The student slept on the table in class, the teacher cautiously walked over to ask, the student deliberately misinterpreted the teacher's words, and hit ** to complain to the parents, the parents were very angry and ran to the school office to make a big noise. Controversy Project
This is a scene that happened in a school in Guangdong recently. In desperation, the math teacher involved had to apologize to the parents in order to calm the situation. Hearing about this, the author is quite touched, and I will share it with you here.
Coordinates in a city in Guangdong, a public junior high school in the urban area. Ms. Ye, who teaches 8th grade math, was in class when she suddenly saw a boy named Xiaohai lying on the table.
Xiaohai's academic performance is average, he is a relatively naughty student, he likes to talk in class on weekdays, or secretly play some small actions, and he doesn't sleep much on the table. "What's going on today? Teacher Ye thought to himself, "Is he not feeling well?" ”
She quickly stopped lecturing, walked to Xiao Hai's side, patted Xiao Hai's head gently, and asked softly, "What's wrong with you?" Sick? Unexpectedly, Xiao Hai stood up suddenly, pointed at Teacher Ye's nose, and shouted hysterically: "Who do you say is sick?" You're sick! You're not sick! ”
What the? Teacher Ye was stunned. She hurriedly said, "Okay, okay, you sit down first, don't affect the class, let's talk about it after class." Xiao Hai glared at Teacher Ye fiercely, sat down, and lay on the table again. Teacher Ye had no choice but to turn around, walk onto the podium, and continue the class.
In the next session, Mr. Ye did not have a class, so he corrected his homework in the office. It's quiet in the office, and colleagues are busy with what they're doing. A parent walked in in a rage and shouted, "Who is Teacher Ye?" What are you? How dare you bully my child! ”
Teacher Ye was stunned for a moment, and when he looked up, he saw that it was Xiaohai's father who came. It turned out that Xiaohai called his father a ** complaint when he got out of class, and Mr. Ye, who taught mathematics, knocked him on the head in class, and scolded him, saying that he was sick. Xiaohai's father, Mr. Chen, was angry and immediately rushed to the school.
Teacher Ye stood up. Before she could speak, Mr. Chen grabbed her hand and asked her to go to the principal's office to reason. When he arrived at the principal's office, Mr. Chen made two requests:1Xiaohai was beaten and had to go to the hospital for a CT examination, and Mr. Ye had to bear all the costs; 2.The teacher beat the students and insulted the students in class, and wanted to go to the classroom to publicly apologize to Xiaohai and him.
Mr. Chan threatened that if Mr. Ye could not do it, he would report it to the Education Bureau and tell him to get out of school. The principal poured a glass of water for Mr. Chan and asked him not to be impatient and not to be biased. He called the head teacher and randomly called 5 students from the class to the principal's office.
According to the description of the five students, Mr. Ye just patted Xiaohai's head gently and asked him if he was sick, and his tone was very soft, not scolding at all. Hearing the student say this, Mr. Chen didn't have a seizure anymore, but he still blamed the teacher for speaking in the wrong way, and was prejudiced against Xiaohai, so he took the opportunity to rectify him and insisted on an apology.
The principal suggested that Mr. Ye apologize to Mr. Chen on the spot and promise not to make an example. Teacher Ye was very helpless, so she had to bow deeply to the parents and say "I'm sorry", and the parents turned their heads and walked away.
Students disobey the teacher's management, deliberately distort the facts and report the crime, parents listen to and believe the school, and the principal calms down the matter and wrongs the teacher. This is a common incident that happens on campus, and looking at this incident, who is right and who is wrong? The author's opinion is as follows.
Students are not satisfied with the management and their conduct is worrying. Xiaohai is an eighth-grader who is in the midst of a rebellious youth. He has an average academic performance and misbehaves on weekdays. A scene that happened in the classroom was clearly a sign of disobedience to management. What's even more hateful is that he not only disdains the teacher's management, but also finds a reason to bite the teacher back, and maliciously sues the parents.
Parents are biased and confused. Mr. Chen listens to the wind and rain, and listens to Xiaohai partially, not only does not teach strictly, but pampers him. When Xiaohai "sued the black", he rushed into the school and made a lot of noise without analyzing it and blaming the teacher. He is a confused person, and what he does will only harm Xiaohai. As the saying goes, if there is a father, there must be a son, and Xiaohai's current situation is directly related to his father's quality.
The principal calms things and wrongs the teacher. The principal in this incident had advantages and disadvantages. The advantage is that he did not listen to Mr. Chen's words, but found students, restored the truth of the incident, and defeated the arrogance of parents. The disadvantage is that in order to calm things down, he suggested that Mr. Ye apologize to the parents, which will cause passivity to the teacher's follow-up work.
The teacher is polite and courteous, and there is nothing to blame. When the students were found sleeping in class, Teacher Ye stepped forward to inquire with a concerned attitude, which was to fulfill the teacher's educational duties. When the student disobeyed the discipline and made trouble unreasonably, Teacher Ye asked him to sit down and talk about it after class, which reflected her overall view. In the face of the parents' unreasonable trouble, Ms. Ye listened to the principal's advice and apologized to the parents, which shows that she is a tolerant and open-minded person. The author believes that Mr. Ye's behavior is beyond reproach.
The healthy growth of students requires the joint efforts of many parties. Only when students are strict with self-discipline, parents understand, support and cooperate with the work of teachers, principals vigorously safeguard the rights and dignity of teachers, and teachers hold out a sincere heart and teach and educate people with sincerity, can we create a good environment for the growth of students. Otherwise, no matter which link goes wrong, it is the students who will suffer. Personal opinions, welcome comments.
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