Different people have different attitudes towards love, and the harvest will be different.
It has been proven that people who know how to enrich themselves in love will be more self-conscious, more attractive, and more resilient. Their love may be more real, deeper, and more beautiful. A truly intelligent woman understands that in the world of love, it is not only necessary to nourish others, but also to enrich oneself. They know that love is not simply giving, but mutual nourishment. If you want to give more love to others, you must first have enough love yourself. They know how to balance, they know how to give, and they know how to accept. I also know that only when my heart is strong, independent and rich can I bloom the most beautiful brilliance. 
Don't grieve yourself, enrich yourself spirituallyLove should not be synonymous with sacrificing oneself and seeking perfection. In love, a woman must learn to listen to her inner voice and respect her feelings and needs. Charlotte Brontë's Jane Eyre is an orphan with a humble status and mediocre appearance, but she never wrongs her soul because of this. In the presence of Mr. Rochester, she always maintained her dignity and independence. When Mr. Rochester proposed to her, she did not blindly agree because of her feelings, but expressed her thoughts resolutely. She said, "Do you think that if I am poor, lowly, unbeautiful, and short, I have no soul and no heart? You're thinking wrong! My soul is like yours, and my heart is exactly like yours! She is determined that she should be respected in love, and does not put herself in a lowly position because of her status to look up to others. It was because she was spiritually rich that she was able to earn the respect and love of Mr. Rochester, and also won herself a happy life. Don't sacrifice your principles to cater to the other person, and don't endure injustice for fear of losing. As Yishu said: "The love that truly belongs to you will not make you miserable, and the person who loves you will not make you suffer from gains and losses." "Women should be brave enough to pursue spiritual abundance, study, travel, make friends, and enrich their inner world. When love encounters setbacks, instead of blindly blaming yourself or indulging in pain, you learn to heal yourself and regain the joy of life. For the brave, love is only a part of life, not the whole story. A woman who learns to enrich herself spiritually can also have enough strength to withstand the storms of life. 
Do not rely too much on others, and enrich yourself in personalityIndependence is the most beautiful posture of a woman. In love, a woman should maintain the ability to think and act independently, and not be overly dependent on each other. As Shu Ting wrote in "To the Oak Tree": "I must be a kapok near you, standing with you as the image of a tree." "In the face of love, a woman should be like Kapok, standing side by side with her lover and growing together. To achieve personality enrichment, women need to cultivate their hobbies and professional skills to enhance their sense of worth. In this way, not only can we maintain equality and respect in love, but also win more respect and opportunities in social life. An independent and confident woman can exude charming charm. 
Don't overdo it and enrich yourself materiallyLove requires giving, but giving does not mean unconditional giving. Women must learn to give moderately in love, not only to care for each other, but also to know how to care for themselves. Don't neglect your material needs and quality of life because of love. As Mrs. Carnegie said, "The best way to love someone is to manage yourself and give them a good lover." "Women should enrich themselves materially, pay attention to dressing, maintaining fitness, and keep themselves in the best shape at all times. At the same time, women must also learn to be independent and have their own financial ability to lay a solid foundation for the future. A woman who knows how to enrich herself materially can maintain elegance and calmness in life. In the world of love, women have to learn to enrich themselves. Only when a woman maintains independence and self-confidence in love, both inside and outside, can she bloom with the most beautiful brilliance. Remember, love is a pas de deux, not one-sided giving and sacrifice. On the stage of love, every woman should be the brightest star. Enriching oneself in love is not only responsible for oneself, but also respect for love.