People in the city know these five points.
1. When someone asks you to make suggestions, agree with his decision-making.
This is especially true in the workplace or in meetings with entrepreneurial partners.
If you really point out the problem, he must be embarrassed.
2. You can occasionally say things that make you unhappy, but you can't keep saying them repeatedly, negative energy has been circulating, which will make the people you work with feel annoying!
3. If you borrow money from a friend, you must pay it back on time, and even pay back a little more, because there are really not many friends who are willing to lend you money.
If you can't pay it for the time being, you will pay it back a little bit every month, and if you really don't have any money, you have to contact the other party more, and if you can't get in touch, your friends will slowly not be able to do it.
4. Never show off your wealth, show affection, or bask in happiness, because the highest state of offending people is to show off what he doesn't have in front of him.
5. The closer the relationship, the more attention should be paid to the way of communication, and it should not be familiar and informal.
In order to manage this relationship better, just like when I was a child, my parents often pointed out our problems bluntly, but at the same time, it is easy to create a generation gap.
How to make your city deeper and deeper.
1. When expressing opinions, personal opinions are added for reference only.
2. Always keep the back hand.
3. Learn how to be a man from people who are more successful than yourself.
4. Hide your temper.
5. Speak softly and kindly, and make money with kindness.
6. When the situation is uncertain, maintain a bystander attitude.
7. Don't say never, don't do things.
8. When participating in gossip discussions, listen but do not participate.
9. Consider three options to deal with one thing in advance.
10. Be cautious in your words to avoid being caught by others.
11. Learn to shut up, and there will be a lot less trouble in life.
12. Only praise, not belittle.
13. Always be cautious in words and deeds, and make fewer suggestions.
14. Don't make friends with anyone, you can make friends, but not hearts.
15. Silently alienate people you don't like.
16. Even if you don't like your colleagues, keep your appearance of goodwill.
17. You don't have to answer every question, and some can be silent.
18. Keep smiling, always smiling.
19. For things that you are not sure whether to say or not, choose not to say them.
20. Don't say tough things and don't do weak things.
21. Think about the purpose of other people's questions first, and how to answer them in your own favor.
22. Some things, don't express them too clearly, leave some room for others to understand.