1. Treat others as teachers. Knowing why others are unhappy, knowing why others fail, we can learn how to live happier and more successful.
2. To grow is to actively absorb nutrients from the outside world. Including reading classic books, observing others, and most importantly, honing yourself in things.
3. The IQ gap between most people is not large, but the gap in cognitive level is likely to get bigger and bigger. When we calm down and study and think, we will become wiser and more capable.
4. A strong body is the foundation for enjoying everything. Don't let anxiety, anger, and indulgence ruin our bodies. Those who have lost their health are the best people we can learn from.
5. In life, don't look too big at anything. Only by maintaining a good mood can we use a more correct way to solve the problems we encounter, instead of being trapped in negative emotions and constantly suffering from internal friction.
6. Life can be interesting. The joy of many things disappears because we become so focused on the outcome that we lose the ability to enjoy the process.
7. The more we know how to enjoy the process of doing things, the happier we will be when we do it, the more we will enjoy doing it, and finally do it better and better.
8. One of the greatest joys in life is to see the happy smiling faces of your family. We must not give up running a happy family for the sake of work or wealth.
9. Most people in this world live in misery. Because most people are looking outward for everything better and forget to enjoy what they have.
10. People are often not persuaded to wake up, but to be awakened by pain. What makes us live and understand that what makes us happy is often not the persuasion of others, but our own continuous reflection from the pain in our hearts. Finally, I began to understand that seeking outward is always just the pursuit of happiness and cannot have happiness.
11. Although there are billions of people in this world, we can only meet a few people who are good to us in our lifetime. Learning to cherish and be grateful will lead us to happier relationships.
12, there is no turning back in time, and there is no regret medicine in life. We let it pass, raise our heads and look ahead. Don't carry the baggage of the past, we will go easier, faster, and further.
13. Our life is not to live decently, but to live happily. Many times, we care too much about whether we are decent in the eyes of others, which only adds unnecessary annoyance to ourselves.
14. When we become better, many people will take the initiative to approach us, which is human nature. When we are not profitable, the person who is still good to us is the person who is worth cherishing for a lifetime.
15. Only when our hearts are strong enough to face the world calmly will the world put away its fangs and claws and become pleasant.
16. When we are successful enough, there will be more and more flowers and applause. But what people value is not ourselves, but our success, so we don't need to take flowers and applause too much as a treasure.
17. For ourselves, being able to enjoy our own life and having the strength to face the hardships of life is the real success.
18. Everything that can make people grow in this world is often painful. Because only by learning to face suffering can we learn to master happiness.