Introduction: It is said that "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors", that is because you have not met these "good neighbors of China"!
Whether in real life or on the Internet, we often hear some heartwarming stories that happen between neighbors who are not relatives, and these stories are always full of emotion, as if the relationship between neighbors can really be so beautiful.
However, if you happen to meet some infuriating "good neighbors of China", I'm afraid you will be so angry that you will be dizzy, and it is not an exaggeration at all!Let me share with you these stories of "China's good neighbors" that make you angry, which is guaranteed to make you angry!
Netizen @ timely rain:
Hi, that neighbor next door to my house is really giving me a bit of a headache. He always left his sausage and bicycle in front of my house, and the dripping sausage was dripping with oil and the floor was dirty. Although my house is still under renovation and I haven't moved in for a while, I often have to go over to see how the construction is going.
To be honest, not only is it inconvenient to travel, but he hangs the sausage in front of my house, which feels a little inappropriate, right?I've asked him this question a few times, but he doesn't seem to care, and continues to hang things in front of my house. What's the matter?
Pie Reviews:
It's really impermanence in life, hanging sausages at the door!
Heck, even if people haven't moved in yet, they should pay attention to environmental hygiene. At the very least, you have to get some protection on the ground so that the oil drips on the floor and makes it dirty.
What's more, if someone else's owner reminds you, you should at least be a little remorseful, apologize, and then quickly pack up your things. It's a bit infuriating that such a thing can still be taught repeatedly. I hope he can understand and stop hanging things on other people's doors.
Netizen @Jingyi:
Hey, my neighbor is a bit of a headache. Not only did it occupy the middle of our two houses, but the upper and lower floors of the stairs were filled with unused items. It felt like the entire stairway had become his private warehouse.
What's even more speechless is that there is a toilet that has been placed at the elevator entrance for ten years!This is too unbelievable, isn't it?Every time I walked over, I had to carefully go around the toilet, which was really speechless. I hope he can pay attention to the neighborhood and stop making the whole corridor so crowded and inconvenient.
Pie thinks:
After reading **, I was so angry that I didn't know how to get angry from**. Just thinking about it makes people angry.
These are cardboard boxes, and they are also flammable materials, and they are stacked on public passages and fire escapes. This is simply a fire hazard!If communication with neighbors fails, I think you can consider reporting it to the property, or even to the fire department. This situation is too dangerous, someone has to take care of it and make sure everyone is safe. It is hoped that such a report will attract enough attention and make neighbors aware of the serious consequences that may be brought about by their actions.
Netizen @一米sunshine:
It seems that the house on the other side is really a headache. After giving birth to a second child, the stroller is not placed at home, it is placed in the aisle and stairwell, which is really a bit excessive. There is also a gossip mirror hanging on the door, which is also confusing.
When the communication is fruitless, it is true that sometimes for the sake of your own mood, you may have to go with them. After all, it's not a good idea to be unhappy every day, and sometimes going with the flow may make your life easier. Hopefully, they will also be aware of the impact of their actions on their neighbours, as mutual understanding and respect are the foundation of living together. I hope that it will improve in the future so that everyone can live in harmony.
Pie Reviews:
This situation is similar to the previous case, which is the kind of neighbor who leaves things in the public aisle. Strollers, in particular, should be put away in time if they are not in use, rather than in the aisles and stairwells, which is really inappropriate.
However, this netizen's attitude is still very good, and it can be seen that she is not willing to make herself unhappy because of these trivial things, after all, it is really worth the loss to be angry. I hope that her easy-going attitude can eventually resolve these small contradictions and make everyone more harmonious.
Netizen @Chishan:
Looking at my neighbor, it took a lot of effort to get her to move, and at the end of the corridor was my house, and to the left of my door was the neighbor's house.
Pip Idea:
After reading this netizen's description, I can really feel her helplessness and emotion.
Whether that neighbor is a second-hand bicycle or not is really confusing. On the one hand, he put the bicycle on the side and left an aisle for everyone, which looked quite good;But on the other hand, why put private items in public spaces?It's kind of infuriating and funny.
On the other hand, I feel that I get along very well with my family. Our common area is huge, and the left and right households need to go through several meters of corridors to get to the door, but the whole common area is kept clean and tidy, and there is nothing. It's so comfortable.
In fact, there are only a few strange neighbors after all, and there are still many really good neighbors. The key is to get along with each other, and the most important thing is to be able to live together in harmony. I hope that this netizen can solve the problem of his neighbors as soon as possible and enjoy a harmonious and livable life.
Like this example:
Netizen @ Subsequently:
My neighbors and I have been sticking couplets like this for years.
Low EQ replied:
It's too picky, and you have to spell a single to buy a Spring Festival couplet!
High EQ replied:
Neighbors share a pair of Spring Festival couplets, and the neighborhood relationship is very harmonious!
In the case just shared by Xiaopai, everyone has a relatively clear opinion on who is right and who is wrong, and all kinds of comments are relatively one-sided. However, what follows seems to be a bit more complicated, and there is a lot of debate about it. Let's take a closer look!
Netizen @阿九:
I live at number 303 and next door is the neighbor at number 304. A year after I moved in, he offered me to tear down the door on the grounds that my door was higher than his, making him feel bullied. I replied that he could choose to change to a door of the same height, or keep it the same height as the door of my house, and I had no problem with that. But he said he didn't want to add extra costs and offered to let me buy him the same one as my door. I didn't agree, and as a result, he put a shoe rack directly at the door, and the smell that came out every day made me afraid to open the door.
In this case, is it because I didn't change the door?
There are two views that can be seen from the comments of netizens:
One is that you need to say hello to your neighbors when you change the door!
The second is to change the door of your own home, why should you say hello to other people's homes?
According to Xiaopai's opinion, although this case has caused a lot of controversy, in her opinion, there is nothing wrong with changing the door. After all, there is no rule that the door cannot be replaced, and there is no rule to limit the size of the door.
On the premise of not violating the rules and regulations, why can't the door be replaced?This is different from some of the previously discussed cases that occupy public space.
Faced with the situation of everyone "crusading" against strange neighbors, some people began to feel nervous, worried that they would also be called strange neighbors by others. Therefore, they hurriedly posted their situation, hoping to get everyone's help and analysis.
Netizen @Yaran:
In our house, the walls are self-contained, neither occupying the neighbor's passage, nor affecting the fire escape, let alone the elevator entrance. Our house is a combination of ladders, and there happens to be a separate wall next to the door of our house, which is not designed in other houses. Therefore, we put ourselves a shoe cabinet on this separate wall.
In fact, the independent wall of the house does not have any real impact on the neighbors, so there is no moral problem. Xiaopai also believes that this netizen that even if he is misunderstood by his neighbors or thinks that he has done something strange, it must be an unintentional mistake and will correct it in time.
In fact, it is not a difficult thing to get along with neighbors, or even between people. As long as everyone can have good intentions and learn to empathize, I believe that there will not be so many strange things in our society.
As the saying goes, "everything is prosperous at home", and a harmonious relationship between neighbors is also a very important part of interpersonal relationships. As long as we all maintain a kind attitude and treat others kindly, we believe that life can be better!Whether in the family or community, kindness, understanding and respect can create a more harmonious and livable environment.