**10,000 Fans Incentive Plan "When children go to kindergarten, do they need to know words? ”
When I first heard this sentence, I shook my head a hundred times, knowing the dangers of advanced education, and I didn't want parents to "chase the wind" and make children too stressed. But when my own child was a year later, my opinion changed, and I think every parent should listen to me, and you may also have a big change in this matter.
My children have been brought by the elderly more since childhood, because I am busy with work. My mother-in-law, a retired teacher, has always been at odds with me on the issue of teaching children literacy.
She thinks that if children know some words in advance, it will be much easier to go to first grade, and it is not easy to get bored with school. And I think that advanced education is to stifle all children's imagination, and it should be"Stop".
But my mother-in-law didn't listen to my rhetoric, and when I was at work, she would teach her children to read and write, and bought some picture books for her children, she read, children listened, children talked, and she listened. Looking at the harmonious backs of the two of them, I didn't say anything in person, and I chatted with my husband several times, but he also said that there was no way.
After all, we are too busy with work to take care of our children. The old man helped take care of the children, how could he still dislike it?
But I always thought in my heart that I owe my child, and if I had time, he should be able to enjoy a better childhood, at least without being forced to read.
This feeling of guilt is still felt until the child enters elementary school. But after a semester, I found that my worries in the first three years were superfluous, because the child often gets praise from the teacher, even the usual homework, is double +, I don't have to worry about studying, I can read the questions by myself when I do the test papers, and I also got the certificate!
I think that even if my mother-in-law teaches her children to read, it is only a small part of the factors, and my children themselves are talented and intelligent, which is the key, right?
But once when I sent my children to school, I met my neighbor Sister Li who also sent the children, and after she complained to me, I realized how wrong I was. If I hadn't had my mother-in-law teaching me literacy in advance, it would have been difficult to have the children I see today who are excellent in all aspects.
Sister Li said that she usually takes care of her children by herself, because she doesn't want to educate in advance, so she has never taught her children to read, and when she is in the first grade, she finds that without literacy, the children can't keep up at all.
Now a semester of courses are almost over, the child still does not know, every time he gets the test paper, he needs his mother to read the question more than a dozen times, he can write a word, often write homework at night until midnight, no energy during the day, and do not want to go to school.
Sister Li said that if she knew earlier, she would have let her children read and write in advance. At that time, I thought that I would let my child play carefree, but now I can't keep up with my studies, so I know that it is difficult. I reported a lot of reports for the summer vacation class, and I made up for the child's evil to see if it had any effect?
While sympathizing with Sister Li's experience, I felt that I was really wrong to blame my mother-in-law, bought a bunch of fruits and vegetables that my mother-in-law loved to eat after work, made a hearty dinner for my mother-in-law, and admitted that my previous opinion was wrong, and thanked my mother-in-law for educating her children.
The mother-in-law said that she has been a primary school Chinese teacher for 20 years and knows the importance of literacy to children's learning. You young people think that we old people have babies and don't understand anything, but in fact, we also have a basis to do this.
Children who do not have a literacy foundation before entering primary school face three problems:
Unable to complete homework independently, parents need to read the topic, do not understand the topic well enough, and it is easy to have an escape mentality;
After entering primary school, it is easy to lose interest in the new environment and new learning methods;
Children with poor grades will have an inferiority complex, difficulty getting along with classmates, and poor social skills.
Listening to my mother-in-law say this, it really makes sense, the old teachers are not "wasted", they are real. Taking advantage of the meal, I asked my mother-in-law how she taught her children to read, and also took out the "secret**" of her teaching children to read, and taught it to Sister Li the next day.
A week later, Sister Li called me ** and said that the child is now very interested in learning, will take the initiative to write homework, and will take the initiative to ask for advice when encountering words that he does not know, compared to the previous "homework will be sleepy", it is simply a different person, and thank me for recommending the "secret**" said that she will also go to tell other parents in need to help children increase literacy and overcome the difficulties of kindergarten to primary school!
In fact, my mother-in-law used a very interesting "flip book" to help the child improve his interest in literacy and successfully increase his literacy. This book is "Children's Literacy 1600 Words Three-dimensional Flip Book", a book can be thoroughly understood, and 1600 common words will be mastered, which is enough to cope with the learning of the first and second grades of primary school.
This set of books is different from the stereotypical language books, which have page-turning, small organs, and vivid pictures, which can fully mobilize children's visual and tactile senses, and achieve the effect of tripartite coordination of hands, brains, and eyes.
When children open this book, they have been attracted, the content is a common thing in life, very vivid images, such as our body, overturning the house, overturning the car, my home, school, etc., the child is already passively learning and absorbing knowledge in the process of reading the content.
Each chapter is very detailed, such as the theme of "Our Body", which allows children to better understand their own little body and recognize some Chinese characters related to the body through the intuitive visual experience of the eyes, nose, mouth, ears, organs and other parts.
There are more than 1,600 words in the book, all of which are high-frequency words, that is, we can use them in our lives.
If your child is also in kindergarten, it is recommended to start with a very practical copy, which will be loved by your child. A book can be used for three years, and the utilization rate is very high. Place your order now and get a reading manual and literacy card as well! I put the link above, Mom and Dad quickly took it away, recommended by a primary school Chinese teacher with more than 20 years of teaching experience!
Fragmented thoughts: Ms. Montessori believes that early education is not only the education of infants and young children, but also the education of parents and caregivers. As the main caregivers of children, we really have to take the main responsibility, so that children can be consistent with others' starting line from an early age, learn in a fun way, lay the foundation, do not rush or lag behind, and cultivate sound children, after entering primary school, it will be much easier!
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