1. Don't get married: Traditionally, the thirteenth day of the first lunar month is considered to be an unlucky day, so it is generally not chosen for such an important wedding as a wedding. It is believed that choosing an auspicious day to get married can bring good luck and happiness to the couple.
In the countryside, there is a very popular proverb: "The thirteenth day of the first month."HadesDon't, marry and do good things together". The meaning of this sentence is that the thirteenth day of the first month isHadesDeath day, but if you choose this day to proceedWeddings, will bring good luck and auspiciousness. Although this statement does notSciencebasis, but it embodies the good that people havelifeyearning.
2. Not going far away: In ancient times, going far away meant a long trip and a long time apart. Due toTransportationInconvenience and security issues, people generally choose auspicious days to travel to ensure thatPeaceand a smooth journey. Because the 13th day of the first lunar month is considered an unlucky day, people may encounter things that do not go well when going out, therefore, people will choose to avoid this day and choose other auspicious days to travel.
3. Do not move the soil and start construction: The thirteenth day of the first month is also considered to be a day not suitable for breaking ground and starting work. In some places, it is believed that there are adverse consequences for breaking ground and starting work on this day, such as construction delays, construction accidents, etc. As a result, groundbreaking and commencement activities are often postponed or avoided on this day.
4. Don't cut your hair and get a haircut: In some places, people believe that cutting and cutting hair on the thirteenth day of the first lunar month will bring misfortune and ruin to oneself. This belief stems from a superstition that cutting hair will cut off a person's good luck and wealth. Therefore, people will choose other days to get a haircut and cut their hair to keep themselves auspicious and lucky.
5. Don't move: The thirteenth day of the first lunar month is also regarded as Yang Gong's death day, and it is believed that moving on this day and other important things will have adverse effects. Therefore, people usually choose other auspicious days for the move to ensure a smooth and auspicious situation.
6. Don't talk crazy things, don't beat and scold children, and don't swear words: According to legend, Yang Gong said crazy things, which caused all his thirteen sons to suffer bad luck. Therefore, it is believed that on the thirteenth day of the first lunar month, one should remain humble and low-key, refrain from talking wild words, scolding children, and swearing, so as not to cause misfortune and bad luck.
To sum up, although the taboo of the thirteenth day of the first month is not traditionally notSciencebasis, but they reflect people's perceptionsPeace, happiness and smooth yearning. Of course, we can respect these traditions and beliefs, but we must also treat them rationally, not be too superstitious, and arrange ourselves reasonablylifeand activities.
Everyone wants to have an auspicious and happy onelife, especially at the beginning of a new year. For these taboos, we can choose to follow or not to follow, but above all, we are to be cautious and humble in our approachlifein all kinds of things, let yourself have a smooth and good future. Let's pray together in the new yearPeaceAnd happiness is always with us!