Many people have a very good job, a very good income, and they are financially independent, but psychologically, they need someone to rely on and rely on.
People who are financially independent but not psychologically independent will have some characteristics, which have the following three characteristics:
The first characteristic: this association between the ta and the parents is still very close.
In many things, they want to talk to their parents or one of the parents to talk to them, listen to their advice, and then need their permission.
If the parents don't allow it and don't nod their heads, it seems that for them, there is no way to convince them to do it.
In fact, hidden under the cloak of filial piety is that psychologically he has not completely detached himself from this umbilical cord relationship with his parents.
Parents are still a very important psychological dependence on them.
The second characteristic: they are emotionally sticky.
They can be very clingy, and once they are in a relationship, it is difficult for them to leave room for both parties, to fit together completely, to blend together.
Therefore, often this type of person is actually easy to be PUA and be mentally controlled, because he psychologically needs someone to rely on and rely on. Even if they are suppressed and criticized by the other party, they can't leave the other party, and such an act actually gives the other party a full opportunity to control them.
The third characteristic: they seem to be independent on the surface, but in their hearts, they will attribute all the unsatisfactory things in their lives to their parents.
It is attributed to the fact that the parents do not take good care of the child or do not have better conditions to raise the child, and do not give the child enough good education and support.
It's not that they don't want to contact or ask to discuss some issues with their parents and have more communication with their parents, but that their parents can't help them.
This is an extreme parenting style that has all come down to the parents, and may be harmful to them.
Financial independence is not the same as mental and spiritual independence.
Psychological independence means the maturity of a person's personality, and the maturity of personality means not only economic independence, but also the ability to be responsible for themselves and make decisions for themselves in many things, without relying on the permission and approval of others.