Don't judge heroes by temporary success or failure, there are always ups and downs in life. When you are at a low point, you can really see the warmth and coldness of the people around you. At this time, we must not show our predicament in front of relatives and friends, especially those who usually look down on you. Complaining and asking for help will only give them the opportunity to count you down, and instead of getting substantial help, they may incur bad anger.
Adult breakdowns are silent, and we have to learn to tune into silent mode in the midst of pain. Complaining to others often receives very little sympathy and comfort, and may even become the laughing stock of others. At a low point, don't expect others to care about your pain and helplessness because everyone has their own busyness and problems. Learn to help yourself, do your best, and be the best version of yourself. When you are at a low point, you need to rely on yourself and go all out. As long as you don't give up and persevere, you will definitely be able to succeed.
The trough is only temporary, and the time will eventually come when the energy will accumulate and explode. Think of the trough as a new starting point and give yourself some courage to take on the challenge. There are always tribulations in life, and the trough is just a trial, as long as you don't give up, there is always hope. Use courage to overcome the trough and go back to the peak of life. You will find that the trough is just a necessary and short step to the summit. Some hardships must be borne by oneself, just as a sword needs to be sharpened to be sharp, and plum blossoms need to go through the cold to be fragrant.
People are poor and cold, and this coldness is not only material deprivation, but also the desolation in the heart. And the heart is poor and bitter, and that suffering is the torture in the depths of the soul, the pain of losing hope and courage. The real rich are not those who have endless wealth, but those who know how to exploit the endless energy of the soul. As long as we are willing to dig in, it can illuminate our way forward.
Therefore, when we are at a low point, don't forget to endure the cold and survive the spring. People are not afraid of poverty, they are afraid of short-mindedness, if they have ambition, they will not be poor to the end, come on, hard-working friends!
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No longer get entangled with bad people and bad things, and be cruel to yourself.
Don't cross the line, don't please, don't care.