Indoor observation of life
In the relationship between the sexes, some people gradually reduce their contact, not because of the loss of affection or distance.
They said: "Some people gradually stop contacting, not because they are faint or far away, but because they do not have a suitable identity to accompany them, there is no suitable reason to contact, there is no suitable opportunity to meet, they can only keep it in their hearts, occasionally recall, occasionally miss." ”
For those who have once liked you deeply, you may have been a source of their happiness, but also the beginning of their pain. They have pursued you with great dedication, but for various reasons they have not been able to do so. It's not that they don't love anymore, but they don't dare to love anymore.
They are afraid to go through the pain from hope to disappointment again, and they are afraid that what they will get after giving sincerely is an unforgettable pain. You know what, giving up on someone you love dearly can feel like having a serious illness. He is well from his illness, but it is difficult to regain his former happiness.
After this, no matter how nice someone they meet, they will always subconsciously run away. Medical data shows that it takes a long time to forget a loved one. Even if you wake up in the morning and still think about the person you think before going to bed at night, it will take at least 6-8 months to gradually forget this attachment.
And to completely forget a person, it takes 7 years. It may only take a minute to fall in love with someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. People who have loved with their hearts cannot forget.
For those who are special but can't be together, there is no greater regret in life than this. They want to pester you and give up on you; I want to stop contacting you, but I'm afraid of losing your news.
Some choices in life are tough, especially when you're letting go of someone you love. The feeling may be heartwarming when you say goodbye, but you also understand that there is no future between you. Sometimes, I like someone deeply, but I don't want to be with them anymore.
When I turned to leave, I felt relieved, but in the blink of an eye, tears were streaming down my face. This kind of complex emotions sometimes makes my heart twist. I'm really reluctant to give you back, but I'm not going to go after anything that doesn't work out. That heartache, I don't want to try again.
There is a person living in everyone's heart, maybe they love deeply but can't connect, maybe they can't forget but can't be together. We all have unspeakable regrets, which are hidden in our tears, years and stubbornness, and finally disappear into the sea of people.
In the world of love, people who are destined will always meet, and people who are not destined will not meet. The origin is gathered, the end is scattered, and everything follows the fate. Someone gave everything for me, but I was indifferent; Someone didn't do anything, but I was willing.
I've loved you for so long, but I haven't gotten a decent explanation. I just feel a little bit sorry. Just when the wind blows, you haven't come, I haven't loved.
As for liking you, I'll make a joke. At the end of a relationship, it is often the person you love the most who quit first. It's not that they don't love anymore, but the more they love, the more painful it becomes. I'm glad I met you, but I'm sorry we just met.
I tried my best to get closer to you, but before I knew it, we had come to an end. I like Mr. Luo Xiang's words very much: In fact, there is nothing to regret, even if many things can be repeated in time, with the mind and experience at that time, I will still make the same choice and avoid the same result.
People learn to be obedient in failure. Instead of holding on to the past and regretting it, it is better to wipe your tears and move forward.
I wish I could make fewer invalid decisions and not regret my decision. After all, dwelling on the past will only miss the beautiful sunset and starry sky.
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