"Hot and Hot" has set off a wave of craze on the Internet, triggering people's deep thinking about changing their lives in middle age. The sooner you understand the truth, the better it will be for your life to change. This is not only a kind of wisdom, but also an attitude towards life. It allows us to maintain our expectations for the future and strive for a better version of ourselves at different stages of our lives. The movie is hot and piping hot
During this year's Spring Festival, the movie "Hot and Hot" directed by Jia Ling is like a fire, sweeping the major hot search lists. The protagonist in the film, Le Ying, a former "waste wood girl", fell into a deep malaise after experiencing the heavy blows of life and the ruthless exclusion of the workplace. However, by chance, she came into contact with the sport of boxing, which was like a ray of light that illuminated her life path. She wrote a new chapter of herself with sweat and hard work, rewriting the original gloomy life. After watching it, the audience sighed one after another, as if they saw their own shadow, that tenacity and unyieldingness, and that perseverance and expectation for the future.
I once heard such a proverb: "Whoever says that everything is closed until middle age, only when he lives to middle age can he feel that things are done by man." Indeed, when we enter middle age, if we are eager to pursue that hot life, we must understand these three middle-aged truths about changing lives.
Find yourself more than anything else
After a series of setbacks, Le Ying decided to change herself, find herself again, and started taking boxing seriously. This process symbolizes that middle-aged people need to re-examine themselves and find their true selves in order to live a meaningful and rewarding life when facing difficulties.
Endure growing pains
Although Le Ying exceeded the regular retirement age for female boxers, she still insisted on competing and successfully qualified through hard training. This reflects the need for middle-aged people to endure growing pains in their pursuit of change and breakthroughs, and only by experiencing adversity and difficulties can they become stronger and more valuable.
The stronger the heart, the wider the world
Le Ying has changed from a timid girl who is afraid to walk side by side to a woman who is full of fighting spirit and bravely faces challenges. Although she didn't win the competition in the end, she earned the respect and recognition of the people around her. This tells us that middle-aged people need to be firm in their hearts when facing challenges, and when their hearts are strong enough, they can win more respect and recognition, and at the same time, they can also discover a wider world.
"If the heart is towards the sun, everything grows. If you want to change your life against the sky, you can only change your heart. ”
At any time, we need to rediscover ourselves, bravely swing our fists into life, endure the pain of transformation, and continue to strengthen ourselves. When people reach middle age, they all need a transformation of life. Turn around gorgeously, unlock a new me, and welcome our own brilliant future and our own hot life.