I have written a lot of emotional articles, and there are also a lot of articles about "ambiguity".
Still, occasionally you see someone askingHow can it be ambiguous when the opposite sex gets along?
Someone said that,Ambiguity is very similar to love, except for no formal confession, other things can happen.
To be honest, although this sentence is somewhat absolute, it is quite well summarized.
Between men and women, if they are just ordinary friends, then many things will have a boundary.
However, if the two are ambiguous, then the situation is completely different.
Some actions that can only happen to couples will appear from time to time between them.
Therefore, it is not difficult to judge whether the two are pure friendship or ambiguous.
Getting along with the opposite sex, if there are no these 4 behaviors, it is not ambiguous!
1.When you don't see each other, you're very worried.
Between men and women, if they are just ordinary friends, they may occasionally think about it when they don't see each other, but they definitely don't miss it.
However, if the two are ambiguous, then when they can't see each other, they will definitely miss each other.
It was a deep desire to meet him, to be with him.
When this kind of concern is taken to the extreme, there will be all kinds of cranky thoughts, imagining what he is doing at the moment, imagining the scene of getting along with him.
After coming back to my senses, I looked forward to the next time the two met.
2.When you get along, you especially want to be close.
The two people in the ambiguous period will have an inexplicable sense of closeness when they get along.
When the two are together, they can't help but want to talk to each other more, can't help but want to get close to him, and even want to touch him and hug him.
This kind of uncontrollable desire is actually ambiguous, because the heart is moved, so I can't help but act.
You know, if the two are just friends, they will only want to communicate at most, but they will never have this impulse.
3.Helping too much is equal to pampering.
It is common for friends to help each other.
However, this kind of help has a scope, and normally speaking, if you can do your best, you can already be considered a relatively iron friend.
And in an ambiguous relationship, this help often goes beyond friendship.
The two people in the ambiguity often help each other unconditionally, no matter what difficulties the other party encounters, they will not hesitate to lend a hand, even if they suffer a little, they want each other to be well.
This kind of help is actually a kind of care, and this kind of care is generally only seen between couples.
4.To be jealous is to have an explosion of possessiveness.
Ambiguity, like love, is also exclusive.
Therefore, men and women in ambiguity will be jealous when they see each other getting closer to other members of the opposite sex.
And this vinegar is actually the embodiment of possessiveness.
is not sure of the relationship, and there is a strong desire to possess, which means that the two are already in an ambiguous state.
You know, if it's just a friend, you can't feel this way
Even if he is snubbed by the other party, at most he is a little unhappy, but he is not jealous.
In fact, it is really not difficult to judge whether there is ambiguity between men and women.
If you really don't know, it's either pretending, or it's super white.
No matter what the case is, as long as the two of them feel comfortable, then get along well and don't have to worry too much.
You know, once something is clear, it is not beautiful.
Finally, I want to say that,The love that goes both ways is certainly beautiful
The ambiguity of the two-way default is more sultry ......