In a family, the economy is always the core of family stability, not feelings. Under the oppression of poverty, even the deepest feelings will become pale and weak. In fact, only money can provide a true sense of stability and security for a family.
Survival is a brutal competition, and we must learn to protect ourselves. Those who only know how to be emotional, will only end up putting themselves in trouble. The ruthlessness and ruthlessness of reason is not ruthlessness, but a kind of wisdom to protect oneself.
Social resources are limited, and good things will not come out of thin air, and we need to take the initiative to fight for them. Only the strong will jump up and pick the fruit, instead of sitting and waiting on the side of the road**. If we don't fight for it, then we can only watch others enjoy the results.
There are two choices in life: live in your comfort zone, or be brave enough to step out. Those who covet stability are doomed to no freedom, just like a bird in a cage, safe but not free to fly. If you want to be free, you need to be adventurous, because only by going through wind and rain can you train a high-flying bird.
In this cruel and realistic world, no one will give you special treatment because of your self-esteem. Please let go of your self-esteem and emotions, and only when you achieve results can you be recognized and respected by others. That's reality, that's life.
Don't think that you can persuade others with reason, and don't think that you can wake others up with preaching. It is only when they truly experience setbacks and learn from them that they truly grow and wake up. The words of the ancestors are right, eat a trench and grow wisdom, and tribulation is the best teacher.
Never let those who sell miserably approach you. They may not really need your help but want to use your kindness and compassion for their own ends.
In interpersonal interactions, some people ask you how you make a living as soon as they meet. This behavior is essentially an assessment of your social status and worth, thus determining the level of respect for you and the way of dealing with you.
Something that is easy to get, no one will really value and cherish, no matter what it is. Only after a certain amount of effort, time and even money will people value its hard-won achievements even more. So, knowing how to show some indifference at just the right time can be gratifying. The same applies to relationships, relationships, and careers.
If you want to change yourself, do what you're afraid of, it's the quickest way to go. Step out of your comfort zone and don't be bound by fear. Don't be afraid to fail, because every failure is a stepping stone to your success;Don't be afraid of what others think, because your worth is not determined by what others evaluate;Don't be afraid of uncertainty, because it's those uncertainties that drive you to keep exploring and growing.
Only by overcoming these fears will you be able to break through and gain a new version of yourself. In overcoming your fears, you will be amazed at the growth and self-confidence you have gained.
Being brave enough to do what you're afraid of means that you're crossing the boundaries of your self-imposed limitations and entering a whole new realm, where you can reach your full potential and unleash your inner strength, and every attempt will bring you closer to your ideal self!