"What are you doing here, why don't you die outside. Ni Xiying, who was working hard at home, suddenly saw the person outside the door, and lost control of her emotions for a moment and yelled.
But the person outside the door is not someone else, but her husband who has been missing for ten years, everyone thought that he had died outside, but I didn't expect that ten years later, he would come back"**What the hell is going on?
Ni Xiying's first husband was the man Ni Fasheng standing outside the door.
Ten years ago, when she went out to work, she encountered SARS and disappeared, and later, Ni Xiying had no way to support the family alone, so she married her current husband Lao Feng.
Just when the two of them lived a peaceful and beautiful life, Ni Fasheng came back, and as soon as he came back, he accused Ni Xiying of not abiding by women's morals and being with other men behind his back.
Lao Feng was stunned, how did his wife, who had lived for many years, become someone else's?
Do you have to give half of the house you worked so hard to build? In the past ten years, Ni Fasheng has gone to **? In this matter, where should Lao Feng go?
Ni Xiying, an ordinary woman born in the countryside, although her family is not wealthy, she is also very strict with Ni Xiying.
Since she was a child, Ni Xiying has been the eldest child in the family, and she knew at a young age that after she came home from school, she would be busy working in the fields while her parents were still there.
Standing on the small bench, holding on to the stove higher than himself, making dinner for his parents and younger siblings, and helping his mother clean up the housework together after finishing his homework, the poverty of the family made Ni Xiying a family early.
Every morning, Ni Xiying wakes up early, and after feeding the family's pigs, she carries her small schoolbag to study in a primary school in the village, where she meets a boy named Ni Fasheng.
They often play together during recess, Ni Xiying likes to tease Ni Fasheng, and Ni Fasheng always plays with her, and the two have cultivated a special tacit understanding and friendship.
Later, Ni Xiying and Ni Fasheng entered the same middle school and continued to maintain their previous relationship.
After graduating from high school, Ni Fasheng came to tell Ni Xiying that he was not ready to go to school, and his family was too poor to afford his tuition, so Ni Fasheng was ready to go to work in other places to find better opportunities and life.
After listening to this, Ni Xiying came back and saw her younger siblings and the four walls of the family, and decided to tell her parents that she was going out to work to subsidize the family.
Although her parents felt sorry for Ni Xiying, there was really no way for her to go to school at home, and when they heard that she was going out to work with Ni Fasheng from the same village, they took Ni Xiying to Ni Fasheng's house.
After this day, Ni Xiying and Ni Fasheng got married, and the two of them carried their bags and went to other places together.
When he was in the field, Ni Fasheng took good care of Ni Xiying, and the two of them secretly fell in love when they were in school, but now they are in love openly.
It didn't take long for the family to urge the two to go back to run errands, and Ni Xiying was also pregnant at this time, so she returned to her hometown with Ni Fasheng, and the two of them held a simple wedding banquet, even if they were married.
But the life after marriage is far from being as happy as Ni Xiying expected.
Ni Xiying is pregnant, and the reaction is very serious, and Ni Fasheng has no way to accompany Ni Xiying at home all the time.
So, he left Ni Xiying at home and went out to work by himself, Ni Xiying, who lacked care, always felt sad when she was pregnant, and she had never been separated from Ni Fasheng.
When they worked together, she took care of Ni Fasheng's daily life, and this time she came back, and Ni Fasheng didn't know if Xi was used to it when he was alone there.
At the beginning, Ni Fasheng sent money back every month, and he was also constantly beating Ni Xiying.
Later, ** slowly decreased, and he didn't come back often, Ni Xiying asked him and said that the cost of coming back was too expensive, and he wanted to save more money.
Soon, Ni Xiying gave birth, and when she woke up from her slumber, she saw Ni Fasheng's dusty face and the daughter who was sleeping peacefully in her arms.
At that moment, Ni Xiying felt that everything was worth it, this time, Ni Fasheng lived at home for a few months, although he was still the same as before to Ni Xiying.
But out of a woman's intuition, Ni Xiying always felt that Ni Fasheng was absent-minded at home, and always held his mobile phone to send messages when taking care of the children.
At that time, she only thought that it might be the work in the field that urged Ni Fasheng to go back, but she didn't care.
Later, when everything was stabilized in Ni Xiying, Ni Fasheng set off again to work in other places, and kept saying that the outside business was not easy to do, and sending money back was also sporadic and sporadic at all, which was not enough for their family to live at all.
Ni Xiying began to bear the heavy burden of the family, she raised the children alone, took on housework, and sometimes did some odd jobs near her home to earn some money to buy some delicious food for the children.
But Ni Fasheng gradually went home less and less, and the money sent back began to become less and less.
Ni Xiying felt disappointed and helpless, but at that time, she was pregnant with another child, and there was nothing she could do but keep calling Ni Fasheng ** and asking him to send money back.
When the youngest son was born, Ni Fasheng simply didn't come back to visit this time, Ni Xiying went directly to the field with the child, and when she came to the place where Ni Fasheng worked, Ni Fasheng saw Ni Xiying with the child, and there was a trace of panicked expression.
He rubbed his hands and led the two of them back to his residence, but Ni Xiying had just walked in and found that there were women's clothes in the room.
Ni Xiying and Ni Fasheng had a fierce dispute and conflict, Ni Fasheng felt that this was a mistake that men would make, and there was no need to make a fuss, but Ni Xiying was disappointed in Ni Fasheng, no wonder he didn't send money back, no wonder he didn't fight **, and he didn't want to go home, it turned out that it was all because of this woman.
But after the quarrel, in the face of Ni Fasheng's apology and assurance, for the sake of the stability of the child and family, Ni Xiying still endured.
She hopes that Ni Fasheng will correct his mistakes and take on his responsibilities as a husband and father.
During the Spring Festival of 2003, Ni Fasheng, who had been working for a year, returned home to reunite with his wife Ni Xiying.
After eating the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, he and Ni Xiying walked in the village, saw that every family in the village had built a new house, and thought that he had gone out to work for so long, and his home was still a leaky broken tile house, and he couldn't help but feel a little sorry for his wife and children.
When Ni Xiying heard her husband say this, she proposed that after the New Year, she and her husband would go to Guangzhou to work together.
In this way, the two people don't have to live in two places all the time, they can also earn more money, and strive to build a new house as soon as possible, so that the children can live a good life.
However, as soon as they arrived in Guangzhou, they encountered the sudden "SARS", and the whole city was shrouded in panic.
The two of them searched for two days on the street and did not find a job, people everywhere hid at home and did not go out, the work in the factory had also stopped, facing the high cost of living in Guangzhou, and there was someone to take care of in this situation for the sake of the children at home.
Ni Fasheng still decided to let his wife Ni Xiying go back to her hometown to take care of her family first, and she stayed in Guangzhou to find a job, and when everything was arranged here, she would let Ni Xiying come, but what Ni Xiying didn't expect was that she would never be able to contact Ni Fasheng again when she went back this time.
After Ni Xiying returned to her hometown, while taking care of the children and the elderly at home, she was worried about her husband who was far away in Guangzhou, and the epidemic slowly spread to her hometown, so Guangzhou must be even more serious.
But she kept calling her husband Ni Fasheng, but no one answered, and her husband never called back.
She couldn't sleep every day in a panic, fearing that her husband would be affected by the epidemic, which was so menacing and dangerous that many people lost their lives.
There has been no news from Ni Fasheng, and Ni Xiying is worried that he will be infected with "SARS" in Guangzhou and may even have lost his life.
After the epidemic ended, Ni Xiying asked around for news of her husband and entrusted relatives and friends to look for clues, but to no avail. Even when she went to Guangzhou to look for it in person, there was still no news, and the people around her said that Ni Fasheng might have died.
But Ni Xiying was unwilling to believe this fact easily, she insisted on the last glimmer of hope, unwilling to give up the search for her husband.
At Ni Xiying's insistence, her daughter began to post missing information on the Internet, hoping to find her father's traces, but there was still no response to the news of the search.
Faced with her husband's disappearance and the family's predicament, Ni Xiying decided to fulfill her husband's wish and demolished the family's house and built a new one. To raise money to build a house, she borrowed money from all over the place, sometimes working four jobs a day to keep her children schooled and pay off her debts.
But even if she worked so hard, the house was still only half built, and the family was still so poor that there was no rice to cook.
Her children are hungry every day, and at this time, even Ni Xiying's mother-in-law proposed, hoping that she could find another man to help her support the family.
One winter in 2008, Ni Xiying was carrying heavy tools on her back and preparing to go out to work in the fields, when a strange man stood at the door of her house.
The middle-aged man was Lao Feng, an employee at a nearby factory.
A few days ago, the people in the village introduced Ni Xiying to him, and when he heard that Ni Xiying was a single mother raising children alone, he seemed to feel sorry for this woman he had never seen before.
Seeing Ni Xiying go out, Lao Feng immediately stepped forward and said with a smile: "Hello, I was introduced by the aunt next door, Sister Ni, can you help me, I have something I want to discuss with you." ”
Ni Xiying looked at him curiously, and said with a smile: "If you have something, just say it." ”
Lao Feng looked directly at Ni Xiying and said what he thought, he wanted to take on the responsibility that Ni Fasheng did not bear, and provide financial and emotional support to Ni Xiying and the children.
Ni Xiying was touched by Lao Feng's kindness and concern, and she understood that she could no longer support this family on her own.
So, she said frankly: "Lao Feng, I thank you very much for your kindness, you know the situation of me and the children, I am just afraid of dragging you down." ”
Lao Feng was very moved when he heard it, his eyes flashed with tears, and he stepped forward to hold Ni Xiying's hand tightly and said, "Sister Ni, I am willing to take on the responsibility of being a husband and father, give you a warm family, and I will help you in everything in the future." ”
As time passed, they came into contact more and more, and gradually learned about each other's situation.
Lao Feng felt very sympathetic to Ni Xiying, a woman who was alone and carried the burden of the family with one hand, and also felt very sorry for the hardships she and her children had experienced, and he wanted Ni Xiying to live a better life.
It didn't take long for Lao Feng and Ni Xiying to come together.
Ni Xiying's in-laws did not object, after all, their son was no longer there, and Ni Xiying could no longer be allowed to bear so much alone.
With the blessing of everyone, Ni Xiying and Lao Feng held a wedding in the traditional way, inviting a large group of relatives and friends to the village to celebrate.
With the addition of Lao Feng, Ni Xiying's life began to get better, Lao Feng is a down-to-earth and capable person, and all the wages have been handed over to Ni Xiying at the moment of marriage.
Ni Xiying is also a housekeeper, with the help of Lao Feng, they quickly paid off their previous debts, and even had extra money to rebuild the house that was not built before by two floors, Ni Xiying's parents-in-law are also very satisfied with Lao Feng, and they usually treat Lao Feng as half a son.
Moreover, Lao Feng's factory also allocated him a set of low-rent housing to solve their housing problem.
But just when Ni Xiying was enjoying a happy life, her ex-husband suddenly appeared, breaking this tranquility and happiness.
One day in 2013, Ni Xiying was busy at home, it was about to be eleven, and the children were going on vacation, so she had to hurry up to clean the room to make it easier for the children to live.
At this moment, the door outside suddenly rang, Ni Xiying thought that the children were back, and while complaining that the children didn't know how to take the key, she walked to the door and opened the door, but the person standing in front of the door made Ni Xiying panic.
There was a middle-aged man standing in front of the door, he was Ni Xiying's husband who she hadn't seen for ten years - Ni Fasheng.
Ni Xiying watched him stand silently in front of the door of his house and called Lao Feng a **, and Lao Feng hurriedly came.
When Ni Xiying and the people in the village denounced the man who had disappeared for ten years, she directly refused to let Ni Fasheng enter the house.
Ni Fasheng's family also scolded him, and when Ni Fasheng saw his family's reaction, he knelt down to apologize to his parents and Ni Xiying in tears.
He said: "I am also very painful, very guilty, I came back to atone for my sins, I have not been in pain for a day in these years, I want to earn money, I don't earn money, I don't have the face to come back." ”
Ni Xiying didn't believe his explanation, she felt that even if she didn't make any money, she should send a message.
For ten years, there was not a day when she didn't worry about Ni Fasheng, and when everyone thought that Ni Fasheng was dead, and when she married Lao Feng, she was also full of guilt for Ni Fasheng, and now Ni Fasheng suddenly came back, and what he said made people feel funny.
Ni Fasheng found that his wife did not let him enter the door, and there was a man standing next to him to defend her, Ni Fasheng complained about this, he thought that he had only been away for ten years, and his biological children had become other people's children.
He angrily scolded Lao Feng for being a third party, and said that Lao Feng and Ni Xiying did not have a marriage certificate, and it was illegal to live together, and threatened Ni Xiying to return to him.
Ni Xiying felt even more funny when she saw this scene, she felt that Ni Fasheng just came back because he couldn't get along outside.
So, she ignored Ni Fasheng, who was standing outside, and pulled Lao Feng back to the courtyard and closed the door.
But what she didn't expect was that when she went to the court to file for divorce, Ni Fasheng asked Ni Xiying to compensate him on the grounds that the house had half of herself.
In November 2013, the court issued a judgment granting the two to divorce.
According to the verdict, the property rights of the house built by Ni Xiying are indeed shared by the two because they are owned during their marriage, but the area of Ni Fasheng's house is less than that of Ni Xiying.
And Ni Fasheng also has the responsibility to fulfill his maintenance obligations, and needs to pay more than 200 yuan per month to his minor son's living expenses.
This matter is over here, although Ni Xiying is not satisfied with the verdict, she and Lao Feng worked hard to buy the property rights of the house in Ni Fasheng's hands, and from then on, she and Ni Fasheng have no entanglement.
Some people believe that Ni Xiying's acquaintance with Lao Feng is Ni Xiying's own choice made in the predicament of life, and there is no need to care about other people's thoughts.
And some people feel that they have a husband, even if they can't find it, they haven't reported their death, and they are too anxious to find the next one without canceling the marriage certificate.
At the same time, people in the society affirmed Ni Xiying's hard work and dedication, and called for a more just and reasonable property distribution system.
These houses are obviously the fruits of Ni Xiying and Lao Feng's hard work, but at this moment, half of them were taken away by this irresponsible man in vain, is this reasonable?
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