What do you have? What do you want? What are you willing to give up?

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-03-07

HighThe role of people is probably like a handful of mung beans, you say that mung beans are nutritious or not, of course there are.

But like ** said, mung bean packs cure all diseases, that's a joke.

I'm not a good person, but I'm an experienced person, and if you say that I have a level of analysis, I can accept this evaluation.

But if you say that your stage success is because of my "green bean.""Then you're being funny.

Only those who pretend to be high-spirited will say that; Only people who lack independent thinking think so.

At the end of the day, what you have, what you want, and what you are willing to give up, none of these three can be given to you by outsiders.

LookIn history, most people always like to substitute a macro perspective, focusing on the changes of monarchs, ministers, merchants, and dynasties, and rarely substitute the perspective of ordinary people.

Actually? Even if we travel to ancient times with modern knowledge, we will most likely start from the role of digging pits at the bottom, and we will not be able to reach those people at all, let alone reverse the outcome of history.

Therefore, we ordinary people should love the people around us, the specific people, love ourselves, and don't always pay attention to those grand narratives.

Those things are too far away from oneself, and if you don't pay attention to them, they won't have much impact on you.

forWhat are some people who are busy every day, but still don't make much progress?

Because they didn't find their core problem.

Every day, I struggle with small details and spend my time on small things that have little to do with the main goal.

To play a game, you must first clarify the main quest, have a clear upgrade direction, and dungeons, branches, and hidden are all for the main line, and you can't dominate the main story.

It's the same in the game of life, you have to determine your main quest first, find a clear big goal, let all the little things serve the big goal, and leave the irrelevant tasks aside for the time being.

dayThere is nothing special about the child, every day is an ordinary day, and the meaning is the result of artificially giving the concept of this day.

From the concept of timeline, for people, every day is your youngest day, so that this day is worth it and not wasted.

SinceYour time and energy should be spent first on things that enrich you, rather than focusing on the mess of others.

Be aware of setting a price for your time.

For example, an hour is worth 100 yuan, so it is not cost-effective for you to squat for an hour in order to grab a 5 yuan coupon or a reduction of more than a dozen yuan; It is even less cost-effective to use it on bad people and bad things, and it generally has to be paid upside down.

fromThe little ones who were taught to eat the rotten ones in a box of fruits first and then eat the good ones, and they also felt that the life of bitter and sweet first was correct.

Actually? There is no need to be superstitious about other people's life templates, whether it is bitter first and then sweet, sweet first and then bitter, what you encounter, you can feel.

You have to be bitter first and then sweet, and when you finish eating bitter, the sweet may also become bitter.

Therefore, whether it is bitter or sweet, it is a part of life, which one to eat and which one to eat, and live in the moment.

RightOne of the ways to resist the uncertainty of life is to learn to think, start writing, and be diligent in taking notes.

Writing and speaking are the processes of concretizing thinking.

Even if you write a three-five cross every day and record for a minute or two, you can gradually help yourself think more organized.

In addition, as the amount of output decreases, you will actively input various information to strengthen your thinking skills.

Good luck and wake up soon!

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