Female, 30+, waste one, unmarried, alone, no friends, social fear, no education, lying in a rental house, unemployed, reading books every day, reading philosophy, eating steamed buns when hungry, with the old godmother, in fact, I love to eat rice, no rice cooker, the requirements are high, and the steamed buns are also good. I like minimalism, the simpler the better, a waste like me, nothing, just spray it.
Haha everyone is so cute, update, meditate early in the morning, do tai chi in the evening, and read books at other times. The old godmother was removed from the shelves by me, not to mention that the oil is expensive, and I replaced it with pickle gnocchi, which is called a crisp and can be eaten for a long time. For meat, when I was a child, I ate it either in a dream or nausea, and I dreamed of a group of little pigs chasing me, which was too scary, and I have been a vegetarian until now. Don't look for a partner, don't cause trouble to people.
Come up and take a look, the temperature has cooled, everyone pay attention to keep warm, eat and drink well.
Recently, I've been watching **, chanting. I remembered that I had a fate to meet a ** before, and I had a good understanding and became a disciple. refused, only to feel that his cultivation was not enough, his internal and external desires were heavy, he was unqualified, and he was ashamed. Turning to the present, obey the destiny of heaven, and be pure and clear. Seeing that everyone said that the food is simple and not nutritious, this is much better than the famine years, enough, very good, there is no need to worry about what to eat every day, which saves time. As for whether there will be hair loss, no hindrance, light loss, there is no need to turn on the lights in the house, it comes with light, environmental protection and power saving, excellent. In terms of clothing, just those few pieces of clothing, dark colors, and you don't have to pick and choose what to wear. It is said that it will not be sloppy, no, although we are poor, we still want to be clean and tidy, and it must be refreshing and not greasy. It is said that it is not depression, depression can be common people, how can we have that self-confidence, how much self-cultivation, how high the state of mind, how keen insight, how soft and delicate emotions, and more self-sacrifice for the sake of others. Everyone has their own path to follow, and it is not difficult for people to disobey the public, but it is difficult to be for themselves, and it is right to be worthy of their hearts. Do you say it's hard to be a human being? It's not difficult, it's hard to be a pure talent.
In the past few days, I have a fever and cough, it should be yang, there is no thing to detect, there is no medicine, plus the menstrual period, the discomfort is raised, and I have to resist it. Tomorrow is New Year's Day, I wish you all a happy New Year's Day.
Happy Chinese New Year! New Year's greetings to everyone! Healthy Year of the Rabbit!
The rent is almost due, ready to go to a place with mountains.
My mother's best friend's son is wasteful, lazy and stupid!
In 87, we are the same age, 36 this year, and we have been unemployed for 10 years! The aunt was angry to the ...... terminal cancer
1.After graduating from a private university in Beijing, he worked for less than two years and has been lying at home, playing games and flirting with girls.
The first girl, with a credit card overdraft of 80,000, ate and drank, bought a lv, bought a watch, went out to travel and dumped him, the bank frantically demanded money, and the aunt pulled away directly for 120 for the first time. The second sister, with a credit card overdraft of 60,000 yuan, operated the same as the first one, but borrowed a small loan and repaid more than 80,000 yuan with interest. The aunt was admitted to the hospital again and was diagnosed with lymphoma. 2.My aunt begged me to help her son find a job, and I entrusted a classmate with whom I had a good relationship, but on the day of the interview, I asked if I could change the day, and I asked why? He said, because it's raining outside! That's right, the drizzle probably doesn't need an umbrella! As a result, my classmate told me that he had never looked at the interviewer during the whole process!
3.At present, Kahuabei owes 40,000 yuan, and her aunt urged her to find a job, and she went to a courier sorting center and worked in less than 3 days before being driven back.
4.Living in a tube building of less than 15 square meters, it used to be a Japanese soldier's dormitory, and the house in the 30s of the last century is about to become a cultural relic. (Insert a mouth, the Japanese soldiers are really short, and I have to bow my head to straighten my waist when I enter the door with 183).
5.At present, she is still eating and waiting for death, and her aunt has lived for most of her life and has 20,000 yuan left in her hand. The old man also had a cerebral infarction, and he was probably angry.
In the end, the aunt sighed that raising children to prevent old age ended up raising a waste!
I think this son is here to collect debts, and my aunt is really not the kind of person who is particularly used to children, since I was a child, I have been in the same Olympiad class and English class with him, and I feel a little bit like Adou can't support ......the wall
One year, during the Spring Festival, I happened to pass by the tube building of my aunt's house, and my mother asked me to go up and send a box of strawberries, less than 300, and my aunt was crying, and her eyes lit up when she saw my husband (who was her boyfriend at the time).
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Update on something I know, my mom told me.
1. The girls we talk about are all known from online dating and playing games, purely for money, helping others to recharge money, I don't know how much, but they are all overdrawn. Later, I met all kinds of brushes, and my aunt paid back
2. My aunt is better than my mother, and she is very economical to buy a house for her son to get married, but the down payment was squandered by her son, and later she spent more than 200,000 yuan to buy a military house as a wedding house, and now she rents it out.
3. The aunt's husband lives semi-self-care after cerebral infarction and can only go to the toilet by himself, but his son never cooks for his father, so he scrambles eggs or boils instant noodles when he is hungry, and returns to his 6-square-meter house to continue playing games.
4. When my aunt was hospitalized, I took my mother to see her (there was no epidemic at that time), and his son sat there asking questions and answers, not looking at me, looking east and west.
5. My aunt has rarely contacted my mother this year, she has a hard time talking, she rarely goes out, and told my mother that she has no money to go to the hospital, and it is useless to go, and the remaining 20,000 yuan is left for cremation. No more ...... said anything about her son's condition
It is better to raise this kind of son than to strangle to death. Over, there's nothing else to say
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A lot of comments say it's an education problem, but I don't think it's exactly, it has a lot to do with the fact that he sucks at it.
1. When I was a child, I went to extracurricular classes together, and I really didn't feel very smart, especially the Olympiad, I also gave him a lecture, and I always couldn't keep up.
2. My mother and aunt, high school, technical secondary school (in the 80s, after high school, technical secondary school belonged to the highly educated) classmates, graduated and entered the factory together. My aunt is very cheerful, she takes good care of my mother, and she is definitely not the kind of selfish person. I love my son very much and I don't particularly dote on it, but in comparison, my mother doesn't care about me as much as she does for her son, for example, cram schools are recommended by her.
3. My aunt's husband is really not very good, his personality is a little paranoid, I don't have any impression of him, according to my mother's description, he is the kind of person who is relatively cold, calculates money, and aunt has to explain to him clearly when he spends money. I kept the salary card before the cerebral infarction, and handed it over to the aunt after the cerebral infarction. Spend more money and throw your face, but there is no domestic violence. I don't know if the son inherited his father's personality.
4. Auntie's son is indeed not a material for learning, high school at his own expense, should have spent a lot of money to make up for classes, he has not passed the private three books, if you go to a technical school, learning a craft is not life is different. Maybe the huge difference between his own ability and reality has led to his current appearance, and parents really have to recognize the reality.
Afterword: Back then, my aunt and my mother joked that they would set a baby kiss in the future, and kiss and kiss. But after the college entrance examination, my aunt never mentioned this stubble again (I was 300 points lower than him).
It's kind of fate......
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Updated October 19.
Originally, my mother wanted to visit my aunt on the weekend, because the child had cram school on the weekend, so she went to her aunt's house a little earlier after work, and she couldn't help but sigh .....
1. My aunt has a big bag of water on her neck and pumps water regularly, her cancer has metastasized to her lungs, and her mental state is obviously very bad. The old cerebral infarction is a bit serious, and the stool barely goes to the toilet, and the urine is in the house, and the aunt pours it. The house has a somewhat smelly taste, you must know that the aunt was really a clean and neat person before.
2. I helped my aunt and son introduce a job, as long as he is willing to go, he will basically ask for it, labor dispatch contract, 3800+, the warehouse manager easily does not need to exert physical strength, including food and housing, there are five insurances and no gold. He rejected me, the reason for refusal was that my parents were not in good health, and my aunt looked helpless and said: Why don't you try it? My son went to the toilet without squeaking and didn't come out until I was leaving.
3. The aunt found someone to tell her fortune and said that she was too bitter, and she originally received 100, and she received 20. The aunt said that even the fortune tellers took pity on her.
4. In later generations, it will be handed over to her sister, and the money will be saved by burying the cemetery directly at sea without burial. Life does not bring death, and there is nothing to think about in this life. In fact, at a deeper level, the state should reimburse more than 40,000 yuan for funeral expenses and pensions, which can help her son pay off the remaining debts. Now the pension for two people is more than 6,000+ + and the rent can be 8,000+ per month, the living expenses are 2,000, the medicine is 1,000, and the remaining 5,000 is still for the son's Huabei, which should be paid off in half a year. If you can't pay off the funeral expenses, you can top it up.
4. The first time I entered my son's room, it was gray, and outside the window was an iron external escape ladder (used for rapid assembly in the Japanese barracks in anti-Japanese dramas), very depressing, if I stood outside the window in the middle of the night, I seriously suspected that feng shui was not good!
5. Before leaving, I chatted with my son downstairs, and the house was too depressing. is still asking and answering, the high and low shoulders are more obvious, and I feel that the whole person is wrinkled. I asked him to be the storekeeper, but he was still silent and didn't answer. In fact, he is not bad or violent, but he feels emotionless.
6. Auntie is still alive, if there is no old man who can't take care of himself, the old man's life can be imagined. The old man of the aunt has a little problem, and he is even more paranoid after the cerebral infarction, for example, he must sit downstairs if he wants to sit for a while, he has to go down to sit with an umbrella in the rain, and he must drink egg soup every Wednesday. My aunt said that when I was younger, I sometimes did this, but it was not as serious as it is now.
It shouldn't be changed in the short term, and the older people get, the more they believe in their fate, and they do their best to know the destiny of heaven, and believe in karma and the ....... karma and cause and effect