There are some popular sayings that circulate among the people, but we often don't know why. There are some old sayings, the language is simple, but the truth is very profound. For example, what we said this time was: "If gambling is encouraged, don't encourage **; If ** is encouraged, don't have sex". I understood the meaning as soon as I heard it, but when I thought about it, I had questions. Some people understand that it is better to persuade people to gamble than to persuade others. You can no longer associate with the person who persuaded you. But that's not the real point. Meaning: We can advise gamblers not to gamble, but dissuading prostitutes not to ** may lead to the breakdown of the relationship between the two.
Throughout the ages, gambling and prostitution have been despised by gentlemen. Both of these things are extremely harmful to individuals, families, and society. But why do we "advise gambling instead of prostitution"? Let's take a look.
It is the responsibility of friends to encourage gambling. Gambling was banned in our country as early as the Warring States period. "The Book of Law" clouds: "Signs and citizens who gamble, a fine of three coins"; Princes who gamble shall receive thirty lashes. During the Song and Yuan dynasties, "the light ones were punished, and the heavy ones were beheaded".
We all know that there is a chance that we will lose, but there is another layer of luck in winning. A lot of people just rely on this level of luck to win a game once in a while, thinking that luck will come their way. In fact, this thinking is wrong. Although gambling is a game of luck, most people don't know about some behind-the-scenes operations, so it often ends in small wins and big losses. In addition, some people have experienced the feeling of "fast money" through Xiaosheng, how can they have the energy to do things honestly.
There is also the well-known "gambler mentality". The more you bet, the more you lose, and the more you lose, the more you bet. Gamblers tend to believe that they will win next time after losing. The more you lose, the more you want to win it back. You don't hesitate to borrow money, sell your house, gamble again. This is what casinos call "stud". It is a friend's responsibility to discourage gambling. Some people may get lost for a while. If you have someone around you who likes to gamble, you can try to persuade them because everyone knows the dangers of gambling and your friends know that you are doing it for their good. Dissuading them appropriately will make things more obvious. Friendship. However, for those who are already terminally ill with a gambling addiction, no amount of advice will help, and it is not appropriate to continue associating with them at this time.
It would be too much to advise prostitutes to take it easy. Since ancient times, China has had the tradition of "men are inferior to women, and there are three wives and four concubines". Historically, brothel operations in our country have also been legal. It's just that in ancient times, ** was not as harmful to society as gambling. At best, it's just a matter of personal style. Seven emotions and six desires are human nature. ** It's a matter of personal privacy, but there are some friends who have a similar smell. Since they are just friends, there is no need to persuade. If you are self-conscious, and your friend has this hobby, and you try to persuade him, you are standing on the moral high ground and criticizing your friend. This friend will naturally be difficult to get along with in the future.
In addition to being ** in the literal sense of the word, it also means your friend's persistence in a relationship. "Book of Songs" cloud: A lady is like a gentleman. If a friend is obsessed with a relationship, it is useless for anyone to persuade him at this time. Even if you know that your friend's persistence will certainly not bear fruit, trying to convince them will only make both of you uncomfortable, and even your kindness will turn the friend off.
Summary. As the old saying goes: It is difficult for a clean official to do family work. "Gambling persuasion" is equivalent to something that can be said publicly. As we all know, your kind words and suggestions are a sign of your friendship. "Abetment" is interference with a friend's privacy, which is equivalent to intervening in a private relationship. It is a taboo whether you treat a friend or someone else. No one wants their personal feelings to be pointed out.
"Persuasion of gambling and not prostitution, persuasion of prostitution" refers to the degree of interaction between friends. No matter how close their relationship is, they must be clear about what they can and cannot say. If you exceed this limit, not only will your friendship cease to exist, but you will also be resented by others.