1. You don't have to pursue a magnificent life. As long as our hearts are calm and calm enough, we can reap a happy life.
2. The direction of life should be controlled by ourselves. Seeking the approval of others is equivalent to putting the reins on ourselves with our own hands and then handing them over to others.
3. Focus on walking the road under your feet and enjoying the scenery around you. When we have a calm and focused mind, we will find that there is a lot of joy in life.
4. Life is a walk of one person, not a marathon of a group of people. We don't have to follow in the footsteps of others, but we need to live our lives with peace of mind.
5. There are so many people in the world, in the final analysis, there are two kinds of people: one is a person whose self-interest is greater than altruism, and the other is a person whose altruism is greater than his self-interest. And pure self-interest or altruism is almost negligible.
6. Most people are more self-interested than altruistic, and this is precisely the reason why it is difficult for most people to achieve happiness. The more proficient a person is at calculating his own gains and losses, the more he will always feel that he has lost, and the more troubles he will have.
7. The best world is the world of mutual altruism. But the selfish side of human nature dictates that such a world is almost impossible to exist.
8. When we see through that human nature is nothing more than self-interest or altruism, the world is very simple. All the actions of all people are nothing more than derivative of both.
9. No one in this world is our enemy, and the obsession in our own hearts is the obstacle to our happiness.
10. Don't worry or blame others for not understanding ourselves, we just need to focus on making ourselves better, people who like us will naturally like us, and we don't have to force what we don't like.
11. It can't rain all the time, the tunnel will have an end, we don't have to worry too much about tomorrow, go down with peace of mind, and we will definitely be able to witness the bright moment.
12. When our hearts are strong enough, we can change our fate. The so-called change of fate is to change the situation with the heart, not the heart with the situation.
13. Let our hearts get rid of the interference of the outside world and experience the happiness in daily life, and then we will create more happiness with this happiness, which is to walk on the road of happiness.
14. Real effort is not to be done for anyone. It's about believing from the bottom of our hearts that we can get better and better, and putting it into action.
15. Everyone knows that growing up takes its time, but when you see that far along the road, you quickly lose patience. Sometimes it's not always good to look too far.
16. When we are confused, we learn and then use what we have learned to do things that are beneficial to others. Don't worry, there will be rewards.
17. Don't worry about being looked down upon by others. Whether others look up to it or not, what we have to do is to get better and better.
18. Becoming good is never something that happens overnight. Accumulating a little wisdom every day, improving a little ability every day, will make us completely reborn over time.
19. Many times, letting go of the expectation of the result and just trying something that has not been done with all our heart can greatly enrich our life experience and bring happiness that we have never experienced.
20. Happiness is often not the pursuit of the ultimate happiness, but learning to face those things that make us unhappy with a peaceful mind.