When two people have been together for a long time, you may encounter the following problems: sexual interaction becomes less and less, and the needs are always "just" staggered;
When you want to, the other person behaves mediocre; When you want to rest, the other person is in high spirits......
It is actually a very common phenomenon that men and women are not synchronized.
Today we are going to talk about what is affecting your "apricot" and how to keep men and women in the same step.
First of all, here are a few common questions about "apricot desire" that I hope will help you:
Q1 Does a man's desire for apricots have to be stronger than that of a woman?
Not. Under the traditional concept, women's apricot desires are not encouraged and suppressed, so we mistakenly think that women's desires are not strong. And a woman's desires are easier to hide, and need to be evoked and stimulated by foreplay.
Q2: Why do women have stronger desires before menstrual period?
It's normal. Some girls will find themselves (soon) to their menstrual period, and they will be more apricot than usual; It is mainly caused by changes in hormone levels in the body, coupled with pelvic congestion during menstruation, and the sensitivity of organs such as the Y tract and Y pedicle will also be improved.
Q3 Watching too many films, will it affect apricot desire?
It really would! If you receive audio-visual sexual stimulation (including small movies, audio, text, etc.) for a long time, it may lead to an increase in the brain threshold and a sluggish response; It even causes low apricot desire and is difficult to arouse.
Q4 Do we have apricot desires for people we don't love?
Possibly. In fact, it is possible for people to have apricot urges towards their regular friends, strangers, and even those they hate.
But this does not mean that we can satisfy ourselves as we please, because sex is not only personal, but also subject to many aspects such as social and moral laws. Therefore, we must learn to control our desires and use reason to restrain our inner impulses.
What factors will affect "Xingzhi"?
1) Hormones. The biggest impact on "Xingzhi" is first of all sex hormones - estrogen (mainly estradiol) and male hormones (mainly testosterone, also known as ** hormone).
Men also have estrogen, and women also have ** hormones in their bodies, but the content is different. For both men and women, low or higher than normal levels of sex hormones in the body will cause a decrease in apricot desire.
Modern medical research has shown that the level of hormones in the human body can directly determine the level of male and female apricot desire. The higher the level of testosterone secretion, the stronger the "Xingzhi" may be.
Sentiment. All apricot desires start from the brain, and if there are bad emotions (such as sadness, anger, nervousness, depression), it may lead to loss of desire.
When your partner is experiencing setbacks or psychological discomfort, be sure to help them channel their emotions before considering duo exercise. Otherwise, the results may not be satisfactory to you, depending on your emotions.
Diseases, medications.
Hypogonadism, microorchism, liver cirrhosis, reproductive system tumors and other diseases can cause hypopricot desire. If you feel too low, you can go to the hospital to check your hormones.
Taking drugs may also affect apricot desire, such as hormone drugs short-acting contraceptives, and common *** includes decreased apricot desire or even loss of apricot desire.
Some cold medicines containing pseudoephedrine can also cause mental fatigue, drowsiness, and suppress sexual arousal and cause decreased desire.
Ambient temperature. A study by the University of Groningen in the United States found that women had lower desire for apricots at room temperature 18 or 28 than at other times.
If the environment is too crowded, cluttered or lacks a sense of privacy, it will also lead to a decrease in apricot desire.