Putting aside the children and choosing to live a Dink life, you may face the "retribution" of loneliness in your later years! The term Dink was introduced to China after 1980, and there is a big difference with our traditional culture, but it is very popular when it is imported from abroad!
The first people who chose to become Dinks are now in their old age, are they living happily and regretting their decision? As the host of CCTV, Kang Hui has a high influence in the Dink group, and his living conditions have also attracted much attention.
Although he once regretted being a Dink, they still lived well as a couple in Dink's life.
At a young age, in order to focus on their careers, the couple chose to become Dinks, planning to walk through every step of their lives hand in hand. However, in an interview, he expressed deep regret over his past decisions.
Facing his mother in the hospital bed, he deeply regretted it, and his heart was full of regret for the family he never had.
His heart was deeply pierced because he couldn't fulfill his mother's greatest wish to let her hold her grandson. Hearing his mother's last words, he could only face it with regret, and he couldn't erase the guilt and pain in his heart.
He knew that he did not leave any children to his mother, and that was the greatest regret of his life. His mother's words, like a sharp sword, pierced his heart so deeply that he could never forget it. "
In his autobiography, he revealed that in order to pursue a life without restraints, he decided not to have children. When they were young, they only focused on their own happiness and just wanted to enjoy a comfortable life, but while pursuing these, they lost some precious things.
In his autobiography, he also expressed regret about the choice he made back then, and if he had the chance, he would definitely make a different choice.
He was often immersed in pain because he always wanted to have a child so that his mother could enjoy the happiness of being surrounded by children and grandchildren before leaving. Everyone has a different understanding of Dink, and the reasons for becoming Dink are also very different.
However, choosing Dink is about accepting the consequences, because everyone has to bear the consequences of their choices.
Many modern people choose not to have children, it is their personal choice. However, based on the later life experiences of the first people to become Dinks, many expressed regret about it.
For example, Aunt Liu's later life is a tragic example. Aunt Liu and her husband, both graduated from prestigious universities, firmly believe in Dinkism and have been married for many years without children.
They thought that having children would limit their lifestyle and become an obstacle to enjoying life. Therefore, they are indifferent to their children's feelings, and even somewhat annoying.
They who choose to become Dink, they have no concept of inheritance, and they have no pursuit of traditional ideas. However, in their later years, they begin to regret their choices.
Seeing the circle of friends full of grandchildren, she was a little envious, and her life after retirement seemed to have lost its color. Although she herself wants to enrich her old age, she is embarrassed to disturb her busy colleagues, after all, everyone has grandchildren to take care of, and she seems so idle.
Her life was filled with monotony and tedium, and she was extremely bored. One day, she accidentally broke her foot while going up the stairs and lay alone and helpless in a hospital bed. Her only reliance, her husband, is not around.
At this time, she couldn't help but think about how nice it would be if she had a child by her side!
When he was young, he pursued freedom, was unrestrained, and did not want children; When I was old, I was lonely and helpless, and I realized the importance of children and wanted someone who could take care of me.
The elderly grandma became a Dink when she was young, and she regretted not having children in her later years. Although he became a Dink when he was young and enjoyed a childless life, many regrets are felt when he is old.
Grandma Peng and her husband, Grandpa Sun, adhered to the Dink mentality when they were young and chose not to have children early. At that time, they thought that they were comfortable living without children and did not need to worry about parenting.
However, as time went on, they began to regret their choice. Although they insisted on their views despite the dissuasion of their loved ones, now they are also beginning to understand that families without children lack a sense of wholeness.
As time passed, they began to regret their choices, and their old bodies began to expose themselves to various problems, not only the decline of physical functioning, but also the barrenness of their spiritual life.
As Grandpa Sun grew older, he often felt unbearable bone pain, which became worse over time, and other parts of his body began to have problems.
She began to realize that chest discomfort was not a minor ailment, and immediately took her husband to the hospital. After a thorough examination, the doctor finally diagnosed coronary heart disease. When she saw her husband lying in the hospital bed, she realized that she didn't know anything about the hospital process, how to go through the hospitalization procedures, and how to pay for the medical bills.
Every time she handles something, she always asks repeatedly, which not only wastes time, but also may suffer from the eyes of others. On the way back to the ward, she saw a heartwarming scene of a young woman taking care of an old lady and softly reassuring her that everything would be fine.
She admired the woman's carefulness and gentleness, and wished she could be like that.
In this cozy hospital, the grandmother quietly waited for a meal from her grandson. Looking at this scene, she couldn't help but ponder, was that decision when she was young really wrong?
If she had a child at that time, she wouldn't have had to run around like this, and she wouldn't have to worry about the trivialities of life. Now, she can only sit in the hospital room, her heart full of regret and regret for the past.
In this world, everyone has their own choice, whether it is to have children or choose Dink, there are corresponding consequences. Decisions made at a young age may pay off in old age, or they may come at a cost.
For them who choose to become Dink, their decision means a lonely path, but it is also their own choice, and they can only bear such an outcome.
Although they can live a dashing life at a young age, in their later years, they may have more consequences than others. No matter which choice we make, we need to bear it, and this is also the only way to go in life.
It is a blessing in misfortune not to get sick in old age, but if you are sick, the helplessness and pain faced by the Dinks are inevitable, and all the consequences are the result of their own choices.