Can you imagine a 13-year-old having such a mature mind?
Some time ago, when I was talking to my mother, she talked about the grandson of one of her sisters. The boy is now 13 years old and is in middle school in Shanghai. His grandmother has always lived alone and has two daughters, one in Shanghai and one in Dalian. The two daughters are in good condition at home.
Once, the little boy asked his mother, "Mom, do you regret giving birth to me?" ”
His mother was stunned for a moment when she heard this question, and said, "I don't regret it, why should I regret it?" ”
Then the little boy said, "You and Dad work hard every day, and all the money we earn is spent on me." Do you know? Over the years, I have spent more than 600,000 yuan on make-up fees, not counting anything else. His mother was surprised and asked, "How do you know how much money was spent on the make-up fee, I can't even remember it myself." ”
The little boy took out a diary in which he wrote down his tuition fees and his own large expenses. Then he said, "Mom, have you calculated how much it will cost you to graduate from college?" And the current situation is that even if I graduate from university in the future, I will still work part-time, even if I am admitted to a prestigious university and enter a famous company, I will still work part-time. There are a few classmates in our class who have family connections, and a few of them have their own businesses, so they can have a better placement after graduation, but none of these are in our family. You and Dad spend so much hard money on me every day, I'm under a lot of pressure, and I know you're tired too. ”
After hearing this, his mother said: "Then you are still young, and you must study hard, every step of your future journey, your education is your step." The boy replied, "I know that I am still young, and I will study hard." But Mom, I'm studying day and night now, and you guys are also working day and night, is it really worth it? I'll be obedient now, but I hope I can make my own decisions in the future. You must not force me to go to any kind of university. I don't want to get married, and I don't plan to have children. ”
His mother smiled and said, "If you don't get married and don't have children, what will you do when you're old?" The boy replied, "Look at my grandfather, he has two of you, do any of you have any of you?" Doesn't he still live alone? His mother was stunned for a moment and said, "You are old, and you can't count on us now, but when people are old and sick, they still need someone to take care of them." ”
The boy said, "You don't have to worry about that. I have a couple of good brothers, and we've all discussed it. In the future, they will not get married, they can enjoy their time when they are young, and they can take care of each other when they are old. A lifetime of freedom, no worries. If you die, your body will be donated. I don't think you're so tired.
Can you imagine this being the idea of a 13-year-old? He seems to have some truth in it!