She is unpretentious, but she shines with the light of life in the ordinary; She is elegant and gentle, but exudes an extraordinary temperament; She didn't let her eyebrows go, but she used her soft shoulders to support a "sunny day"; With a generous mind, she is filial piety and love for relatives, teaches by word and deed, and is diligent and thrifty, touching her neighbors with the practice of civilization in the new era, and helping to ...... civilized township with good deedsShe is Li Xu, the farmer's daughter-in-law of Wangzhuang Village, Weichuan Town, Zhengzhou Airport District.
The palms and backs of these hands are full of meat, to be honest, my daughter-in-law treats me as a real relative......”
I lost my mother when I was a child, and my mother-in-law is like my own mother......This is the verbal language that their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often say.
Filial piety and love for relatives
Filial piety comes first, filial piety to the elders is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and respect for the elderly is the glory of human nature. Li Xumei has been filial to her elders since she was a child, and has engraved the traditional virtues of honoring the elderly in her blood and in her heart.
In October 2011, with a vision of a better life, Li Xumei married to Wangzhuang Village, Weichuan Town, hard-working and capable, she always kept her home in order, lived in harmony with her family, set a benchmark for the younger generation, and neighbors praised her.
There are unpredictable circumstances. In the winter of 2018, my mother-in-law was admitted to the hospital due to illness. In the face of sudden changes, the atmosphere at home was tense for a while, but this young daughter-in-law showed a resolute character.
Li Xumei and her husband braved the cold wind and stepped on the snow together, running between the family and the hospital. She was busy before and after, going through formalities, serving in bed, and taking care of housework, and she was as busy as a spinning top, without stopping for a moment. The thoughtful behavior made the patients in the same room say enviously: "Your daughter is really filial." "This is my daughter-in-law who treats me closer than my daughter! As she spoke, the mother-in-law wiped away the excited tears from the corners of her eyes with her hand.
After her mother-in-law was discharged from the hospital, Li Xumei still made nutritious meals for her mother-in-law every day, cooking lotus seed porridge, boiling black chicken soup, and wrapping fresh dumplings ......Grab a steaming meal. Change clothes, wash your face and comb your hair, wipe your back and cut your fingers, rub your shoulders and massage the elderly, promote blood circulation, and do dirty work; Preparing nutrition and fruits for the elderly on time every day will quickly restore the mother-in-law's body. The neighbors said that you have such a good body, and your daughter-in-law has to take more than half of the work. When the mother-in-law heard this, her heart was happy.
Teach by example
In daily life, Li Xumei interprets the true meaning of filial piety with her own practical actions, and plays an exemplary and exemplary role for her children......Whenever she eats, she always serves meals to her in-laws first, and always prepares more when she meets the elderly's favorite food, all of which makes her children see it in their eyes and remember it in their hearts.
You must remember that your parents buy your grandparents good food and good clothes, this is called 'filial piety', and often doing what they say is 'shun', and if there is anything delicious, you must first send it to your grandparents with both hands to ......Li Xumei often instructed the children.
One day in the midsummer of 2020, dark clouds were thick, thunder rumbled, and lightning flashed in the sky. At this moment, the mother-in-law suddenly felt discomfort in her chest, faint pain, and her husband was not at home, Li Xumei didn't say a word, regardless of the pouring rain, put on a raincoat and hurriedly rushed into the rain curtain ......When her mother-in-law's pain was relieved after taking the medicine, Li Xumei's tense face showed a smile, and the daughter on the side immediately gave her mother a thumbs up.
Every holiday or weekend, Li Xumei will take the elderly and children to the park to see the animals, go to the fields to breathe fresh air, go to the supermarket to stroll, the family is happy, she uses a little bit of love to make the flower of filial piety proudly bloom. "My mother often educates me how to honor my grandparents, and I must set an example for other children......My daughter, who is in elementary school, wrote in her essay.
Li Xumei writes the "chapter" of "good daughter-in-law" with action, draws the "beautiful picture" of filial piety with facts, and interprets her traditional virtues of "filial piety" and "love" between the lines, when the neighbors praise her, she always smiles and says: "This is what you should do, the old man's today is our ...... tomorrow."”
Thrifty. In daily life, Li Xumei is careful everywhere, living within her means, never wasting a penny, there is no luxurious decoration at home, and there are no high-end household appliances, everything is simple and ordinary, but neat, clean, tidy and ......
On the indoor sofa, I saw Sumei combing her mother-in-law's hair carefully, while softly remembering the scene when she got married: "At that time, I just bought a few pieces of furniture that were not very valuable, and I didn't ask for any bride price, and some relatives and friends said that I was not normal, but I always laughed ...... it."”
Li Xumei does not pursue enjoyment, dresses up and does not compare with others, does not pursue famous brands, does not pursue luxury, has always maintained a good habit of thrift and thrift, although the income is not high, but with the fine tradition of diligence and thrift, has a harmonious family. For all this, my mother-in-law always felt warm in her heart, and a smile was on her face.
In family life, Li Xumei pays great attention to energy conservation, and she always puts the water for washing vegetables and laundry into a large basin to mop the floor. When people leave the room, they turn off the lights as soon as they leave. Try not to have leftovers at every meal. He often uses the waste items at home to make handicrafts for his son to decorate the room, which is both a treasure and full of creativity. "Diligence is sweet spring water, thrift is a cornucopia". Li Xumei adheres to this concept and makes the family more and more happy and happy.
For more than ten years, Li Xumei has used practical actions to interpret ordinary family stories, depicted a civilized picture of a harmonious family with love, managed a happy family with true feelings and family affection, and used her own practical actions to publicize and infect the residents around her, highlighting the "beautiful chapter" of women in the new era of building a good family, cultivating a good family education, and cultivating a good family style. (Wang Shuitian, Liu Yong).