The experience of many people tells us that they are unhappy often because their husbands don't understand them.
In fact, men and women are not creatures in the first place.
Furthermore, the issues in marriage cannot simply judge who is right and who is wrong, but depend on the position of each individual.
Because different positions will have different perspectives and needs, so don't think that if you say it clearly, the other party will understand you.
Sometimes, he may be born with this ability to understand others.
As long as you are happy when you talk to him, go over and be coquettish with him when you think of him, be gentle and considerate when you are with him, do your own things when you are not together, and then ignore him.
There is no obsession, no entangled in love, with him five or eight, without him forty, he can be pinched to death by you.
With someone, there is no need to always manage him.
Fu Seoul said: "How much he loves you, how self-disciplined he is, so I won't care about him very strictly now, and I won't let him keep his distance from other girls."
If he loves me, he will take care of anything around him, and if he doesn't, then he doesn't love.
It is not a mistake that makes a mistake, but a choice.
Everyone is an adult, and a person who needs to be in charge all the time can't control it.
Women must know that whether you are in love or married, you must have your own circle, and don't lose the whole world for a man.
In a relationship, if a woman only keeps the man alone and puts all her thoughts on him, she will often live a very closed life.
If a man really loves you and loves you with all his heart, maybe you are lucky.
On the contrary, once a man loses his passion for you, you will lose everything.
This is the case with my cousin's daughter, after she married her husband, who asked her to take care of the family and children at home.
So, she became a full-time mother wholeheartedly, and she was a lot of family chores all day long.
I was busy every day, taking care of the children at night, and I didn't even sleep well.
But even so, she didn't get a good word from her husband, and her husband thought she hadn't done anything all day long.
Sometimes, she was very aggrieved, but she found that at this time she didn't even have someone to talk to.
My former colleagues were estranged, and I didn't have any contact with my mother's family for a long time, and I didn't have a friend around me.
She often cried alone at night, and suddenly found that she was so humble alone.
Therefore, women need to have their own circle no matter when.
Especially after marriage, no matter what her husband asks, women should not compromise and do not let themselves lose their own space.
Men keep saying that they like women who are knowledgeable and generous, but if they really meet this kind of woman, they will not cherish it after getting along for a long time.
Because, if a woman is too sensible, a man will get used to the feeling of being taken care of, and over time he will feel that everything is taken for granted, but he will feel tired.
And women are smaller-minded, and occasionally get angry with a man, asking him to coax themselves, but it will make the freshness last a little longer.
Let me talk about my cousin-in-law, she is a very sensible woman, not only keeps the house in order, but also knows how to deal with the relationship between relatives, and our family is very fond of her.
But once, my cousin quarreled with her, and my cousin didn't want to give in at all, and my aunt added fuel to the fire, so my cousin couldn't stand this grievance, so she divorced her cousin.
And now my cousin, my girlfriend, can't call anyone when she sees my parents, she is very lazy and sleeps until 11 o'clock in the morning, and my aunt has to come back to cook for her after work.
But my cousin, although he regrets it a little, he still spoils her, maybe he is afraid that she will leave, so he will beat the single.
If you have a smaller heart, the man will be more accommodating to you, because he is afraid that if he does not tolerate you, he will lose you.
Therefore, it is not a bad thing to be small-minded, but men will be more obsessed with you, afraid that you will be doubly good to you if you leave.
Conclusion:
The simpler the emotional pattern in a marriage, the higher the level of happiness.
Always remember that all pain, except for sickness, is brought about by values.
If you don't draw the ground as a prison, the world will not be able to embarrass itself.