the operation, Yang Yaya felt the same way and gave her many opportunities to perform. Gradually, he developed a special affection for Ni Ping.
At first, Ni Ping was worried that the other party would be prejudiced against the child, so she never agreed to the other party's request. But after getting along, she found that the other party would regard Huzi as her own son and take care of him wholeheartedly, showing the demeanor of an old father.
Ni Ping was already disappointed in her marriage, but she regained the idea of starting a family and giving her children a complete family. Her choice turned out to be very correct.
After the two got married, they respected each other like guests. When Ni Ping proposed to return to work, the husband did not think that it would be difficult for his wife to adapt because she had not worked for a while, and rejected her, but made his wife show a better state in front of the audience through his own actions.
She was re-emboldened and re-emerged on stage without any sense of decadence, just as she had ever been. She once again became a gold medal host loved by thousands of people.
Despite going through countless hardships and obstacles, everything was finally resolved satisfactorily, but in a certain program, Ni Ping still couldn't cry when she recalled the past, and she also said: "If I could start over, I would rather have no parents, no children, and no family." ”
She suffered a lot, and you can imagine how difficult her life was at that time.
Her life was full of talent, she was accomplished and famous, but she experienced countless hardships in her family.
Her kindness and perseverance allowed her to endure, she never complained, and always believed in a bright future, and finally got her wish and ushered in a good outcome.