Exploring springWhen praising begonia flowers, he talked about jade, and believed that jade, like begonia flowers, was incomparable to spirituality. And in Bao Dai's name, there is also a jade character, so it can indirectly praise the character of both of themGao Jieand the soul is noble. Exploring springIt is believed that ordinary worldly things are difficult to compare with begonia flowers, so few people can compare with Bao Dai. In ".Dream of Red MansionsIn it, the love between Bao Dai is the most harmonious and flawless. However, things are often absurdXue BaochaiThe appearance of breaking the perfect combination between Bao Dai.
If the harmonious love between Bao Dai can continue, how beautiful it will be for them to live a quiet life. However,Xue Baochaibut like Cheng Biting Jin, he intervened in their love life. Xue BaochaiClaims to have gold, so it can be withJia Baoyuof jade, and even further self-exaltation, claiming that only with jade can she be matched. All this for the spirit of nobility such asLin Daiyuof people are caught off guard. She was alone, her parents were dead, there was no one to call the shots for her, and she didn't know what to do with herJia BaoyuMatch. Thankfully,Jia BaoyuHe does not choose a partner based on the wealth of the woman in the boudoir, he pays more attention to the natural character of the women, the natural beauty. Therefore,Jia BaoyuRightLin Daiyu's temperament and character are appreciated, and he regards her as a confidant. In this way,Xue BaochaiIt's hard to get intoJia Baoyuin the depths of the soul. Baoyu just sawXue BaochaiBeautiful skin, but I wish I could grow thereLin Daiyuof the body, rightXue BaochaiNot at all good. At first, so to speakJia BaoyuWhen he saw Sister Bao, he forgot about Sister Lin, but then he only had in his heartLin Daiyu。In Baoyu's heart, he exalted himself at firstXue BaochaiI could only watch myself fall from the altar. In addition, the perceptions of others also take a toll on their relationships. Xue Jia saidXue BaochaiEnough to work withJia Baoyumatching, similar to the saying that the golden lock is matched with the treasure jade, which naturally also makes people think of other factors that are right for everyone. Whether there is a common foundation, whether the appearance is compatible, whether the personality is suitable, etc. Although the author did not go into detail ** people's discussions, butLin DaiyuA joke can be glimpsed, ieGolden and jade relationshipThe absurdity and the mismatch between Bao Dai. This is becauseXue BaochaiThe cold incense points out the shortcomings of Baochai, andJia BaoyuBut it is his preciousness. Baochai is sick,Jia BaoyuBut not. Jia BaoyuThe nobility of the spirit and the nobility of the soul are embodied in him, whileXue BaochaiThere is only secular money worship. In this world, it is difficult to enjoy the pleasure of fame, and self-exaltation will only make people look down on it. The only way to happiness is to focus on improving one's inner cultivation in a low-key manner. It's a pity,Xue BaochaiFrom the very beginning he claimed that he could work withJia Baoyumatched, it's really contemptible.
In ".Golden and jade relationshipstory,Xue BaochaiI always thought I was withJia BaoyuIt's the perfect pairing. She prides herself on having gold and can work withJia BaoyuShe thinks that only having jade can match her. However, this idea is simply ridiculous. Lin DaiyuI couldn't stand this kind of ridiculous remarks, so I pointed it out with a jokeXue BaochaiThe disadvantages. WhenJia BaoyuAppreciatedLin DaiyuThe strange fragrance of the body,Lin DaiyuAsked teasinglyJia BaoyuWhether there is a warm fragrance. Jia BaoyuI don't understand, soLin DaiyuJokingly: "Stupid, stupid!" You have jade, people have gold to match you, you have cold incense, don't you have warm incense to match? This passage cleverly willLin DaiyuRightGolden and jade relationshipThe evaluation is artistic, and at the same time alluded toXue Baochaidisadvantages. Xue BaochaiPretentious, he thinks that only with gold is worthyJia Baoyu, but did not take the initiative to understandJia BaoyuThe real idea andInner world。She only cares about superficial wealth and physical appearance, and ignores itJia BaoyuEmphasis on character and soul.
Through the ".Dream of Red MansionsBao Dai andXue BaochaiWe can see the different perceptions of the relationship between the two. Exploring springTo Bao Dai'sGao JieThe praise makes Bao Dai's character affirmed in the hearts of readers. However,Xue BaochaiThe appearance of breaking this perfection and she exalted herself to think that only with gold could it beJia BaoyuMatch. This kind of self-exaltation and weak inner cultivation is despicable. Lin DaiyuA joke was pointedXue BaochaiThe shortcomings were revealedGolden and jade relationshipof absurdity. This makes us have to think, is Jin Yu really the best match for marriage and love? Is it only appearance and wealth that are the determining factors? Actually,Golden and jade relationshipIt does not mean that two people are a perfect fit, but the inner quality of people and mutual understanding are more important. From this point of view, Bao Dai's combination is more perfect, because they understand and appreciate each other's inner beauty, rather than just looking at the superficial external conditions. This reminds us to focus on inner qualities when choosing a partner, rather than being fooled by superficial conditions. Only on the basis of truly understanding and appreciating each other can a truly happy relationship be established.