Dear Parents, first of all, please allow me to express my deep understanding of the care and concern you have shown for your child. Many parents feel helpless and confused in the face of their children's possible school boredom. But believe that with the right methods and strategies, we can help children regain the joy of learning.
Regarding the situation you mentioned that the child still has not finished his homework at 9 p.m., I recommend trying to understand it from the child's point of view first. Maybe it's not that he's delayed learning because he's addicted to games, but he's faced with some problems that he struggles to solve. Instead of yelling to express dissatisfaction, sit down and communicate with your child with peace of mind to find out the crux of the problem together.
At the same time, we need to avoid putting too much emphasis on how our children compare themselves to other children. Every child is unique, and they have their own trajectory and pace of growth. Excessive comparisons will only make children feel stressed and have low self-esteem, but will not really motivate them to learn.
In order to help your child improve his school boredom, I suggest you can try the following three methods:
First of all, give your child full trust and respect. Trust that they have their own pace and way of learning, respecting their individuality and differences. Don't label them as "stupid" lightly, but encourage them to show their strengths and strengths.
Second, build a more harmonious relationship with your child. Avoid yelling to solve the problem, but try to communicate with them in a more gentle and understanding manner. Make them feel cared for and supported by you, so they are more willing to listen to your advice and guidance.
Finally, give your child plenty of freedom and space. Don't interfere too much with their studies and life, but let them explore and grow at their own pace. At the same time, give them the necessary help and support when they need it, so that they feel that you are there and cared for.
I believe that as long as we face children's growth problems with a more open and understanding mind, they will gradually find the joy and meaning of learning under our guidance.
Thank you again for your trust and support! May we work together to create a better tomorrow for our children's future.
Best wishes!