In the ancient "Zengguang Xianwen", there is such a famous saying: "After the fifteenth day of the moon, there is little light, and everything is off when people reach middle age." This sentence speaks of the phenomenon of the decrease in light after the fifteenth day of the moon, and the challenges that people may face in middle age. Middle age is a stage full of embarrassment and challenges. Compared with young people, they gradually lose energy; Compared to the elderly, they have not yet enjoyed their retirement to the fullest. For ordinary working-class people, the middle age close to 50 is full of various pressures, especially financial constraints. The middle age of each generation is not easy to get through, because all kinds of problems come one after another, which makes it difficult to deal with.
Professor Tsang pointed out that the age of 49 and 59 are critical moments in life, and being able to successfully pass these two stages means a step forward, otherwise it may end there. Why are these two points in time so tough? Because they all mark a turning point in life. And all twists and turns come with risks. The age of 50 is a turning point in life, the first half of life ends and the second half of life begins. The uncertainty of this transition, like climbing a tall building from the first floor to the ninth floor, is gradually felt with exhaustion and stress that many people give up before the age of 49. However, it would be a mistake to think that you can enjoy the sweetness after the age of 49. Before the age of 59, there is an even more difficult hurdle waiting for us.
59 years old is different from 49 years old. The age of 49 symbolizes the twilight of middle age, while the age of 59 signifies the end of middle age. However, as we age, the challenges do not decrease, on the contrary, become more severe. Just like the levels in the game, you may only encounter small mobs at the beginning, but at the end, it will be a challenge for the big boss. At the age of 49, people may feel the hardships of life, the difficulty of earning money, and the increase in health problems; At the age of 59, in addition to the above problems, there are additional challenges such as exhaustion and reduced income. This is like what the ancients said, "the house leaks when it rains overnight, and the ship is broken and encounters the first wind", unhappiness can appear continuously, but blessings are not necessarily.
Middle-aged people will face many risks in the decade between the ages of 49 and 59. The first is an increase in household expenses and a decrease in personal income. As we age, the pressure is multiplied by the increase in demand. Secondly, the fortune is no longer vigorous, and all kinds of unhappiness make people feel troubled. As people get older, their qi becomes shallow, and the difficulties they encounter in life also increase. In addition, health problems are becoming more and more prominent, and various diseases emerge one after another, adding a lot of burden to life. Finally, there may be tension in the relationship with the family, and the child's growth can create a gap between the parents and the child, and there may be conflicts and conflicts between them.
Later in life, one will find that life is not tolerant of the weak. When you are young, you are full of energy, and the challenges of life do not come your way. However, as I grew older, my energy decreased, and together with the responsibilities of my family, difficulties in life followed. Just as the weakness of hemp rope is easy to break, and fate likes to entangle the unfortunate, the good will be better, and the bad will be worse. How to deal with the challenges of middle age? There are only two points, either you have enough savings or you can maintain good health. These two points are indispensable in order to cope with the difficulties of life in middle age.