Some people say, "It's not the ability to punch out, but after the punch is out, it can be withdrawn." "It is true that the same is true of life, the first half of the life actively expands externally, and in the second half of the life, it is necessary to go to **. As a later of us, Huang will be ten years old, and in the future, what will he do desperately, it may be beyond his strength. "Those who know the times are handsome", according to the changes of age and the times, planning the life of the old age, is the foresight. In addition, many of the people who come after us have several brothers and sisters in their own generation, but our next generation is an only child. What do you rely on in your old age? This requires in-depth thinking and planning, and families with more children seem to be more anxious. Relying on oneself all your life is the basic concept, and it is necessary to implement it as soon as possible. Specifically, do the following things well, so that the evening will not be bleak.
Keep saving money and leave a deposit. When we were children, we probably felt "poor" and became industrious because of this. After all, the children of the poor are in charge of the house at an early age. I have done farm work such as planting rice and cutting rice, herding cattle, and chopping firewood. In the process of growing up, life is stretched, and I am used to saving money. Later, we worked part-time, did business, etc., and gradually became rich. There are even deposits of millions. Don't be happy, don't be generous, and continue to be frugal. Remember the old adage "From thrift to luxury, from luxury to thrift is difficult". When people are old and have savings, they can be prepared for all kinds of unexpected situations. Birth, old age, sickness and death, who can tell clearly? As long as you have money, you can save the day. Think about it, you only have one child, if you ask the child to give a large sum of money to redeem you, it should be difficult, or you have your own savings, so you don't worry.
Stabilize your job and retire smoothly. From a realistic point of view, the elderly in their seventies and eighties, retired and not retired, are not the same life. The old man who has savings, but has not retired, is still a little panicked, after all, he is sitting on a mountain and eating nothing. Having a pension is "for the source of living water", and the future living expenses are not worried. It is common sense that retirement should be considered from the age of ten, not at the age of ten. But after the age of 10, how to stabilize the opportunity for retirement is something to consider. Work hard, even if you take a back seat, stick to it. After the age of ten, it's really easy. You know, where you work, how much depends on your face, and you have to be wronged. I won't be very satisfied with that job. If you are patient and have a positive attitude, your work will go more smoothly, and retirement will be natural.
Strengthen education and let go of children. Families with children often take their children very seriously, and they are afraid of flying in their hands and afraid of melting in their mouths. There are also many parents who have prepared a house and a car for their children, and even found a way to work and live. Prepare everything for your child, and your child will often sit back and enjoy it. Think about it, Wei's children have all become losers, so what's the head. Therefore, don't get used to the child, but give the child more good education, force him to be independent and have a good small family. If the child has a chance, the parents will be at ease, and they will be able to live the rest of their lives without tossing because of the child.
Cherish fate and hold hands with your wife. When people reach middle age, they have a kind of feeling, whether they are good or not, and they can't leave. As a later day, our thinking is more traditional, and most of us will not get divorced. Therefore, it is not surprising that couples have been arguing for many years. But then what? Husband and wife have become wives, children have gone to work far away, family relationships need to be adjusted, and wives need to cherish more. Learn to bow your head, talk more with your wife, have a good relationship, and rely on each other for the rest of your life. When we got married, we also had love. Today we pick up love, which is not romantic enough, but it can be warm. Tinkering emotionally is not wisdom, bowing your head, admitting your mistakes, taking the initiative to reconcile, no longer socializing with friends of the opposite sex, and spending more time with your family are all ways to repair your marriage, don't always be stubborn.
Repair the old house, leave a place to live, hurriedly run away for half a life, and return to a home, you can't wander all your life, you can't live on the streets in your old age, how much after graduating from junior high school, you have to leave your hometown, but then we have to find a place to settle down for a long time, if you don't have a place to stay, you can repair the house in your hometown, you can also provide for your own age, if the conditions are good, there is a cottage in the city, you can live well, anyway, you have to have a house, don't find yourself on the day of retirement, you don't know to go** It is warm to live in your own house, after all, when the child grows up, the family must be separated, and you can't rely directly on the child's house to avoid the conflict of several generations.
Care for your parents, inherit the family style, and your parents should still be alive at the age of ten, so don't do your filial piety in time, don't "want to raise your son and don't wait for your relatives", and we will return it.
There is a worry, that is, whether the child will be filial to himself, after all, a child does not have too many choices, please believe that to be a good example of filial piety, children can understand, and will learn to have a good family style, each generation can do it, love the generation, educate the next generation, this is the pattern of generation prosperity.
Exercise health, health, happiness, good health, seventy or eighty-year-old life is not worried, after all, life can take care of itself, will not trouble, wife and children can also feel the joy of pension, after the age of ten years old, the body tends to decline, so we have to reduce overtime, not to stay up late, drunk, etc., develop good habits, and increase the self-discipline of exercise, the second half of life will start a new spring, people are sick, the whole family is uncomfortable, how can we let the child stay at home, parents have a good child, less stumbling.
Moderate socialization to retain contacts, for many people, after the age of ten social, to break away socially, can even go alone, but don't know that the break away is not to cut the social, but selective socialization, if there is no social in the future, the child has nothing to rely on their parents, it will become old, there is nothing wrong with relying on relatives and friends, it is not wrong to rely on relatives and friends in moderation, after all, there are many old watches in the big family, and they are not good at it, now most parents only have two children, and there is a child in the big family, how to let the children interact with each other, how to do it, move around more, the old table is also a good relative, do not use traditional thinking to people, and good friends, can move around more in the future, and can also become a family of connections, is the worldThe logic of making more friends and walking easier is more practical for families with children.
There are only two words on the big clock of time, don't think that the coming day is long, you must know that we also have gray hair after living in the present, don't think that you are still young, adjust your work and life feelings according to your family situation, etc., this is very necessary, always take precautions, in order to live calmly when the wind and rain come, go out with an umbrella, and go out in a happy old age, in fact, you are enjoying the fruits of middle age, not groundless, cloth and coarse food, pay attention to my text, enter your heart, the text with a picture** on the Internet.
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