Since ancient times, families have had scriptures that are difficult to read, and sometimes it is not only difficult for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along, but also contradictions and unfairness between husband and wife. This happened to me and it made some changes in my attitude towards my husband.
After I got married, I chose to become a housewife, mainly to be able to take care of the children and household chores. My husband is the only breadwinner**, and although he is well paid, I know how hard it is for him to work outside the home, so I try not to burden him as much as possible. Every day, I make dinner and wait for his return, and I also take my son to do the housework. Although these are my responsibilities, I also feel stressed once in a while. However, the husband does not seem to realize this and ignores the housework. When he got home, he sat straight downSofaI watched TV, washed up and went to bed after eating, and I had to rush to wash my clothes and wipe down the floor before my kids went to sleep.
I can tolerate this situation, after all, everyone will be negligent when they are busy, and when they are hungry. But there is one thing that I have never been able to understand, and that is the issue of providing for the elderly of both of our parents. Since both parents were old and had no one to take care of them, it all fell on our shoulders. In order to cope with this problem, my husband and I discussed it and decided to give a certain amount of money to both parents every monthlifeFee. However, my husband insisted on giving his mother 2,000 yuan despite my objectionslifefee, and only give my parents 500 yuan. The reason is that my parents have a lower level of consumption and don't need that much. I'm very angry about it, but there's nothing I can do to change it. My parents also knew about it, and they didn't blame my husband, they just told me to live my own lifelife
Three years have passed, and an unexpected change has left my husband deeply regretting. My old house was demolished and I got the property and compensation money to make my parents'lifeThe level has improved a lot. According to my parents, they are ready to put all the properties in my name on them, indicating that it is my personal property and has nothing to do with my husband. My husband initially approached me about a house for my mother-in-law to live in, but I refused without hesitation. If the husband was in the assignment at the beginninglifeI took the time to treat my parents fairly and was not partial, believing that my parents would give us the title to the house, but now, all the properties have been handed over to me, which shows that in my parents' minds, they do not have a very good opinion of their husband.
Hearing my answer, my husband felt a little remorseful. He understands the consequences of his unfairness and partiality, after all, he has done a lot for my family over the years. However, things have developed to this point that the husband is irreparable. Although he regretted it, nothing could be changed. Maybe this story is a wake-up call for everyone, no one can ** the future, it is appropriate to treat your family fairly and justly, and don't let yourself regret it.
Looking back on my own experience, I am deeply aware of the importance of fairness and cherishing my family. A family is the result of the joint efforts of everyone who makes up a family and should beFamily membersThe relationship between them is based on respect and equality. As I've experienced, a little bit of partiality and unfairness can have a huge impact and regret in the future.
For the husband, he is distributinglifeThe time-consuming unfair treatment made him regret it again and again, and he also realized his problems in the family. This brings me to an important point: in ourlifeshould try to treat family members fairly and not do anything partiality or injustice. Although every family's circumstances are different, we should all be responsible for the rights and well-being of our families.
To sum up, the family is the most important component of every person, and we cannot destroy this cornerstone because of a momentary illusion. In our family, both as husband and wife and as children, we should try to be fair and cherishing. When allocating family resources, the needs and rights of each person should be taken into account, and nothing will be done that is biased or unjust. Only in this way can our families remain stable and happy. Let's work together to create a better future for our families.