When it comes to the various love-hate entanglements in the Bai family's mansion, I am afraid that even if we talk for three days and three nights, it will be difficult to speak. In the Bai family's mansion, although the legendary story of the seventh master is wonderful, what is more evocative is the bumpy years between the old lady and her husband. The personable life of the seventh master always attracts our attention, but in fact, the married life of the elders is also worth looking back on.
* Grandma died of love, although the second grandmother was strong but soft-hearted, the third grandmother was filled with the smell of fireworks in the world, although they were all daughters-in-law of the Bai family, but their endings were very different.
When we look back at these three marriages, it is easy to discover the mystery of marriage hidden within them.
If there is no mausoleum in the mountain, and the sky and the earth are one, I dare to cut ties with you.
The poem "Touching the Fish and the Wild Goose Hill" was once written:
What is true emotion in this world? It makes people want to live and die for it. From south to north, two flying travelers, how many seasons have Lao Wing experienced. Joy and joy, the pain of parting, and among them are those infatuated children. Thou shalt speak, far away clouds, twilight snow above a thousand hills, to whom will my shadow go? ”
There is a touching love story hidden in the Bai family's mansion, that is, the emotional entanglement between the eldest young master Bai Yingyuan and the eldest young grandmother.
Uncle Bai Yingyuan and grandmother were once affectionate lovers in the eyes of everyone. The uncle's personality is very kind, friendly, and superb, while the young grandmother is a gentle and good wife.
However, an unexpected event leads to the complete separation of the lovers.
In the past, the second master diagnosed the happy pulse for Da Gege, who was not yet married in Zhan Wangfu, and instructed Zhan Wangfu to take action. In order to retaliate against this, Bai Mengtang added tocolytic drugs to Da Gege's medicine, causing Da Gege to give birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses. This made King Zhan's Mansion a laughing stock in the entire capital, and the relationship between the two families changed from a world friendship to a deep hatred.
What happened next was that Uncle Bai Yingyuan accidentally caused the death of Zhan Wangye's sister, the concubine of Emperor Tongzhi at that time, so she was thrown into prison and sentenced to death.
When ** Grandma learned the unfortunate news of her husband, she did not shed tears or create a commotion, but chose to end her young life with a white silk, hoping to reunite with her husband underground. But unfortunately, she didn't know that her uncle had been rescued by her second grandmother, Bai Wenshi. The loss of milk plunged the whole family into silence and sadness. It was a family full of happiness and contentment, but since then, they have been separated by fate, leaving only a few children who need to be fed.
Many people appreciate the infatuation of ** milk, thinking that her love for her uncle has surpassed everything, but isn't she also a selfish performance? Granny is a very good woman, she has a happy and warm family, her husband and daughter are also very good, but she doesn't want this home because she feels that her life is meaningless and worthless. Faced with the dual pressure of the elderly and children, she chose to avoid the problem with a resolute attitude. She believes that death can take away all the pain and hurt, but she prefers to escape reality and is unwilling to take any responsibility.
Her departure has led to the loss of family support for several young children, who have since lost the company of their parents and ended up being orphans. Although life in the Bai family compound is not lacking in basic food and drink, the growth of children without the care of their parents is indeed a huge loss. Every orphan is a continuation of life, and they need more love and care. Children represent the deep love between parents, and when a husband dies, being a wife ensures that his life continues, which is the sign of true love.
Love will never be broken by life and death, nor will it die because of distance. True love is my soul clinging to you, and your spirit is deeply engraved in my bones. No matter where you are, I will treasure it to my heart. If time takes away you, I will grant your wish and continue to live in your place, and you will see that they all become very good under my care.
Those who appear to be as deep as the sea of emotions are actually just soldiers who are trying to evade pursuit.
Wisdom in marriage is embodied in the perfect combination of rigidity and softness.
If you have any questions:
In the Bai family, which pair of marriages makes you yearn for them? ”
Bai Erye and his wife are likely to get the highest turnout. Of the couple, one is the iron-blooded heroine of the business world, while the other is an ostensibly submissive sitting man. Although they don't seem to be a "good match", the way they get along with each other provides them with a recipe for ensuring the longevity of their marriage.
Some netizens have commented:
If the second grandmother can find a real man, she may have a better performance. ”
In fact, if the second grandmother marries a man who does what he says, then her marriage relationship with her husband may come to an end, and the two are like two blazing flames that want to burn the whole world and eventually lead to the destruction of the universe. The life of Bai Er's grandmother seems to be a harmonious melody, and Bai Erye accompanies her as gently as the wind. Second Master Bai is like a fresh breeze, always accompanying Second Grandma Bai. When her flame is not shining, he will light it for her; And when she wants to burn herself, he protects her.
Like every couple in the world, Second Master Bai and Second Grandma may also have disputes. "Our Jingqi is going to write Bai Juyi's "Pipa Xing" in the quilt, learning to be rich and five cars, it is really promising! "Once, Bai Erye and his son Bai Jingqi moved the inkstone into the quilt in order to borrow some popularity for the four treasures of the study. Seeing this scene, Bai Erma was very angry and shouted loudly to throw things out, but Bai Erma said his words without being shy:
If there's anything to discuss, we can discuss, but please don't set it on fire. ”
Bai Er's grandmother spent her life in the company of ink, and she successfully kicked the two unreliable grandfathers out of the house. Despite this, Second Master Bai did not get angry, but sang in the courtyard: "I was forced to collect firewood and tears rained down." Lyrics. Second Grandma Bai turned her head and saw Second Master Bai's humorous appearance, and couldn't help laughing. Through humor, the tension between the couple is relieved.
The relationship between husband and wife is like lips and teeth, there will inevitably be conflicts and frictions. If both parties are too sharp, it can lead to injuries on both sides, thus destroying the original deep feelings. In order to resolve this contradiction peacefully, learning to compromise is key, not to be weak or incompetent, but to be open to love.
Wise marriage often embodies the perfect combination of rigidity and softness.
Bai Yingxuan was a kind old man in the eyes of everyone, but he was once angry with his wife. Bai Sanye saw that there were all vegetarian dishes on the table, and he felt a little dissatisfied in his heart, he remembered the taste of his wife's cooking in the past, and couldn't help but get emotional. At that time, Bai Er's grandmother had just begun to manage housework, and the family was in trouble again, and the quality of life also declined. In the face of no meaty food, Bai Sanye's eyes were full of grievances, while the eyes of the second grandmother were full of tears. Seeing this scene, Bai Erye put down his chopsticks without hesitation.
The man was angry only twice in his life, once to protect his wife and the other to keep his daughter safe.
In married life, a man's ability to hold his head high does not depend on his height or weight, but on his ability to listen beside his wife and open his arms when his children need it.
The definition of marriage is the same, if you want to get someone, you need to lose the whole world, and I am willing to give up this world because of you.
Marriages that depend on each other cannot avoid the impact of the word life.
If you want to describe the marriage of the Bai family's uncle, it is undoubtedly a tragic chapter in love**; Then Bai Xiaoyi and his wife are legends of love. The second master and his wife are regarded as the condor heroes in their dreams; Then, the marriage between Bai Ling and Sister Bai Ling is the most romantic love story in love. Bai Sanye's marriage is undoubtedly the most authentic appearance.
Bai Yingyu, also known as Bai Sanye, is a typical gentleman. Since he was a child, he liked to roam around the capital with a birdcage. In Sijiu City, there were almost no restaurants that Bai Sanye had never been to, and he even took his little nephew to look for the girl. He likes to spend his money in a good way and with good taste. He was a spendthrift and even more frivolous and unruly in his dealings with affairs.
Despite this, his marital relationship with Grandma Bai San shows an incomprehensible stability, and the young couple only talk about one topic every time they meet:
How can I increase my family's income?
Bai Sanye thinks about how to get rich every day, while Bai San's grandmother provides advice and strategies behind her husband's back, which makes them transform from a husband and wife relationship to a close partner, and it is their children who really benefit. Bai San has a happy and warm home, and Bai Er's grandmother lives a peaceful and beautiful life with her daughter and son. The essence of life is not as described, the wind and snow constitute the whole of life, and sometimes, living is the true meaning of marriage.
As Ye Xuan once mentioned:
In some cases, the origin of marriage is not just love, but also the most sincere interdependence. ”
There is a marital relationship where, although they may have lost all their passion, they will never be separated, because together they pursue a dream to protect their families: children who have not yet reached adulthood and elderly parents.
Such a marriage, although it may seem cold on the surface, is actually full of emotions. We can't ignore their existence, let alone question their value, because in their eyes, love is not the most important, and the real value of life lies in family.
However, money-based marriages seem to have a little more lukewarm.
Summary section. The ancients often said that after a hundred years of cultivation, one can walk with the ferry, and a thousand years of cultivation can make people sleep peacefully.
In every marriage, there is a unique fate. The beginning and end of fate, the beginning and end of fate, are all roots that can be traced.
In this bustling world, it is not difficult to find someone, but it is extremely difficult to fall in love with someone, and it is even harder to spend a lifetime with him. They all have their own lifestyles and life experiences, and they will all have a similar story, but their final outcome is different. Just like the Bai family's past three marriages, they seem to have determined the direction of the future from the beginning.
has become a warrior of love, no matter when, you should continue to move forward with love; In marriage, you need to learn to tolerate and understand, and know how to respect each other's differences. In married life, master the skills of both rigidity and softness, and you will realize that happiness is actually within reach; Life is a long journey, and marriage is an important milestone in it. When you truly understand the true meaning of life in your marriage, you have the motivation to move on.
Marriage is challenging, but you are definitely worth learning from.