When it comes to my uncle, he was so good-looking when he was young that almost every woman I knew would have a crush on him.
I remember he would often buy toys and make handicrafts for our little ones.
And those handicrafts in school, always easily win awards.
He was a handsome man who loved to laugh, was funny, and had a talent for art.
As for my eldest mother, she may have chosen him firmly because of her uncle's appearance.
It is said that the eldest lady hesitated between two suitors: one was a man from a neighboring village, who had a small amount of money but an ordinary appearance; And the other is a good-looking uncle.
Although my mother's mother suggested the former, my aunt insisted on her opinion.
**Ten Thousand Fans Incentive Plan Later, whenever they had an argument or even escalated into a physical altercation, the eldest mother would complain, saying that she had seen the wrong person.
My uncle's aggressive personality was revealed in my childhood, and it became more serious after junior high school.
What starts out as a verbal confrontation doesn't turn into physical violence.
However, over time, any disobedience or confrontation with him may result in a beating.
One of them was my cousin, who was very knowledgeable and good at debating since she was a child, and because she grew up, she was very knowledgeable and good at debating.
The eldest lady tends to avoid the important and light in her personality, and she hides when she can dodge.
As a result, the conflict between the cousin and the uncle has become the main conflict in the family**.
When I was a child, my cousin was weak and was not my uncle's opponent at all, and every dispute ended with my cousin suffering.
Until high school, my cousin was still not strong enough to compete with the physical disparity between men and women.
But as she grew older, she learned the decisiveness that the eldest mother lacked.
She is like a tough oleander, which usually blooms silently, and when it is violated, it will release toxins, even if she will be injured.
One time we had a family reunion, and there were a lot of people present.
Uncle kept nagging as usual, we were used to it, and my cousin chose to turn a deaf ear at the time.
But the uncle continued to chatter, and the cousin turned a blind eye.
It may be that the alcohol has angered the uncle, and the uncle grabbed a pair of chopsticks and threw them at his cousin.
But fortunately, my cousin was not hit, and the chopsticks hit the wall.
Then the cousin became angry, picked up the items on the table and threw them at the uncle.
The eldest lady rushed over to persuade her first, but the uncle raised a stainless steel chair to hit her cousin, and the chair had touched her cousin and aunt.
The cousin picked up the heavy flower pot on the balcony and threw it at the uncle, the flower pot shattered to the ground, and the uncle was injured in the head.
For a moment, the uncle was stunned, he was even more angry, and his eyes were red.
Rushed into the kitchen and came out with a kitchen knife and threatened: "Come on, you kill me!" ”
The cousin responded calmly: "If you want to die, you will kill yourself, don't do these useless things." ”
Eventually, the uncle was pushed into the house by his relatives amid crying and cursing.
Uncle's wound was ** for several months, and sometimes I saw him scratching at the wound in pain in the mirror, but I pretended not to see it.
Afterwards, the eldest mother often mentioned this matter, and her tone was reproachful, thinking that the cousin should not be so heavy on her biological father.
The eldest lady probably didn't expect that her cousin could have so much courage and explosiveness at that time.
But it was after this incident that the uncle never spoke loudly or touched them again.
Even if he sometimes gets impatient with his cousin, he just chooses to ignore her and walk away.
My cousin told us that every time she recalled that conflict, she did not regret it, but was shocked by her courage and explosiveness.
But this incident also affected her view of mate selection, she said that she would not judge people by their appearance, and handsome appearance was no longer a condition that had to be considered.
Because if the other party is easy to be impulsive, and even has a tendency or behavior of domestic violence, then no matter how handsome he is, he can't ask for it.