In the era of feudal society in our country, the vast number of people were mainly based on farming, due to the need to work vigorously and other problems, coupled with the serious feudal ideology, the patriarchal ideology at that time was very serious, and the social status of women was relatively low.
There is a kind of metaphor that does not pay attention to women: "women are like clothes", comparing women to clothes, which means that clothes can be changed when they are dirty, and clothes can be thrown away when they are broken, completely ignoring women's efforts and roles in the family, which is a great disrespect for women.
Nowadays, the social status of women is constantly improving, women are half the sky, and their dedication and status in the family are greatly respected by the society. So, in the family relationship, the wife is not related to himself, and the brothers and sisters are related to him, so is the wife important, or the brothers and sisters are important? You'll understand after reading itStop being confused!
1. The importance of a wife from the perspective of family dedication.
In the normal relationship between husband and wife, although it is still the division of labor in most of the families outside the male and female leads, women are not full-time housewives, and the wives of many families not only have to undertake the sacred duty of spreading branches and leaves for their husbands, but also go out to work to make money and help their husbands to add bricks and tiles to the small family. Husband and wife are concentric, their profits are broken, the family and everything is prosperous, and the life of a small family can be prosperous and more happy.
And although brothers and sisters have a close blood relationship with themselves, you must know that although brothers and sisters may help you when you are in trouble, they still do not "eat in one pot" in the end.
Therefore, if you think about the contribution of this small family wife, you can understand who is more important.
2. The importance of wives from the perspective of "old husbands and old wives do not change money".
Although his wife is not related to him by blood, he must know that his wife is the one who will be with him for a lifetime. Therefore, every husband must understand this, in dealing with family problems, you must not let your wife chill, your wife is your ultimate support, brothers and sisters are impossible to be in the same hole with you, think through this point to understand who is more important.
As the saying goes: "The old husband and wife support each other", "the old husband and the old wife do not exchange money", "hold hands and look at each other and never get tired" and other wise sayings about husband and wife supporting each other for a lifetime and growing old together, this kind of mutual affection and white-headed old age is very precious and rare.
Whether it is parents or brothers and sisters, they can only accompany us intimately on the journey of life for a short distance, and the days to come are still long, and they need their wives to work together with you to spend one spring, summer, autumn and winter through thick and thin.
3. The importance of a wife from the perspective of family belonging.
As the saying goes: "The golden nest and the silver nest are not as good as their own kennels", many young people only know one but do not know the other. Whether it's your parents' home or your siblings' home, it's not actually your home in the true sense of the word.
Your real home is the family that you build hand in hand with your wife after marrying a wife, and your wife and children are in, and your home is in. And your parents' home, which is the home you once had, is not actually your real home.
Because since you get married, your common home is your ultimate belonging. It's like your parents' home, it's their home, not your home in principle. Of course, if you live with your parents until you are old, your parents' home will gradually become your home.
In this respect, even if your siblings are related to you, they are not as important as your wife.
4. From the perspective of monetary interests.
When you get married, you and your wife are a community of interests, one is prosperous, and the other is lost. Every penny your wife earns and spends money, in principle, has half of yours. Of course, you are the same.
On the other hand, your brothers and sisters, when you were a child, under the protection of your parents, you were basically equal, you had money to spend together, blessings to enjoy together, and hardships to eat together. However, when you all grow up and start your own family, although you are related to your brothers and sisters, when it comes to community of interests, there is no comparison with your wife.
Because at this time, your brothers and sisters will become the main body of the family, and they have their own community of interests, which has little to do with you. Therefore, from this point of view, siblings are not as important as wives.
To sum up: only from these aspects, don't listen to the ancients said: "Women are like clothes, brothers are like siblings", although brothers and sisters are very important, and we are blood relatives, but, compared with wives, in our lives, or wives are important. Of course, the same is true for women. Therefore, husbands and wives should cherish each other and care for each other, so that they can better embrace each other, grow old together, and live happily for a lifetime.
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