Other people's weddings are joyful and full of expectations, Yu Haining from Shandong, but his wedding with his girlfriend Fan Huixiang was held in a critical care ward.
Fan Huixiang suffered from advanced metastatic adenocarcinoma of the thoracic vertebrae, and Yu Haining spent nearly 100,000 yuan to treat Fan Huixiang in the early stage, but to no avail, and now Fan Huixiang's condition is extremely deteriorating, and his life is coming to an end.
The relatives and friends present couldn't help but ask a question, "Since my girlfriend has terminal cancer and is in danger, why is the guy desperate to marry her?" ”
Doesn't he know that even if the two have a wedding, the final result will be sad? ”
Let's take a look at this touching love story.
Yu Haining and Fan Huixiang were originally a happy couple, they got to know each other when they were working in other places, the two rented a basement of less than 10 square meters and worked hard, and it didn't take long to save a sum of savings, they went to meet their parents as soon as possible, and chose a good day to hold the wedding immediately.
However, an accident completely broke the original plan of the two.
One day in November 2013, the temperature in Shenzhen dropped, Yu Haining and Fan Huixiang got up from the basement, got dressed and went to work in the factory, at this time Fan Huixiang suddenly felt pain in the lumbar spine and couldn't get up, Yu Haining thought that this was his girlfriend overworked, and asked his girlfriend for leave to let her rest in the basement.
But after resting for a whole week, even if Fan Huixiang took a lot of medicine and stopped all physical labor, his physical condition still did not improve, on the contrary, there were signs of deterioration, Fan Huixiang proposed to go back to his hometown in Henan to see the doctor well, and Yu Haining agreed.
Unfortunately, the results of the examination at Henan Cancer Hospital came out quickly, "Fan Huixiang was found to have metastatic adenocarcinoma of the thoracic spine, and it is still advanced." ”
Hearing that his girlfriend was suffering from such a serious illness, Yu Haining deliberately quit his job in Shenzhen, returned to Fan Huixiang's hometown with the savings he had saved, and stayed in front of Fan Huixiang's hospital bed to take care of her from then on.
During Fan Huixiang's recuperation, Yu Haining tried her best, and stayed in front of Fan Huixiang's hospital bed every day to serve tea and medicine to her, if Fan Huixiang was unwell, Yu Haining immediately went to call a doctor for Fan Huixiang.
During chemotherapy, Fan Huixiang's hair fell out, Yu Haining not only did not dislike his girlfriend, but also bought her a princess hat for her to wear, in order to make his girlfriend's condition improve as soon as possible, Yu Haining can be said to have done her best.
But the doctor still came to Yu Haining and told him an unfortunate news, "Fan Huixiang's illness can't be cured at all, and no matter how much ** there is, it is just to prolong her life as much as possible." ”
What's more, chemotherapy is a lot of money, it costs hundreds of thousands, so Yu Haining must think about it. ”
At this time, Yu Haining was in a dilemma, "If you give up, it means that the love between yourself and your girlfriend has come to an end." ”
If it continues, not only will it be bankrupt, but the final result will not change. ”
Yu Haining's final decision was, "Even if you spend all your savings, or even borrow money, you have to see a doctor for Fan Huixiang to the end." ”
This is because the encounter between the two is so touching.
The reason why Yu Haining never gave up on Fan Huixiang is also because their love story is really full of warmth.
One day in September 2009, 17-year-old Yu Haining came to work in a private enterprise in Yantai, Shandong, but met Fan Huixiang, who was of the same age in the workshop.
There are also some boys and girls of the same age in the same workshop, seeing that Yu Haining and Fan Huixiang both favor each other, everyone matches them as soon as they have time, and over time, the two pierced the window paper and became an enviable couple.
At that time, Fan Huixiang once asked Haining a question, "Are you serious about falling in love with me?" Yu Haining only replied, "I will only marry you in the future", and since then, the relationship between the two has become deeper and deeper.
I often see the two holding hands to commute to work, deliberately walking on the tree-lined path in the factory area, Fan Huixiang is holding a thermos box for the two of them, and Yu Haining is holding his girlfriend with his right hand.
The two chatted and laughed along the way, and took advantage of the slightly warm sunshine at dusk to walk the factory road less than a kilometer long and returned to the dormitory building where they lived.
After both parties solemnly said "goodbye", they went back to their respective dormitories.
Even if the two later resigned and went to Shenzhen to work, they were always concerned about each other.
Now that Fan Huixiang is terminally ill, as her boyfriend Yu Haining, who has loved her for 5 years and regards her as the pearl of her palm, how could she choose to give up at this juncture?
Yu Haining handed over all the 40,000 yuan he brought from Shenzhen to the doctor, and told the doctor to continue to serve Fan Huixiang**.
Yu Haining's parents in his hometown in Shandong learned that their son's girlfriend was terminally ill, so they took out all their savings of 50,000 yuan and handed them over to Yu Haining and asked him to renew the fee.
After having sufficient ** expenses, the doctor did not hesitate at all, and went all out to treat Fan Huixiang.
During Fan Huixiang's treatment, Yu Haining was not idle, he found a temporary job not far from the hospital, and went to work on time during the day, and as soon as he got off work at night, he immediately rushed to Fan Huixiang's ward.
Worried that Fan Huixiang would not feel well in the middle of the night and would get up at night, he simply spread a blanket on a blanket next to Fan Huixiang's bed, and would simply sleep on the blanket at night, almost only sleeping 4 or 5 hours a day.
However, Yu Haining never shouted tired, for the sake of his girlfriend, he was willing to suffer anything.
After working hard for a few months, perhaps because Fan Huixiang saw Yu Haining's hardships and couldn't bear to let her boyfriend continue to suffer, her condition actually entered a stable stage, and there was no further deterioration, and the whole person's spirit was gradually recovering.
This made Yu Haining feel very gratified, feeling that his efforts had been rewarded, and he worked harder, imagining that Fan Huixiang's illness would definitely be **, and the wedding of the two would definitely be held.
Unexpectedly, a pass in 2014 completely broke Yu Haining's calm.
One day in 2014, Yu Haining was carrying goods for customers, and suddenly received ** from his girlfriend Fan Huixiang, Fan Huixiang told Yu Haining, "She doesn't love Yu Haining anymore and wants to break up with Yu Haining." ”
After hanging up **, Yu Haining couldn't even take care of the goods, and rushed to Fan Huixiang's ward, and soon learned that the reason why Fan Huixiang proposed to break up was because her condition had deteriorated.
And the doctor told Fan Huixiang, "She won't live for more than a year." ”
She didn't want to be involved in Haining, so she could only make such a difficult choice.
In order to show his heart, Yu Haining did not cry, but went to the Civil Affairs Bureau with his household registration book and Fan Huixiang's household registration book, to get a marriage certificate for the two.
Because he felt that only in this way could he prove his love to Fan Huixiang.
Moreover, only after receiving the marriage certificate can the two become husband and wife in the real sense, and Fan Huixiang can become his wife in the real sense.
When they went to the Civil Affairs Bureau, the parents of both sides also accompanied Yu Haining, and they were moved by Yu Haining's infatuation.
Unfortunately, both people must be present at the same time to obtain a marriage license.
Fortunately, considering the sincere love between the two and the fact that Fan Huixiang was unable to attend due to illness, the staff came to Fan Huixiang's hospital and handled a marriage certificate for the two in the hospital ward.
From that moment on, they became an official husband and wife, Fan Huixiang never mentioned breaking up again, and Yu Haining also gave Fan Huixiang enough security.
However, the sincere love between the two still failed to exchange for a miracle.
Soon after they received their certificates, Fan Huixiang's condition deteriorated extremely.
His legs were bloated, he couldn't get off the ground, he lost his ability to take care of himself, not only did his hair fall out, but his complexion also became haggard, as if he had aged several years all of a sudden. ”
The pain in her lower back in the middle of the night also made it difficult for Fan Huixiang to sleep, even if she bit the thick quilt, she was in great pain. ”
In order to relieve his wife's pain, Yu Haining stretched out his arm in front of Fan Huixiang and asked Fan Huixiang to bite his arm if he felt pain, so that the pain could be shared by the two of them.
Although Yu Haining's approach did not play a key role, it also made Fan Huixiang feel a strong love in the difficult days.
Unexpectedly, a month later, Fan Huixiang's condition worsened again, and it had reached the point where it was difficult to even eat, her mental state was getting worse and worse, and she had less desire to survive.
At this time, Yu Haining realized, "Fan Huixiang may really be about to leave him." ”
That's when he made a decision, "to have a romantic wedding for the two in the critical care ward of the hospital." ”
One day in November 2014, after Yu Haining did all the communication work, he invited all his relatives and friends to the hospital ward.
Yu Haining leaned down and put a diamond ring on Fan Huixiang with his own hands.
Yu Haining asked Fan Huixiang, "Are you still satisfied with our wedding today?" ”
Fan Huixiang didn't speak, but she couldn't stop crying.
Later, under the guidance of the host, the two saluted their parents, and after all the ceremonies, it meant that Fan Huixiang was really married to love.
The relatives and friends present were all moved to tears, and some even muttered in their mouths, "This is the first time I have seen such a touching love." ”
However, only half an hour later, Fan Huixiang's body was a little unbearable, and relatives and friends had to reluctantly leave, Yu Haining took off her wedding dress for Fan Huixiang and let her continue to accept **.
Many people will feel that since the love story of the two is so touching, it must make Fan Huixiang maintain a good attitude, so that her condition will improve.
Unfortunately, tragedy is still on the horizon.
One evening in October 2015, Fan Huixiang suddenly let out a cry of grief in the middle of the night, and the doctor hurriedly came to the ward to examine Fan Huixiang, showing that Fan Huixiang's signs of life were very weak.
Yu Haining pleaded with the doctor with a crying voice, "No matter what, you must do your best to rescue Fan Huixiang", the doctor did not slack off at all, and immediately used various instruments for Fan Huixiang.
However, the miracle did not happen, and the tragedy soon came.
On November 17, 2015, Fan Huixiang closed his eyes and passed away forever, leaving Yu Haining, the man who loved him the most.
At this time, only a year has passed since the two held their wedding, and Yu Haining has not enjoyed love well, so he has lost the love of his life.
It was difficult for Yu Haining to accept this reality, and he cried in the corridor of the hospital, but it was Fan Huixiang's parents who came to comfort him to calm his emotions.
When the funeral was held for Fan Huixiang, he also knelt in front of Fan Huixiang's grave and refused to get up for a long time, as if his wife's death had taken half of his life, and everyone persuaded him together, and he returned home.
Later, Fan Huixiang's parents persuaded Yu Haining many times, "Now that her daughter is gone, Yu Haining is still in her good years, let him quickly get out of his thoughts about Fan Huixiang, find a new partner, and enter the marriage hall." ”
Every time he heard such words, Yu Haining shook his head, "It means that he will not remarry, and he also said that he gave all his love to Fan Huixiang, and he no longer has the ability to love others." ”
Now 8 years have passed, Yu Haining is still single, no wife, because of his handsome appearance and dedication to love, in fact, there are many single, well-conditioned women pursuing him and showing him love, but Yu Haining decisively refused every time, he said that he only had Fan Huixiang in his heart.
The only comforting thing is that although Yu Haining has not been able to miss Fan Huixiang, his own mental state has obviously returned to normal, he found a job he likes in his hometown in Shandong, and his monthly salary is paid, in addition to setting aside a part of the debt owed for his wife's medical treatment, the rest of the money is used to filial piety to the 4 old people.
With Yu Haining's efforts, he has paid off all the debts he owed, and then at least he can live without work physically.
Occasionally seeing his parents' temples gray and his health deteriorating, Yu Haining also thought about whether to open his arms as soon as possible to meet a new life, at least get married as soon as possible, and have a son and a half daughter to accompany his parents, but on the other hand, Yu Haining felt that "love must not be compromised, everything is fate." ”
However, even if Yu Haining has a new love and marries someone else, there is no doubt about his love and companionship for Fan Huixiang, and I believe that Fan Huixiang can relax in another world.
The story ends here, in fact, beautiful love is not necessarily vigorous, but like Yu Haining and Fan Huixiang, they accompany each other and take care of each other when they are frustrated, and when one of them is sick, the other party will never give up.
Moreover, adversity sees the truth, but the more difficulties encountered, the more it can reflect the love between two people, and Yu Haining and Fan Huixiang use their own practical actions to interpret the true meaning of love for us.
What do you think about this?