Envy the 3 types of people in the countryside, do you belong to them? Uncover enviable secrets
People who are debt-free, loan-free, and underweight.
In today's society, taking out a loan to buy a house has become the norm for most people. And those who don't have debt or loans are truly enviable. They can enjoy life without stress and burden. As you can imagine, they wake up every day without having to worry about repaying their bills or feel exhausted from desperately looking for a job. For me, I know this very well, because since I bought a house, I have been saddled with a huge mortgage and have to pay a large amount of money every month. Sometimes, I lost the courage to rest because of this, for fear that my house would be seized because I couldn't pay the installments. In rural areas, although housing prices are lower than in cities, most people still have to pay their mortgages. These people may have to start with a down payment of at least 30% and then carry the burden of a mortgage for twenty or thirty years for the rest of their lives, becoming what modern society calls it"House slaves"。Burdened with huge loan repayments, life is even more difficult for young couples, and even if they are barely able to maintain a normal life, they no longer have free time to pursue their dreams and interests. Therefore, people who are not in debt are indeed enviable, and their lives are much easier and freer.
I have a couple of friends who haven't bought a house yet. Their lives are torn between a good life and a free life, without the pressure of work. Every day, they can enjoy life at their own pace, sleep when they are full, and eat again when they wake up. Such a life is really enviable.
The children are all married and living happily ever after.
In today's society, many people are reluctant to get married and become a large group of singles and bachelors. As for parents in rural areas, they hope that their sons will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes. I have a relative who has a good family, a son who is good-looking, and has a stable job. However, he was reluctant to get married, which made his parents worry all the time. Every Chinese New Year, his parents would look at other families with worse conditions than his family, and see that their children are all married, married and have children, and they are very envious. They themselves are well-off, but they do not have a complete and happy family.
Family with two children.
With the implementation of the three-child policy in the country, there are fewer and fewer families with two children. This is because having two children can provide more care and support for the elderly. I have a friend who has only one child. Some time ago, he was sick and hospitalized, and his son was working in Guangdong and couldn't come back. With his son and daughter not around, he was unable to sign the consent form for the surgery, which caused him a lot of pain. If he had given birth to a second child, maybe the situation would be much better now. So, a family with two children is the envy of many people.
Summary. Nowadays, the focus of rural people's envy is no longer money, cars, and houses, but the above three types of people. Debt-free, light, life at ease; The family is happy and harmonious, which is enviable; Gave birth to two children and provided for the elderly. These people are the envy of the countryside and even the cities. With the accelerated pace of life and increased stress in modern society, many people have realized that money and material things do not bring them true happiness. So those who have no fat on their bodies, have a harmonious family, and have two children, reap more happiness through a simple lifestyle and family relationships. For each of us, perhaps it is time to reflect on our goals, and instead of pursuing too much material satisfaction, we should focus on our inner world and focus on living in harmony with others. True happiness comes from inner peace and the warmth of family. No matter where we are, we can all pursue a better life by changing our mindset and values.