Around us, there is a phenomenon that subverts cognition and is quietly emerging. Are those who choose to stay in the county really the same as we imagined, living in poverty and lacking opportunities? In fact, those who remain in the county are the real rich people. This seems to contradict what we usually know.
Recently, a blogger who drifted north returned to his hometown for the New Year unexpectedly became popular. He originally thought that he would be envied when he returned to his hometown as a person from the big city, but in fact, he found that he was more like a "country man going to the city".
In his hometown, those classmates and friends who stayed in the county seemed to be living a more nourishing life than him. They live in big villas, drive luxury cars, and enjoy all kinds of pleasures in life. This kind of scene makes people wonder, what are these people getting the money from?
Actually, the answer is simple. There is a good saying: "If you look forward to Liuyuanji, your family will be poor and go to another country." "In the past, we always thought that people who worked in big cities were particularly capable, while those who stayed in small counties were visionary and incompetent. But now it seems that this perception may need to be updated.
In fact, the people who can stay in the county and get along are the real capable people. They can be roughly divided into two categories: one is those who work within the system, and they enjoy a stable income and generous benefits; The other type is the family engaged in the local profiteering industry, and they live a comfortable life in the county town by virtue of their family background and network resources.
And those who leave the county to work in the big city often face huge life pressure. They run for survival and fight for their dreams. Although there are more opportunities and possibilities in the big cities, the competition is also fierce. As a result, many people begin to miss the ease and ease of life in the county.
However, we must be soberly aware of the fact that county life is not something that everyone can enjoy. Although some people seem to live a glamorous life, the dedication and effort behind it are something we can't see. And, as China's urbanization continues to advance, opportunities in county towns are also decreasing. Therefore, for those who do not have a family background and network resources, it is not easy to gain a foothold in the county.
So, for those who are struggling in the big cities, how should they choose? Will you continue to stay in the big city to pursue your dreams, or will you return to the county seat to enjoy a relaxed life?
Actually, there is no one set answer to this question. Everyone's situation is different and you need to make a choice based on your actual situation. However, no matter which lifestyle you choose, it takes effort and struggle. Because whether it is in a big city or a county town, there is a certain price to pay if you want to live a happy life.
So, what I want to say is: don't be fooled by superficial phenomena. Don't blindly pursue the life of the so-called "county tycoons", and don't give up the opportunity to pursue your dreams in the big city. You should make a choice according to your actual situation and goals, and put in the effort and struggle for it.
In the end, no matter what you are in, I hope you can live a happy life that is truly your own.