In Journey to the West, the Bull Demon King married a Rakshasa girl and raised a jade-faced fox as a junior. But the old cow can find the right and right between the Rakshasa Girl and the Jade-Faced Fox, and it can also make the Red Child, the son born to the Rakshasa Girl and the Bull Demon King, not contradict the Jade-Faced Fox.
In terms of dealing with such a combined family, the Bull Demon King is indeed very good! Tang Seng and his apprentices were in Haoshan and met the son of the Bull Demon King, Red Boy. As soon as the red boy appeared, he caught Tang Seng and his apprentices off guard with a flamethrow. Tang Seng turned pale with fright, while Zhu Bajie and Sha Seng hurriedly protected **.
Seeing this, Sun Wukong immediately started a fierce battle with Red Boy. Although the red boy is young, he is very skilled, especially with a fire gun. Although Sun Wukong has great powers, he also seems a little restrained in front of the red child's flame gun.
During the fight between the two sides, Sun Wukong incarnated in thousands of ways, using seventy-two changes, sometimes becoming the appearance of the red child, sometimes becoming the relatives of the red child, trying to disturb his mind. But the red boy was unmoved, and only wanted to hold Tang Seng and eat Tang Seng meat in order to live forever.
Seeing this, Sun Wukong tried his best to compete with the red boy.
But Sun Wukong was defeated by the red boy's samadhi true fire. Sun Wukong had to move rescue soldiers everywhere, the Dragon King of the Four Seas, the Heavenly Soldiers and Heavenly Generals, and the Heavenly King Li Jing and his son. In a word, the relationships that can be found, the rescuers who can be moved, are all used, and the red child is also used, and there is nothing to be done.
In the end, Sun Wukong asked Guanyin Bodhisattva to come forward. Guanyin Bodhisattva used a secret plan or a sneak attack to trick the red boy into the "knife array" before he could be considered to have it.
The red boy is so powerful, I have to admire the Bull Demon King's godson, and I have to admire the Bull Demon King's big pattern.
After the Bull Demon King and the Rakshasa girl gave birth to their son Red Child, they turned into a big radish in seconds. The Bull Demon King empathizes, don't fall in love with the fox spirit of Ten Thousand Fox Mountain. snubbed the Rakshasa and left her to dry in her home in the Flaming Mountain.
But the Bull Demon King didn't leave the red boy alone. The Bull Demon King used all kinds of relationships to find the top god as a teacher for Red Boy and teach Red Boy skills.
From the words and deeds of the red boy, you can know what kind of teacher the Bull Demon King has found for his son, or what kind of cow he has seen with the red boy:
The red child will not only become the appearance of Guanyin Bodhisattva, but also scold the "pus-filled Bodhisattva". It shows that when the red boy is usual, he must have seen Guanyin Bodhisattva, and he has also seen the means of Guanyin Bodhisattva (the impression left on the red boy is that it is not very good, and it is common. ）。
The red child's greatest skill is the true fire of samadhi. Samadhi True Fire is one of Taishang Laojun's housekeeping skills. It is enough to show that the Bull Demon King sent his son to the door of Taishang Laojun.
During the period when Red Boy was studying art with Taishang Laojun, he also had a good relationship with the four great heavenly masters of the heavyweight gods of the Heavenly Court. When Sun Wukong turned into the appearance of the Bull Demon King to deceive Red Boy, Red Boy mentioned Zhang Tianshi (the highest-ranking Celestial Master in Heavenly Court) and asked Red Boy to ask his father about his birthday.
To sum up, the Bull Demon King looked for Xiao San'er and did not abandon his son Red Boy at home. Instead, he found a big cow to learn from his son everywhere and guided his son to succeed in learning.
Later, the red boy occupied the mountain as the demon king, and spat out the true fire of Samadhi to defeat the powerful Monkey King.
On the other hand, on the first day of the Lunar New Year, a Hubei man kowtowed to his son because he didn't give it to his stepmother, and beat his son's head to bleed, is the pattern small!
A man in Enshi, Hubei beat his own son: the tragedy of the Spring Festival New Year's greetings:
Enshi, Hubei Province on the first day of the first lunar month, should have been a happy and peaceful day, however, a family tragedy caused by New Year's greetings cast a shadow on this Spring Festival. Zhou, a seemingly ordinary father, was ruthless to his own son, and the tragic situation of his head breaking and bleeding was shocking.
In the early morning of the first day of the Lunar New Year, Zhou Mouyao followed his father's footsteps, thinking that it was just an ordinary New Year's visit, but he didn't want to become an indelible shadow in his life. Zhou Mouyao's resistance may just be the instinctive rejection of the adolescent child's stepmother, however, this has become an excuse for Zhou's violence. The bloodstained white clothes are the child's helpless cry and evidence that the father is out of control.
Zhou Mouyao, a teenager who has just turned 18 years old, his world should be sunny, but because of this unjustified disaster, he was forced to be accompanied by fear. He was dependent on his father and saw him as his only support, but this dependence became so fragile at that moment.
As a father, Zhou, as a teacher, his four marriages may be his personal choice, but as a father, he should be responsible for his children. This kind of violence is not only a corruption of personal morality, but also a desecration of teachers' professional ethics.
After the incident, Zhou Mouyao was taken to the hospital for emergency treatment, and his mother called the police and sought legal assistance. Faced with her son's serious injury, her heart was like a knife. And Zhou, although he finally reconciled with his son, reconciliation is not the same as forgiveness, and the scars in his heart may never be healed.
This Spring Festival, Zhou Mouyao and his family had an extremely heavy time. They need time to heal, to accept, to regain that lost affection and trust. Hopefully, time will heal all the wounds and get the family back on track.
The New Year's conflict between Zhou Mouyao and his stepmother: the depth of love and respect**.
I miss my relatives every festive season, and this is especially true during the Spring Festival. At this moment of reunion and harmony, the controversy over whether Zhou Mouyao should pay New Year's greetings to his stepmother continues to ferment on the Internet. Some netizens believe that Zhou Mouyao's approach is really infuriating, since he is unwilling to perform even the most basic New Year's greeting etiquette, how can he be expected to take on the responsibility of providing for the elderly?
However, it's not that simple. Some informed netizens revealed that the stepmother had bought a car worth more than 200,000 yuan for Zhou Mouyao, and Zhou Mouyao asked Zhou Mouyao to pay New Year's greetings in order to please his current wife. What is involved here is not only the etiquette of the New Year, but also the trade-offs and emotional entanglements between people.
In this whirlpool of emotions and interests, we cannot simply judge who is right and who is wrong. For Zhou Mouyao, the relationship between him and his stepmother may have long gone beyond the simple mother-son relationship, and has become complex and delicate. And as a stepmother, should she force such an adult child to fulfill the so-called "etiquette"?
We must recognize that forcing children to go for New Year's greetings is not a wise choice. Children have grown up and have their own thoughts and emotions, and they have the right to choose who to be close to and who to distance themselves from. On this issue, both the stepmother and Zhou should deal with it with a more mature and rational attitude.
After all, harmony in family relationships cannot be maintained by momentary compromise or coercion, it requires long-term commitment and understanding from both parties. The contradiction between Zhou Mouyao and his stepmother is actually a common social problem: how to find a balance in complex interpersonal relationships, and how to make the right choice between emotions and interests.
This New Year's turmoil shows that the father who beat people is too small. It's just that the stepmother bought a car for Zhou Mouyao, and Zhou, as a father, forced his son Zhou Mouyao to kowtow to his stepmother in order to please his stepmother. Zhou just pleases his wife (stepmother) for this, which shows that he is too incompetent. The stepmother competes with the juniors, and she is too small-bellied.
Looking at the bull demon king, although he found the little third vixen, he did not waste his son's education, but did everything possible to find a relationship with the disciple and gave his son to the great god as an apprentice (artificially reducing the chance of his son coming into contact with the vixen's stepmother). The great god trained the red boy to be a bull breaker, and the king of the mountain dominated the party, like the emperor of an independent kingdom (if the red boy lives today, he has his own empire, who cares about the stepmother's car?). ）。
The Bull Demon King did not force his son to "kowtow" and "bow" to his stepmother, but let it go. As a stepmother, the vixen didn't care about the red child, why didn't he come to see him (the Bull Demon King coordinated well in the middle, so that a family of goblins got along in harmony).
Cow. The Bull Demon King himself wandered among the Rakshasa Girl, the Vixen and the Red Child, rode the Blue Water Golden-Eyed Beast (similar to today's Rolls-Royce), drank fine wine, met friends, and lived a happy life that the gods envied!
If men deal with their own family affairs, they must have the pattern of the Bull Demon King and have a long-term vision. Even if he was looking for a junior, he never neglected his ex-wife's children, and the Bull Demon King made every effort to ensure that the children were successful.
In addition, men must not be too soft on their own women, whether they are daughters-in-law or juniors, and listen to the old ladies babbling, like a brainless person beating the child, so that the child left by the ex-wife will succumb to the stepmother!
Look at the Bull Demon King, let the children left by his ex-wife, Xiao San'er and his ex-wife develop within their own one-acre and three-point land. For example, the Rakshasa woman sits on the 800-mile Flame Mountain, uses a banana fan to call the wind and rain, just like the queen of the Flame Mountain, and lives a good life. The Red Child occupies the Trumpet Mountain, and the mountain god of the Trumpet Mountain obeys the Red Boy for his servants. The fox spirit occupies Wanhu Mountain and enjoys glory and wealth.
Then, try to keep their well water out of the river. Is it necessary for the Bull Demon King to force the red boy to kowtow to his stepmother?
The reason why the Bull Demon King is a cow is because he works hard to make sure that his children are successful, and his ex-wife or mistress can live happily because of his relationship with you.