Recently, a group of Zhang Xiaofei's visits to Yang Mi on the Internet have triggered all kinds of speculation and discussion about Yang Mi. Topics about her have emerged on the Internet, some people say that she worships high and low, who is popular and plays with whom; Some people say that her relationship with people is just a general friendship, plastic sisterhood; Some people also say that she likes to stir up topics, who is popular.
As a result, netizens began to check Yang Mi's past social records and dig out the "ironclad evidence" and "iron triangle" relationship between her and Tang Yan. It seems that only by letting Yang Mi bear these "crimes" will they give up. However, I can't help but laugh at this. First of all, it should be personal freedom for a person to choose who to associate with. Celebrities are also ordinary people, can't they choose their own social circles?
Secondly, life is a journey of constant subtraction. We will meet all kinds of people along the way, but not all of them deserve to be on good terms with us. In a benign relationship that conforms to our own aesthetics and is consistent with our three views, we will naturally choose to continue to keep in touch. In the highly competitive entertainment industry, competition between individuals is inevitable, and even if the artist himself is unwilling to participate in the competition, the agency will let them join the arena. Because in this arena, the power of the individual is insignificant.
Moreover, what we see is not necessarily true. All kinds of "news" on the Internet have often been processed, and what is presented to us is not a fair and objective truth. Therefore, we should pay more attention to the works of celebrities and not dwell too much on their private lives.
As a public figure, celebrities also need to maintain good conduct and spread positive energy. However, these superficial friendships, loves, and gossip news do not necessarily represent a person's qualities. So we don't need to pay too much attention to these details.
As for us ordinary people, we don't have to interfere too much in the social lives of celebrities. We should pay more attention to ourselves, look at our social circles, and see who is willing to associate with us. The breadth and depth of a social circle reflects a person's social skills and relationships. Of course, this does not mean that we can only be friends with the rich people around us. Everyone has their own life situation and tolerance, and we should respect each other's choices.
Finally, how can we conclude about Yang Mi's worship of high and low? With a few **s or some public interactions, it's hard to draw definitive conclusions. After all, private interactions are private and don't need to be displayed in public. And those who socialize in public are often only superficially fake. So, instead of trusting too much on the surface, we need to know more about what's behind the scenes.