On March 6, 2012, 15-year-old Zhang Lina walked out of school with her classmates carrying her schoolbag as usual. The results of the mock test were released, which brought her one step closer to her ideal high school, and the teacher also told her that according to this result, there was no problem with the high school entrance examination.
She imagined that she could repay her hard-working father, Zhang Jianhong, and the girl's pace became relaxed and happy. She is like a swan with wings spread, full of anticipation ahead, just waiting for a gust of wind, she can fly to the sky and meet the bright future.
However, her wings were suddenly pulled off. As she was about to get on the school bus, a woman appeared in front of the bus who was both familiar and strange. Zhang Lina was puzzled, and she recognized that this was Chen Ling, whom she had met two months ago.
Two months ago, Chen Ling asked Zhang Jianhong for help, she used her bone marrow to match her son's blood sample, and she will donate bone marrow for the seriously ill little brother, and the two sides also took a group photo.
Chen Ling's sudden appearance made Zhang Lina's heart tighten, and she was worried about whether her little brother's condition had changed. So she took the initiative to say hello and asked Aunt Chen if she had come to her father.
But Chen Ling grabbed Zhang Lina's arm tightly, her expression nervous and anxious. Under the gaze of everyone, she pulled Zhang Lina off the school bus and shouted hysterically: "Lina, I'm your mother!"
Your brother needs your bone marrow to save his life now, come with me to the hospital to save my brother! Zhang Lina was taken aback by Chen Ling's sudden move, and before she could recover from the pain of her ankle sprain, she was struck by this incredible truth.
Her mind lost control and she broke down and cried out for help. The school teacher immediately protected Zhang Lina and informed her father, Zhang Jianhong, to come. At the same time, the security guard also urgently dialed 110 to call the police**.
However, at this time, Chen Ling was like crazy, she desperately clung to Zhang Lina, and repeatedly said that she must hurry up to save her brother. The scene was chaotic.
Zhang Jianhong hurried to the scene, and when he saw his daughter's sluggish expression, his heart seemed to be cut by a sharp blade. He hurriedly pushed Chen Ling away, hugged his daughter tightly, and told her firmly: "You don't want to get anything from my daughter!" ”
The fight between the two sides grows more and more intense, and Lina is like in a dream, she can't believe that this is happening today. Despite being taken to the police station, she was unable to recover from the horror.
However, she is well aware that from now on, everything will change. She cried so much that she couldn't stop crying, just hugged her father tightly, refused to look at the earnest Chen Ling, and only squeezed out a few words from between her teeth: "I regret it and won't save that brother anymore." ”
Hearing this news, Chen Ling suddenly felt that the world was spinning, was this the retribution she deserved?
In October, the baby came, and the Chen family was looking forward to having a boy to inherit the incense. However, when they see another girl, they get into trouble. Chen Ling, the only daughter of the Chen family, married a family without a son in order to pass on the lineage.
The first child was a girl, and they hoped to make up the word "good", but the second child was a girl, and the family planning policy stipulated that they could not have any more children, so they could only choose to send away the innocent child.
They found a solid family and sent the baby girl, who was born less than 100 days old, to Suzhou, more than 300 kilometers away. A year later, Chen Ling gave birth to a boy, and the whole family was immersed in joy, but they seemed to forget the baby girl who was sent away less than 100 days after birth.
Time flies, the children of the Chen family are thriving, but this happy family is about to encounter a storm. In 2011, Chen Yiyang, who was only 14 years old, suddenly had a high fever, and his family thought it was just an ordinary illness, but the high fever lasted for several days, and the drug was ineffective, and Yang Yang's condition became more and more serious, and he was in a trance, and even accompanied by a large number of nosebleeds.
All this aroused the alarm of the mother Chen Ling, who rushed the child to the First People's Hospital of Huai'an, Jiangsu, and after the doctor's diagnosis, they learned that Chen Yiyang was suffering from "myelodysplastic syndrome".
In the face of the panic of the Chen family, the doctor regretted that the initial symptoms of Yang Yang's blood cancer were extremely serious and could not be used by conventional methods**. However, bone marrow transplantation provides the only chance of survival, with a higher rate of matching between relatives and a relatively low risk of complications after transplantation compared to the probability of random bone marrow matching in the bone marrow transplant bank.
The doctor advised the Chen family to have bone marrow matching with Yang Yang first. Chen Ling's eldest sister is 18 years old, and she immediately decided to make a match for her younger brother. However, unfortunately, the bone marrow of the two siblings did not match, and the Chen family fell into despair.
Chen Ling watched her son on the hospital bed burst into tears, and she felt heartache for her pride. The son, who was once smart and cute and has always been the first in his class, can now only be tormented by illness and cannot realize his ideals and ambitions.
All this made Chen Ling unacceptable, and she thought that this should not be Yang Yang's fate.
She also has a child. Chen Ling recalled the second daughter who was sent away just after birth, although the mother-daughter relationship was not deep, but in order to promote Yangyang, as an older sister, she was determined to contribute.
Her husband was smoking and pondering on the side, and in the smoke, he hesitantly said to his wife that he hoped she would not disturb the children's lives, but how could Chen Ling give up? Missing this opportunity, it may mean her son's life, she looks at her husband affectionately, every late at night, she always misses the abandoned child, her heart is full of guilt, this search, is to save her son, but also to relieve her own knot.
Despite her husband's dissuasion, she firmly set out on the path of finding her daughter.
Chen Ling searched for relatives thousands of miles just to save her son, and finally found her daughter's home after hardships. But Zhang Jianhong was full of wariness of her, because in the past fifteen years, he never thought that his biological mother would come to him.
He recalls the pain of losing his child to his ex-wife, and the joy of adopting Lina, watching her grow up day by day, and his father's love is overflowing. However, Zhang Jianhong is now dependent on Lina, and she is all he has.
He was determined not to let anyone take his daughter from him, so his words were very blunt, asking why Chen Ling broke the agreement and appeared in front of him.
Chen Ling fell to her knees and pleaded with Zhang Jianhong to save her child with tears in her eyes. After Zhang Jianhong heard this, he fell into deep thought. Although he was disgusted by Chen Ling's sudden appearance, her maternal love also made him empathize.
He thought of the three children who were destined to be inseparable, and the great love in his heart finally overcame his resistance. Faced with Chen Ling's request, Zhang Jianhong finally agreed, but he put forward one condition: Chen Ling could not recognize Zhang Lina.
The final decision rests with the child.
Chen Ling was pleasantly surprised and agreed to the agreement with Zhang Jianhong, and they decided to meet at the hospital in Suzhou. However, Zhang Jianhong's mood was very heavy, and he made an excuse to take his daughter Zhang Lina to Suzhou together.
On the way, he kept thinking and finally posed a question to Lina: "If someone gets sick and needs a bone marrow transplant, will you save it?" Lina replied without hesitation: "Of course, I will save him!" ”
Then, Zhang Jianhong asked: "But what if you also need a bone marrow transplant yourself?" Lina still replied firmly: "Then save too, because life is the most precious!" ”
Zhang Jianhong respected his daughter's choice and took her to the hospital to learn about Chen Ling's condition. After blood matching, both parents decided to donate bone marrow. Chen Ling was touched by Lina's kindness and decided not to disturb her life, leaving only a group photo as a souvenir of gratitude and reunion.
For Lina, this is a photo of the donor and the recipient, and for Chen Ling, it is a commemoration of the reunion of mother and daughter after a 15-year absence.
After a critical bone marrow matching success, both families saw hope. However, due to a major disagreement over the bone marrow donation, the future of both families has been affected.
After agreeing on the donation, Zhang Jianhong made a request, hoping that the operation could be postponed to the summer vacation to avoid affecting his daughter's high school entrance examination results. However, Chen Ling rejected his proposal because of his desire to save his son.
In the end, Zhang's proposal was not realized, and Yang's condition became more serious as a result.
Zhang Jianhong put forward a second request, requiring Chen Ling to pay 500,000 yuan for the operation. He emphasised that a bone marrow transplant is a high-risk operation that will have a profound impact on the Chen family if there are any adverse effects on the child.
He proposed that the money could be notarized at a notary office, and that in the future, a full body examination would be conducted before his daughter got married, and if nothing was found, the money would be returned to the Chen family.
However, Chen Ling refused, because the Chen family is a rural family and has already spent a lot of money on Yangyang's illness. She proposed two solutions: one was to buy life insurance for Lina, and the other was to write the house in Lina's name.
However, Zhang Jianhong did not accept either option. In the end, after mediation by the village committee, Zhang Jianhong agreed to discuss the issue after the operation.
Zhang Jianhong has made concessions many times in consideration of the actual difficulties of the Chen family. However, he still made one last request, that is, he hoped that Chen Ling could take the child to Suzhou for surgery.
He has great expectations for his daughter and the breeding industry, if he has surgery in northern Jiangsu, he will lose more than 100,000 yuan, miss the nursery season, the fish will not be able to grow, and the family's economic situation will be greatly affected.
Chen Ling refused the request three times because she believed that the surgery at the Suzhou hospital was more expensive. Zhang Jianhong was very angry, he thought that he had made a big concession, but Chen Ling still did not consider his actual situation.
Eventually, he decided to give up the donation. This news was like a bolt from the blue for Chen Ling. Her son still needs to save his life, so she decides to avoid Zhang Jianhong and go directly to Lina's school bus, which leads to an amazing farce of fighting for Lina.
Chen Ling took extreme measures in order to get her son. She posted letters accusing Zhang Jianhong of extortion and Zhang Lina's unknown right and wrong on the streets and alleys, which brought huge psychological pressure to Zhang Lina.
Zhang Lina was suspended from school because of this, and was threatened by Chen Ling's text message. Zhang Jianhong was also enraged and decided to collect evidence to accuse Chen Ling, and Zhang Lina also expressed her dissatisfaction and pain in a text message in response to Chen Ling, saying that she was just a tool, not their child.
In a farce, the Zhang and Chen families finally untied the knot. Yang Yang, who was in the hospital**, was full of despair after learning what had happened. He wrote a letter to his second sister, hoping that she would be considerate of his mother.
Seeing this seriously ill and sensible child, the emotions of the two families calmed down. However, Zhang Jianhong was still reluctant to talk to Chen Ling about bone marrow donation, but he also asked his daughter to let go of her hatred for her biological mother.
It's only temporary," Mr. Zhang said, "and it's just a hurdle, just cross it." No matter what, she will always be your mother. The words of her father and younger brother illuminated Zhang Lina's heart, and she decided not to pursue Chen Ling anymore and tried to forgive her.
At this moment, a piece of good news came, and there were two people in the bone marrow bank who had successfully matched their bone marrow! Yang Yang can be saved, Zhang and Chen's family can also let go of the past, and the help of family affection and the public has opened up a life path for the sick little boy and reconciled the two families.
Such an ending is a great joy for everyone.
The change in the main body of social productive forces has led to a change in the social status of men and women. The rise of Song ** school brought the bondage of women to the peak, and women still had the freedom to dress and parade the streets in the past. "
The birth of a boy is called Langzhang, and the birth of a girl is called Langwa"It reflects the difference in gender views between men and women. Even in modern times, patriarchal attitudes remain deeply entrenched. Despite the fact that the state has always advocated"It is the same for both boys and girls", but there are still many families who have staged joys and sorrows because of the preference for sons.
The tragedy of Zhang Lina and Chen Ling's mother and daughter is a microcosm of this bad atmosphere, which is worth pondering.