If you want a girl to be afraid of you leaving and spoil you like a treasure, you must be able to operate the following three operations.
01 Show value
There are two kinds of this value, one is your advantage value, which girls can see at first sight.
For example, you are handsome, your thinking logic is strong, your popularity is good, and girls are strong, and these advantages on your body are discovered by girls, which will cause them to worship.
Then you will become a sweet and sweet in their eyes, and she not only does not want to leave you, but also wants to take you for herself as soon as possible.
There's also your scarcity value.
Only by truly understanding the scarcity and expectation of girls in their subconscious can we truly open the door to girls' hearts.
For example, the girl you like likes to show life, then you happen to be able to take pictures, the girl you like pays attention to the family atmosphere, and you happen to be able to cook, these will become your irreplaceable scarce value.
When you can identify the real needs of a girl's heart and can meet her needs, you are a high-quality treasure that she is unwilling to give up.
02 Reduce the sense of need
Your sense of need is too strong, revealing everywhere that you can't do without her, and those who are favored have no fear, and the ending is that she is like a fish in water in love, and you are trembling there, for fear that doing something wrong will cause disgust.
This state of strong demand will greatly reduce your attractiveness, so how can people be afraid of losing you?
So usually, you have to divert your attention appropriately, and go busy with your career to earn money, it's not fragrant.
The sense of need, you are strong and she is weak, when the time comes, you want to please you, want to occupy your world, and the one who is afraid of you leaving is the other party.
03 Guide girls to give
If the cabbage you have planted for a year is arched by a pig, under normal circumstances, you have paid time and energy for this cabbage, naturally you can't see it just gone, once people pay, they will care about the final result.
Then we want girls to be difficult to give up, and we can't do without us, whether we should also increase girls' investment in us, and become the cabbage that girls have paid their time and energy, and even money to water carefully.
As for how? For example, let the girl help her look at the match, tell the girl that she has a bad stomach, let her supervise you to eat on time, find something to do for the girl, and then let her feel that your stomach has become better under her care, and the clothes have become better and more handsome under her influence.
She has put in the time and energy to participate in your life, and she has seen you get better in all aspects, is she willing to let go?
A girl's mind is actually really simple, and it's easy to die and live because of some of your small actions.