In this rapidly changing world, we have all faced the dilemma of choice, as if standing at the crossroads of life, hesitating. Look, Zhuangzi and his old man have already given a unique guide to life-"Those who know what the sky does and what people do are the best"。To put it simply, it is necessary to know the boundaries of one's own ability, know what can be done and what cannot be done, which is the key to recognizing oneself. According to Zhuangzi, the source of wise choice lies in two things: one is to understand the laws of nature (we jokingly call it "reading God's mind"), and the other is to understand and conform to human nature (we might as well call it "Xiao Jiujiu who perceives people's hearts").
Imagine that you are like a little bird, if you want to fly far, you have to grasp the weather changes (know the sky) and find the best time to fly. In the same way, as social animals, we need to see the surrounding environment clearly and follow the trend, such as joining the workplace after graduation, which seems to be forced to do it, but in fact it is an inevitable choice to conform to the torrent of the times. It's like everyone is getting employed, and you can't be exempt from vulgarity, after all, "sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat". For example, in today's corporate jungle where the phenomenon of "involution" is serious, although you are unwilling to do so, you may also have to join this invisible competition.
However, let's not forget the wisdom of "knowing people" taught by Zhuangzi, that is, to deeply understand our own talents and interests, and to make the most of our strengths and avoid our weaknesses. In this way, even if you are caught in the rolling red dust, you can find a way to survive that suits you, so as to sail steadily in the turbulent sea of life. At that stage, you will find that the choice is no longer a burden, but a natural process, as you gain insight into the delicate balance between your inner needs and your outer conditions.
Next, let's make up how Zhuangzi might deal with the dilemma of choice if he lived in the present. Maybe he will humorously say, "Hey, friend, instead of twisting yourself into a twist between choosing A or B, it is better to figure out the starry sky above your head (Heavenly Dao) and the fire in your heart (human nature)." Understanding these two points, you are equivalent to holding the key to open any door, and it is not easy to choose which one to choose! ”
Dear friends, after reading this article, do you have any new inspiration on how to make a wise choice? Please remember that whether we are facing the trivial matters of life or the major decisions of life, as long as we understand the laws of nature and our own characteristics, we can find the path that suits us most in the complex reality. If you feel that this article is like a key to wisdom and has opened up a new perspective for you, please don't be stingy with your likes, favorites and shares! In the next issue, we will continue to dig into the wisdom of the ancients to help you write a more wonderful stroke in the script of life!