We often complain, "This is how it should be." ”
It seems that a person's bad luck is that God is playing tricks on himself.
In fact, providence is human will. God will not let a positive person be unlucky, nor will he let a person who has done a lot of evil good luck.
Even if those villains have good luck, it is temporary and cannot go to the end.
On the road of life, there will be many inflection points, and at each inflection point, you will meet different types of people. If you can push yourself with the help of others, it's time to run.
In "West Lake Episode II", a person named Han Rong was written, who went from ordinary ** to prime minister. During this time, there were several moves that he almost made wrong, but fortunately he stabilized himself and turned the situation around.
From Han Rong's life, we can find some laws of transshipment, which are worth learning from.
First, when we are arrogant, we are willing to listen to the advice of others, which means that we have begun to turn away from evil.
After the Anshi Rebellion of the Tang Dynasty, the lower reaches of the Yellow River made the troops self-respecting.
Han Yun commanded fifteen states in Huainan and Jiangnan, and was named the Duke of Jin. In normal times, he hoarded grain and grass, trained soldiers and horses, recruited capable people, and his power continued to expand.
He often thought that it would be nice if he dominated one side and became a king. With this idea, he built Runzhou as a central city and built the Shuai Mansion.
There was a local merchant named Li Shun, who took a letter and said to Han Yun: "This is given to you by the gods." ”
The content of the letter is incomprehensible to everyone, because it is the text of the Xia Yu period. Han Yun was very angry and thought that Li Shun was fooling him. But he still searched for the master of writing and deciphered the lettersSue Han Yun, be respectful, don't act rashly.
No matter how powerful a courtier is, he can't regard himself as the Son of Heaven, otherwise there will be arrogance. Han Yundai was empowered, and since then he has dispelled the idea of rebellion, governed the local area wholeheartedly, and adopted measures such as appeasing the people and equalizing taxes.
The ancients said: "If the heavens want to die, let them go crazy first." ”Anyone who has ever climbed a mountain knows that once you reach the top, you must go downhill or you will be stuck at the top. Smart people, take the initiative to go downhill, not wait for others to drive them down.
When a person is getting more and more powerful, it is necessary to pay attention to the trend of "things must be reversed", life has reached the peak, in fact, it is an inflection point, not worth showing off.
If someone gives you a head start in the face when you are arrogant, and you are willing to accept it, it means that the calamity is near you and has receded in time.
Bad luck doesn't come, so good luck will naturally become the protagonist of ** life.
Second, when you are plotted against someone, you meet a wise person, which means that you will become noble.
During the Tang Dezong period, the general Li Huaiguang rebelled and invaded Chang'an. Dezong was forced to leave Chang'an.
Han Rong believed that Dezong had no fixed residence, and he should show his loyalty and build a strong city as the new capital.
It's a pity that he does bad things with good intentions. Some ministers who had a grudge against him wrote to him to accuse him of rebellion - to build Stone Town and plot against him.
At the critical juncture, Li Mi, the prime minister beside Dezong, stood up and said: "In recent years, more than ten states managed by Han Yun have been safe and sound, and they are actively paying taxes. ”
Li Mi also said: "Let Han Rong send food to the imperial court, if he obeys the arrangement, it will witness his loyalty." ”
When Han Rong received the edict of "accepting grain", he raised grain extensively, and asked his son Han Gao to escort the grain.
When his son Han Gao left his parents, he was reluctant and kept crying. Seeing this, Han Yun thought that "a good man, ambition in all directions", and blamed his son for a long time.
After that, the court trusted him even more.
The poem said: "Han Rong lost his loyalty and was personally responsible, and the Beijing master was exempted." ”On the road of life, you will meet many people. Some people appreciate you, some slander you, and some people secretly crush you.
It is inevitable to encounter villains, but how to get rid of the entanglement of villains should be brained.
As the saying goes, "Flies don't bite seamless eggs." ”
When a person insists on following the right path, even if dirty water is splashed on him, he is not afraid; It doesn't matter if someone slanders. A righteous person will eventually defeat a crooked person.As long as you maintain integrity, then the people who appreciate you will protect you, the moral people will trust you, and the bad luck brought to you by the villain will soon disappear from your side. Evil does not prevail over good, there is cause and effect.
Third, when you encounter a broken problem, you can calmly analyze it, which means that you have the ability to transfer yourself.
Han Yun had a man named Rong Yu under him, who was an official in Hangzhou.
There is another subordinate named Niu Yuan, who is always a fox and a tiger, and tries his best to reap benefits.
Rong Yu did not give a gift to Niu Yuan, which caused a conflict between the two people.
Taking the opportunity of Han Yun's birthday, Niu filed a complaint, saying: "Rong Yu traveled to the West Lake all day and got very close to a woman named Jin Feng. The most odious thing is that Jin Feng is a woman in the Qinglou.
Facing the fight in the nest of his subordinates, Han Rong thought for a long time, and then said: "In the Qinglou, there are also good women. ”
After some investigation, Niu Yuan's evil deeds were exposed. Since then, Han Rong has gained a good reputation for appointing people on the basis of merit, magnanimity, and understanding of his subordinates.
A person's luck is inseparable from his "cognition". A narrow-minded person sees the world only in a square inch, so he can only take a few steps in life; A person who is far-sighted sees the dynamics of the whole world, so he can see the big picture.
Smiles, a famous British political reformer, once said: "If the opportunity does not come, create it with your own hands." ”There are many things that others can't help but control. If something bad happens, someone will fan the flames. The bigger the fire, the more you have to be calm and give yourself a basin of cold water.
When a person knows enough, he has the bearing of "soldiers come to block, water comes to cover", and he can always turn danger into relief.
If you can grasp the dynamics of the broken things at any time and stop them from happening, it means that you have crawled out of the mud, or "out of the mud without staining".
Sima Guang commented on Han Rong: "His people sit in danger all day long, and there are no officials who dare to enter and leave without permission." ”To be a man, we must have a sense of distress, and when we are stable, we should see and guard against turbulent situations; In troubled times, we must have the wisdom of "responding to changes with change"; When you are entangled, find a way to get out.
Being a man, just like the sea, is calm on the surface, but the heart is all-encompassing, even if the stormy waves come, there is no fear, and you can usher in the beautiful scenery of the rain and the sunny sky.
A good fortune will not change fate, and a good luck will definitely be rich and expensive.
At any time, in any city, there are good things happening, and the key depends on whether you can grasp it.
I hope that we, in times of bad luck, will accumulate steadily; When you're lucky, take precautions.