2024 Chinese New Year outlook
Odd! What happened to all the only children now? No marriage, no barrenness, no communication, no chatting!
My son has been home for the past two years, and he only returned home at three or four o'clock in the afternoon of the Chinese New Year's Eve, and the train at eight o'clock in the morning on the seventh day of the first lunar month last year was the train at one o'clock in the afternoon on the sixth day of the first lunar month this year.
I never wanted to stay at home for a second longer, and I don't know what's wrong with my son?
Son, 98 years old, went to university in Zhenjiang, Jiangsu, and found a job in Zhenjiang after graduation, let him go back to his hometown and not go back, let him take the civil service exam, let him go to Nanjing nearby, let him go to Hangzhou, he didn't go, just stay in Zhenjiang, earning a salary of 5500+ after tax, which is really embarrassing!
In the past few days, when he went to his aunt's house to visit relatives, he called his aunt, and then he didn't have anything to say, others asked, answered, others didn't ask, he lowered his head and looked at his phone.
The nieces who provoked them all complained about me, saying that your baby is not angry when you ask?
I'm speechless.
I don't know when my son became like this?
From childhood to adulthood, his son is "someone else's child" in the eyes of others, he has studied well since he was a child, obedient, well-behaved, and from childhood to adulthood, he was in the top three, until he graduated from high school and was admitted to university.
Although the university I was admitted to was not ideal, it was fortunate that it was also a university.
After being admitted to university, he didn't communicate with us much, so much so that in the four years of college, I didn't know how he studied, in my husband's words, "I didn't study hard at all, or I didn't even get into graduate school"!
After graduating from college, my son was introverted and his language skills were not good, and he repeatedly hit a wall in interviews.
The salary is not too ideal, but my son is just stuck there, which really fulfills my husband's words, don't you dare me to work hard for you to finish college, you don't earn as much as me."
My son really doesn't earn as much as my husband!
But what can be done?
We can't find a good job for our son!
My husband always complains about me, you still don't find a daughter-in-law for your son? How long are you going to keep him waiting?
The key is to go home for a few days and then find it for your son? Is there a girl waiting there for your son to go on a blind date?
I asked my son, and he said he didn't want those things yet. Q: Where are you going to buy your house?
The son who asked was anxious and said that he didn't want those things yet!
People who are the same age as my son are married, but my son says he doesn't want those things yet!
It's really that the emperor is not in a hurry, and the eunuch is in a hurry!
My son is an only child, for more than 20 years, my husband and I have spent all our efforts on him alone, what is delicious, what is good to wear, are close to him, the school he attends, from elementary school, junior high school, high school, are all good schools, I thought that after he graduated from college, it would be smooth sailing, but I didn't expect it, but this is the result!
People don't learn as well as him, they all mix better than him, and I don't have anything to say, and I can't figure it out!