"Divorced women can only marry high-quality men, and they must not marry low-level men, because their underlying logic will mind that you have been married and have children. I asked the high-quality men in our club with an annual salary of five or six million, and they didn't mind if the woman was divorced, because they didn't marry you just to sleep and have children, but to fulfill their dreams. ”This is a paragraph posted by a woman who claims to be a senior marriage and love expert on Douyin**, she seems to be explaining some truth, but what she said makes people laugh.
I thought that this kind of sensational remarks would be ridiculed and ignored by everyone, but when I opened the comment section, I was shocked by the scene in front of me.
Most of the hundreds of comments support her point of view, many women think that men don't care if they are rich, and men don't care about women's pasts if they have the ability.
For a moment, I was helpless because I knew they were getting sicker.
Once upon a time, they only imagined themselves as Cinderella, hoping that the prince would save them from fire and water.
Now they have begun to "demonize" high-quality men, imagining them as "god men" who neither mind that the woman has nothing, nor mind the woman's past, but only love her unconditionally and spoil her.
I think a man who inherits the blood and sweat of his ancestors, or who finally stood in a high position after years of hard work, must not have a hobby of helping people or raising children for others, because some of them are beautiful and talented Bai Fumei who match them.
Such an easy-to-understand truth is there, but many people still choose to deceive themselves, which can't help but make people feel a little sad.
Divorced women, who have experienced marriage, have the experience of being parents, and are no longer young, they should be the most sober, the most mature, and the most difficult to be led by others.
What is it that makes them the biggest audience for poisonous chicken soup?
The prevalence of "middle-aged poisonous chicken soup" has a cause and effect. It seems unexpected, but it is actually reasonable.
"Cinderella" at that time.
Nowadays, most of the middle-aged women who are deeply affected by poisonous chicken soup are between 30-40 years old, which is what everyone calls the post-85s and post-90s, and almost all of this group grew up watching Qiong Yao dramas and idol dramas.
In that particular era, they received too much shocking information.
Whether it is a TV series or **, almost all of them are based on the theme of beautiful love.
There is nothing wrong with singing about love, but if you look closely, you will find that the most sought after love at that time was not normal love.
Qiong Yao drama conveys to everyone the three views of "love first". I still remember one of the most famous lines: "What you lost was only your legs, but what Ziling lost was love!" ”
The idol drama conveys to everyone the story of "The Prince and Cinderella". In the setting of this kind of story, there is usually a Bai Fumei who has a superior family background, beautiful appearance, and is excellent in all aspects as the female No. 2.
And our female number one not only does not look good and has an outstanding figure, but also has a very ordinary family background and education, and even deliberately creates a "stupid and cute" character.
Between these two very different girls, Gao Fushuai must like the latter, and he turns a blind eye to the princess-like Bai Fumei, and even has a lot of boredom.
Adults may think that the male protagonist's brain is not normal when they see this kind of plot, and most of the girls will fall into fantasy when they see this kind of plot.
Most of the post-85s and post-90s generations have substituted themselves into the story of the domineering president and Cinderella, and imagined themselves as the heroines in it.
Growing up in this atmosphere, they have detached themselves from reality, and often regard those false plots as the truth of life.
The "middle-aged wife" at this time.
Time flies like a white horse, decades pass by in a snap of a finger, and the once ignorant girl has become a middle-aged woman.
As the main force in chasing dramas, the film and television industry has tailored some "middle-aged wife" idol dramas for them, and the most impressive for everyone should be "The First Half of My Life".
The female number one in the play is called Luo Zijun, she is a canary who has been kept at home by her husband for many years, that is, what everyone often calls a full-time wife, except for afternoon tea and shopping, she knows almost nothing.
The second female number is called Tang Jing, she has a super high education, and the workplace ability that many men can't reach, referred to as the white-collar elite.
The male number one is the fiancé of the female number two, and he is also recognized as rich and handsome in the whole play, and many women have coveted him for a long time.
But he doesn't love anyone, he prefers Luo Zijun, who has been married and has given birth to a son.
This kind of plot that seems to be extremely false has captured the hearts of many middle-aged women back then.
It's not that "poisonous chicken soup" has attacked middle-aged women, but that the largest audience of "poisonous chicken soup" has entered middle age.
Many netizens said before that the current "poisonous chicken soup" has begun to attack middle-aged women, and what "domineering president falls in love with me in second marriage" and "handsome brother falls in love with older me" has formed a dominating screen mode for a long time.
Everyone seems to have forgotten that the audience of this kind of film and television drama is not the same group of people who chased Qiong Yao dramas and idol dramas back then?
A similar plot deals with the same group of people.
Once they were young girls, now they are middle-aged women. Although his age has changed, his heart has not changed at all.
They are still living in fantasy, and they still imagine their ordinary selves as an existence that can attract a domineering president, and film and television works just satisfy their fantasies.
So I sometimes wonder, is it the Internet that poisons them, or is it just pandering to them?
The question of whether there was a chicken or an egg made me confused for a moment.