I have read such a sentence: "A pair of chopsticks is gently broken; Ten pairs of chopsticks, firmly hugged into a group. ”In any family, there are chopsticks, and I also look forward to the unity of the family and make a career, so that the fireworks are becoming more and more vigorous.
When the child grows up, gets married, and has a few more pairs of chopsticks at home, the parents will be very happy. This is a sign of prosperity.
There is a historical story.
At the beginning of the reign of King Shang, he was very close to the people. Once, he got a pair of ivory chopsticks and brought them to the court to show off to everyone. The ministers were full of praise.
His uncle, Miko, was very worried, believing that this was the beginning of the demise of the country, saying: "Ivory chopsticks are precious, so you have to match them with beautiful bowls, tables, houses, and when you eat, you have to dress up beautifully." Brocade clothes and jade food are harmful. ”
Everyone thinks that Miko thinks too much.
Facts have proved that the statement of Jizi is "taking precautions" - the king of Shang was extravagant and was destroyed.
This is the law of chopsticks.
One meal is not enough to lose; It doesn't matter if a piece of clothing is a little more expensive. However, a spark can start a prairie fire. If you don't see the rules clearly and understand them thoroughly, the family will quietly slide into the abyss.
"Passionate about chopsticks": Too much desire is the root of family decay.
Many families are self-made and have experienced a very hard time. Especially in rural areas, just moving to the city to settle down is tired enough.
After we become rich, how should we live? If you get ill-gotten gains, will you be happy or sad? No matter what method is used, as long as you make money, it is a good thing. Such thoughts encourage us to take risks again and again.
** Heshen of the Qing Dynasty was also a good person at the beginning, active and responsible in his work, very hard in his studies, and was born in an ordinary family.
When He Shen was a waiter, there was a man named An Ming who gave him a piece of jade, hoping to be promoted. He Shen refused the gift and promoted An Ming.
Sadly, after An Ming was promoted, he did not go home to mourn, which caused He Shen to be affected and demoted two levels in a row.
When He Shen went to Yunnan to investigate Li Shiyao, he knew the benefits of receiving gifts in the officialdom, and also obtained some property that originally belonged to Li Shiyao. After enjoying the pleasure of wealth, the hands and feet become unclean.
He Shen failed, and his children and grandchildren also suffered, and the reason was that there was too much money.
Extravagant life, with the first time, there will be a second time, and the next, it will be countless times.
In society, there are many types of chopsticks, and the materials are very different. In addition to ivory chopsticks, there are also jade chopsticks, silver chopsticks, and gold chopsticks, and the value of chopsticks has risen sharply when they have been carved in various ways.
There are also people who like to show off their collection of chopsticks and look forward to getting other people's "famous chopsticks". If you have chopsticks used by the ancient emperors, you have to buy them back.
The knowledge of chopsticks has a long history. Similar situations, such as houses, cars, travel, earrings, bracelets, etc., can form a deep pit of desire.
How much money is made, and it is not as powerful as desire. The state of making ends meet is a sign of decay; Endless demands, too.
"Destroy the chopsticks": Blind stop loss will make the family lose even more.
If you leave money to your children and grandchildren, you may not be able to keep it; If you leave a book for your children and grandchildren, you may not be able to read it. Or in his own generation, it would be good to destroy the "chopsticks", so as not to let children and grandchildren compete for the inheritance.
A lot of people, in terms of stop-loss, do a lot of things. But the method is wrong and counterproductive.
In the Spring and Autumn Period, Zigong was a student of Confucius, good at business, and made a lot of money.
Uncle Duanmu, the younger generation of Zigong, relied on his family wealth and lived a good life, but he didn't know how to control himself, he was very extravagant in life, and he was very generous - giving alms everywhere.
According to the records of "Liezi", Uncle Duanmu entertained hundreds of guests every day, and most of the people in the country were benefited by him.
The gold and silver treasures in the treasury were emptied in a year.
Uncle Duanmu is very old and sick, but he doesn't even have a medicine fee. After death, the cost of the burial is made up by the neighbors. There are also some people who do not want to go and give back to their children and grandchildren the alms they have received.
Remember two sentences: if you go in the wrong direction, stopping is moving forward; If the method of stopping the loss is wrong and nothing is done, it is the right one.
Let's take an analogy. If you pick up gold on the road, you throw it away according to the rule of "don't leave it behind". By doing so, you save your honor, but you do it wrong—when a greedy person picks up gold, it will lead to a disaster.
The correct way is to hand over the gold to the police, and try to "return the things to their original owners" and avoid unnecessary entanglements.
Many people will tell you that if you get rich, go for almsgiving. This is not true, as the ancients said, "It is better to teach a man to fish than to teach him to fish." "The best way to help people is to aspire and find a way, not to give money.
Therefore, when you get ivory chopsticks, don't throw them away, break them, and don't give them away, but keep them and don't take them too seriously.
"Make good use of chopsticks": low-cost life, the family will continue to prosper.
There is a way, once it comes, it will be safe.
Make full use of the value of ivory chopsticks, live a simple life, and there will be hope in your heart.
There are two brothers who are very frustrated when their investment fails.
My mother said, "Don't worry, I still have chopsticks made of jade at home." If you really can't do it, you can exchange the chopsticks for money, and you can survive for a while. ”
After listening to their mother's words, the two brothers were in high spirits and restarted their business mode.
After a few years, the two brothers made a comeback. At the family gathering, my brother said, "You know what? Chopsticks are not jade, they are textiles. ”
The elder brother said, "I already knew, I thought you didn't know." ”
A lie from my mother brings hope and truly embodies the value of "jade chopsticks".
We always say, "A life of low deity, a noble soul." ”How exactly is it underweighted? There is no standard, it's just that everyone's realm is different.
Qing Dynasty writer Li Yu said: "People have the face of generation, there are matching clothes, and the clothes have the color of matching, all of which are certain and immovable." ”
At any time, a person's collocation should be compatible, and integrate with the times, family background, and customs.
When Zeng Guofan was educating his children,said: "The mediocre people in the world in ancient and modern times are all defeated by a lazy word, and the talented people in the world in ancient and modern times are defeated by a proud word." ”
When the family becomes rich, it can still stick to the original life pattern, which is the most valuable. Be a man, don't forget your roots; Take care of your family and don't forget your roots.
To be truly rich, on the one hand, is to make money all the time, and on the other hand, not to be proud of money.
In a family, everyone has a pair of chopsticks.
The change of chopsticks is the sign of the rise or decline of the family. If you want to thrive for generations, you must be good at spotting the signs and finding the best way to control them.
No matter how dark the night is, with a ray of light, you can go out; No matter how bright the day, with a grain of rat droppings, it can be ruined.
The reason is very simple, the key is to observe more, ponder more, and ** the future, don't indulge yourself.
No matter what chopsticks, their fundamental purpose is to "eat well", don't think crookedly.