Before the Spring Festival, many couples broke up in a hurry without explaining clearly.
A group of people went home for the New Year and encountered a breakup, and the whole person was not good.
The Spring Festival is the most lively time of the year, and many things are crowded into this time node.
So much so that the scenic spot is crowded, and the plane and high-speed rail are crowded.
Now that the Spring Festival is over, I have just started to return to work, and the front of the Civil Affairs Bureau is also crowded.
On Valentine's Day, a large crowd of people crowded to get their certificates.
As soon as the Spring Festival passed, a group of people tacitly ran to divorce.
This is not a phenomenon in one region, similar situations have occurred in many places.
There are only three or five couples who are married, but there are more than 100 couples who are divorced.
At this time, the divorced person who ran away must not be able to wait for a day.
Just waiting for the new year and the new atmosphere, this damn marriage will be over first.
The pre-holiday cliff-like breakup was once on the hot search.
The queue after the holiday is not far behind divorce.
In this day and age, it's not just like child's play when two people are dating.
Even if you get a license to get married, it means that if you are separated, you will be separated.
Compared with those young couples who can't wait for the Spring Festival.
Couples who can persist until the end of the year have more endurance.
Some people say that there are few divorces in reality, and all the hot things are on the short ** platform.
But looking at the relevant news, in the official data, the divorce rate is increasing year by year.
The reason why everyone has the feeling that the people around them have been living in harmony is because most people don't talk about such things.
Many couples have been divorced for several years without anyone around them knowing.
A friend of mine and his ex-wife divorced after a year of marriage.
Except for a few close friends, he didn't even tell his parents.
When the elders were still cheering for him finally but the major events in his life, the little two had already gone their separate ways.
But the two also agreed that they would go to their relatives and friends' homes to perform a big drama during the New Year's holidays.
It's really like a play, it all depends on acting skills.
As far as I know, many young couples who have married in recent years have gone their separate ways.
When I fell in love, I didn't have a clear distinction, and when I got married, I started the AA system.
Whoever earns the money has the confidence to spend it, and the housework has become a contract system.
Although living in the same house, there is also a legally recognized husband and wife relationship.
But the daily way of getting along is more like a business partner who has to get together in one place.
The cost of visiting the elderly, the cost of living raising children.
Talk about it all early so that you don't get into trouble about these things in the future.
So much so that as soon as many men and women get married, it seems that they are preparing for divorce.
In this era, everyone is more and more reluctant to grieve themselves.
Marriage is no longer a vital life event.
Few young people are willing to sacrifice their happiness in order to maintain their marriage.
When a marriage makes you uncomfortable, what you want is not remedy, but a quick breakaway.
If it had been fifteen years ago, I would have scolded these people.
So selfish, he doesn't think about the elderly and children at all, and he doesn't have any sense of responsibility.
But today, I've learned to respect every adult's decision.
Life is your own, and there is no need to ruin your life for anyone's expectations.
Those who forcibly ** together, they are wronged, and they also make others uncomfortable.
The relationship between husband and wife is a topic that has been discussed for thousands of years.
No matter how enviable the married life is, it can't be a template.
The definition of marriage is different in every era.
If it weren't for the fact that many parents regard marriage as a compulsory course in life.
Many children nowadays are probably reluctant to even enter into marriage.
In the age of the Internet, I have seen more ways of life.
When the choices become more abundant, when we know more clearly what we want.
Marriage is no longer a cage, it is the longest stop on the way to travel.
When you want to start again, it's time to start from here and find a new destination.
If you don't like it, you won't leave, you will just stay here and tear down the post station built by two people.
Broken mirrors are hard to stick to.
If you think about getting married again, you will get married and divorced, which will trouble you and waste social resources.