A new type of gnawing on the old has appeared, and parents are not easy to notice, and they are

In recent years, with the registration for the postgraduate examination, the number of candidates for the public and career preparation examinations has continued to increase, which has also increased the difficulty of students to go ashore and the pressure of competition.

In the current complex and changeable society, there is a very strange phenomenon, that is, many students will always use various reasons, such as the reason to participate in the civil service, career establishment and graduate school examinations, reach out to their parents to ask for money, and stuff themselves in the room all day long, seemingly studying hard, but in fact, they are secretly playing mobile games behind their parents' backs, over-addicted to the Internet, unable to extricate themselves, this kind of behavior is a serious waste of time and energy, and also wastes the expectations and hard-earned money given by their parents.

In response to this phenomenon, it is called a new type of gnawing old phenomenon, but many parents do not think so, and think that this is a manifestation of the child's promising, showing off how good the child is.

Nowadays, more and more college students have developed the bad habit of gnawing at the old under the excessive doting of their parents, and they have forgotten the meaning of hard work since they were children.

If parents want to put an end to young people's gnawing behavior, and want to make their later life easier, no longer entangled by their children all day long, very tired, then in the process of their children's growth, they should let them suffer a little bit, and they will be able to become masters.

In today's era of fierce competition, many students are unable to find a reputable and stable job after graduation, so they will put their employment goals on various exams, which seems to be very promising, but in fact it is a sign of escapism. Most of these people are concentrated in college graduates, who have become adults, have academic qualifications and have the ability to earn a living, but they are still not weaned, have no job, but they can't learn at all, this is their own problem, burying themselves at home all day to prepare for the exam.

**10,000 Fans Incentive Plan Some college students will also try to take the graduate exam in order to avoid employment after graduation, hoping that they can continue to study and delay the time of employment after they are admitted to graduate school. However, since most students don't really want to succeed in landing, they don't put in much effort to study, which also leads to the final result, which is not necessarily a regret to fail, and then they will start to find another way to choose to take the civil service or career establishment exam.

The beautiful name is to sign up for the iron rice bowl job, lay a solid foundation for future employment and development, and raise eyebrows for the family, parents. Parents are also working hard, workers strive to provide better material life for their children, but there is no result in preparing for the exam for one year, two or three years in a row, in order to appease parents, so that parents continue to agree, they will prepare for the exam at home, they will show that they are very confident every time, and parents will also feel that their children are promising, and they will show off to relatives and friends.

If students stay in their comfort zone for a long time, they will be reluctant to come out, and they will be immersed in the fantasy of preparing for the exam, unable to extricate themselves, but every time due to the reason that they do not come back to work hard, the final result must be a failure, and failure again and again will only make parents lose confidence and hope in them.

I hope that students can be responsible for their own lives and their families, and do not rely on their parents all their lives, but must live on their own.