In everyone's life, as long as there is progress, there will be resistance. I am often asked what to do if I have worked hard or am I still stuck? Although specific problems are analyzed in detail, the fundamental response methods are still much the same. When people are in trouble, stick to these 3 steps and you can get out as soon as possible.
In adversity, the most painful thing is your own frustration.
When people encounter difficulties, they are like being stuck in a quagmire, wanting to do things hard and trying to break through, but they are repeatedly frustrated, unable to exert their fists and feet, feeling pressure and anxiety, and their instinctive psychological reaction is to resist and struggle.
The "Book of Changes" rejects the hexagram and describes the state of adversity as: "Heaven and earth do not communicate, and all things do not pass; The villain is long, and the gentleman is eliminated. ”If there is no traffic, it will be blocked; If there is a blockage, it will stagnation.
The villain represents negative energy, and the gentleman represents positive energy; When entering adversity, negative energy is increasing and positive energy is decreasing.
Once a person enters adversity, no matter how hard you try, it is difficult to have immediate results. Because the energy of the current situation is a state of reduction, which is not conducive to success. Therefore, when we feel pressured to do things and cannot perform, the first thing that comes to mind is not to complain or blame ourselves, but to accept adversity. Negative emotions often bring negative energy and make the situation worse. Accept adversity, accept this reality, and then, quickly adjust your emotions, stabilize your mindset, calm down, and calm down your frustrations. Remember:At any time, it is useless to be anxious and anxious, only with a stable state of mind can we think of the best solution.
The ninety-three words of "Thai Hexagram" say: There is no peace, no return, and there is no blame for hardship.The vicissitudes of life are the laws of nature. Ups and downs are the law of life. The so-called "no peace, no return", when a person is riddled with bad luck and feels that he is at a low point, that is, when he begins to go uphill or even strong.
We must be firm in our beliefs, many outstanding people have climbed out of the quagmire and reached heights that they never dreamed of. In this process, we must be "blameless", believe in the power of perseverance, and firmly control our destiny in our own hands.
"Sleepy Hexagram" said: It is dangerous to say, sleepy but not lose its place, Heng, its only gentleman?The water is trapped, and the upper and lower hurdles are the image of a person trapped in a quagmire. At this time, people often have a sense of powerlessness, and bad emotions follow one after another, leading to everything going wrong and falling into a vicious circle.
However, we can see from the troubled hexagram that the basic nature of the upper hexagram is "to say", to say "joy", so to say "to say" means to maintain a joyful state of mind in the difficult situation. "Sleepy but not losing one's place" means that although you are temporarily trapped, you should not lose the direction of your heart, believe that the trough is the starting point for yourself to go higher, and all difficulties are only temporary.
An optimistic attitude is always the strongest for a person!
In the "Book of Changes" at school, I realized the above pointsIn fact, the wisdom of the I Ching is not only this, we Chinese are really the new Yi Chinese nation. Because if you look closely and examine carefully, it is not difficult to see that most of what they think and do starts with the I Ching and follows the Yi Li.
I Ching is a movie that can make people know their fate and fortune and the book of wisdom! This is the source of the Great Dao, which was also known as the Imperial Art in ancient times, serving the Emperor's House. The more successful you are, the more you will be able to comprehend the wisdom of the I Ching. Since ancient times, those who have achieved success have not been profoundly influenced by the wisdom of the I Ching, and have used fortune to achieve success. His success is actually like a shadow.
There are sixty-four hexagrams in the I Ching, and each hexagram is a kind of daily life. has helped yourself to deduce the outcome of your choice. Many things, which seem to be good luck, are actually traces that can be found, and people have to read the Book of Changes all their lives.
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