The Chinese New Year is like a lively dream, with a strong sense of nostalgia and joy, full of the smell of fireworks in the world. In this dream, we saw the traces of the year, felt the flow of the years, and experienced the warmth and affectionate humanistic care of home.
A lively dream began with the busyness of thousands of households in Layue. It's cured meat, it's window flowers, and every corner is announcing the arrival of the New Year. The cold of winter is dispelled by the warmth of the stove, and the choking smell of fireworks and the smell of food wafting from the kitchen are mixed into a unique New Year's taste, which is the smell of home, that is the taste of the New Year. In the streets and alleys, everyone's face was full of hope and joy. Every Chinese New Year, no matter what profession you are in, you will take time to return home and reunite with your loved ones, and the process is like a big party, full of laughter.
The down-to-earth element lies in the customs and traditions of the Chinese New Year. Whether it is rice cakes, dumplings, couplets, firecrackers, or New Year's celebrations, visiting relatives and friends, each of them carries a profound cultural heritage. Rice cakes symbolize the high of each year, wishing the life of the coming year to a higher level; Dumplings present the meaning of wealth and auspiciousness, making people look forward to all the best in the new year. Couplet.
The ambiguous period after a breakup is a complex and delicate stage for many people. This is because, although the two parties have ended their official relationship, in most cases, that longing and concern are still there. They may no longer be a couple, but their feelings for each other have not completely dissipated due to the breakup, on the contrary, the emotions tend to be stronger and more tangled during this period. This period may feel a little "more upper".
First of all, the ambiguous period after a breakup is often accompanied by strong memories and longing. When two people have just broken up, the bits and pieces of the past will echo in their minds repeatedly, and those laughs, eyes, gestures, and even quarrels and tears will leave deep traces in their hearts. In this case, although the two parties have separated, the thoughts and concerns for each other will be stronger. At this time, the connection and getting along is more like an emotional sustenance, and it is also a kind of remembrance and retention of the past.
Second, the undefined state of the ambiguous period can also make people feel a kind of vacillation, and this sense of uncertainty may make people feel more "up". Because during this period, the two parties are neither lovers nor friends, and this ambiguity gives rise to conflicting psychological feelings: on the one hand, the fear of over-committing and the fear of being hurt again; On the other hand, it is difficult to give up, and I hope to seek the opportunity to get back together.
In addition, the ambiguity of this period is more like walking a tightrope, which requires great caution, and it is easy for people to feel pressure and apprehension. Not only do you need to manage your relationship with your ex, but you also have to think about how you can explain the situation to the people around you, especially friends or new crushes. And during this period, both parties need to find a balance to minimize the harm to each other and themselves.
However, the ambiguous period after a breakup is not all pain and entanglement. It can also be seen as a period of adjustment and buffer to help both parties better adjust to being single, as well as a period of re-evaluation and reflection on the relationship. If you can properly grasp this stage, rationally handle and look at the relationship after the breakup, neither have too much expectation nor too much pressure, and see the past as a growth experience, perhaps, this stage can also become an opportunity for mood recovery and life transition.
Overall, the ambiguous period after a breakup is a complicated one. And "higher" may not mean the pain or distress of this period, but can also be understood as a deep attachment and unique experience of the people and things you once loved. How to deal with and look at this stage requires us to face and think with a more mature mindset.