Many children seem to have violent tendencies and like to hit, bite, and push others, so what is the reason for the violent tendencies of children?
There may be the following factors: 1. Attract the attention of others, some children have a strong desire to express, and when they are not noticed, they like to do some small "violent" actions to attract the attention of others, such as hitting other children, grabbing the hair of adults, bullying small pets, etc. 2. Parents have a tendency to violence, and the root cause of the frequent occurrence of violent children is the problem of family parenting style and growth environment. In the process of children's growth, if the love and companionship of parents are not enough, children will lack a sense of security and trust, and they are prone to behavioral problems. If parents severely punish their children, reprimand them too much, or commit violence, children will develop negative emotions and even violent imitations. 3. The family is not harmonious, there are a few parents who behave uncivilized, the two sides love to quarrel, even fight, throw things, and over time children imitate their parents. Children will learn to use violence to solve problems. 5. The family is too doting on the child, and in many families, the child is a little emperor-like existence. In particular, the grandparents laughed at the children when they were slapped by the children, which indirectly recognized the children's unconscious violent behavior, which led to the strengthening of the children's violent tendencies. Children who are overly spoiled, because they have been surrounded by their parents' doting for a long time, do not know how to think about others, do not compare their hearts with their hearts, do not consider problems from the perspective of others, and are self-centered, selfish and self-interested. 6. Make up for the lack of language, some children may not be very good at language expression, and when they are "attacked" by other children's language, they cannot use language to "fight back", so they take some violent actions to defend themselves. 7. The requirements cannot be met, many times the parents are responsive to the children's needs, and suddenly when the baby's requirements cannot be met, some children begin to lose their temper, and even some violent actions.